Feeling embarrassed about dating curvy girls

[jerrypua]

I want to say that I really like thick and curvy girls but when I do pick up i don't feel comfortable going to approach them because I feel kind of embarrassed.

I don't know if I was programmed that there's a certain stereotype of beauty. Don't get me wrong I also like blond, white and some skinny girls, and Russian girls which are my favorite and I have no shame or embarrassment whatsoever on dating these girls, but as I said before I also like curvy girls, and I would actually like to have experiences with them, even date probably be in a relationship, but I feel i'm repressing my taste for those women.

Why is my ego doing it?

[Leo Gura]

Probably because you care about how your friends will judge you. Which is of course just you judging yourself via them.

[GGG]

I can understand having issues with dating someone of another race/culture or having a big age gap, but this is some bullsh*t.

[Preety_India]

You look very curvy 

 

 

 

 

[Elisabeth]

Gender reversed, there's a lot of advantages to a manly shoulder that isn't just skin and bones, trust me  

[JustThinkingAloud]

2 minutes ago, Elisabeth said:

Gender reversed, there's a lot of advantages to a manly shoulder that isn't just skin and bones, trust me  

I love cuddly teddy bears 

[Fede83]

I agree with what leo said.

is always u projecting ur insecurity with ur friends words  which u identify on them..coz u believe already ,just accept there is every kind of human with different races,culture,shapes,bodies,color,and everything u wanna make up but in the end u accept them as they are not by judging them from a society perspective but from ur personal point of view ❤️ Let the love immerse with u,let the love talk by you ,choose with less severe criteria and more natural approach  

[jerrypua]

@Leo Gura Yup, what a pussy I've been.. Still concerned about the opinion of others

[TrynaBeTurquoise]

You're embarrassed about dating the sexiest of girls? Curvy to me usually implies in shape (depending on how curvy), some healthy meat on the bones, exaggerated feminine figure. Which is what a masculine man is most naturally attracted to, am I wrong here? 

Nothing to be embarrassed about. So many guys like curvy girls, actually I thought that more often than not, most men do nowadays, so there is no reason to be insecure. 

 

[TrynaBeTurquoise]

7 minutes ago, Mikael89 said:

Yes you are wrong.

No not most men.

Curvy is just a nicer word for fat girls. Fat/curvy girls are not attractive.

In fact skinny girls are more curvy than curvy/fat girls.

The way I think about curvy is slightly different than the "plus sized model" type. Which is probably what you are thinking about. So I could have used a better word choice. 

The way I think of curvy is athletic body type with wide hips but not quite plus size model status. 

[Forestluv]

Last week a friend of mine told me about a guy she dated. She is average size. This guy liked thick curvey women. She told me this was the only guy she ever dated that loved her weight and even encouraged her to gain weight. He genuinely loved her weight and thought it was sexy and beautiful. She told me he was the only guy she felt completely comfortable with her physical appearance and weight - and she misses that about him.

[Preety_India]

 Men are so predictable 

 

 

 

[Preety_India]

Just now, Mikael89 said:

Women are way, way, WAY more predictable.

[Lento]

@Mikael89

I'm attracted to both fat girls and curvy girls. They're not the same, and I'm attracted to both. To me, there's nothing better than a cuddly teddy bear ??

The athletic type of body varies in my opinion, I mean it can look sexy depending on the muscle and fat distribution.

It's a highly subjective matter, and you can program yourself to become attracted to whomever you want.

[Ananta]

5 hours ago, Mikael89 said:

@TrynaBeTurquoise I see. The majority of men don't like athletic body type women, since that's a masculine thing.

So, you speak for the "majority" of men here? And how many guys do you speak to on this topic?

Well, that's just not true. My son's girlfriend is very muscular and he loves it.

So, it's you that thinks its masculine, obviously. Stating its masculine, as if that's the truth for all men, when its actually just your opinion.

You probably think this, because you've said many times on this forum that you are feminine and anything more than a tiny skinny girl must make you feel even more demasculated.

[28 cm unbuffed]

all i want is hoes, big booty hoes ~Notorious B.I.G

[Lento]

1 hour ago, Mikael89 said:

Women are way, way, WAY more predictable.

Are you stupid, or just trolling? Or both?!

You always complain and whine about your bad situation in life, especially with women. Then you come here claiming that women are predictable? WTF?!

If they were, you would have ended up nailing one (maybe even more) every night. If they weren't, then you're full of shit. Either way, you shouldn't be here playing the victim, spreading your negativity all the time, attracting a lot of attention, and distracting us while you are not willing to help yourself.

It's called self-help for one reason, and that is to help yourself by yourself.

Get a life, man!

Edited November 28, 2019 by Lento

[TrynaBeTurquoise]

3 hours ago, Mikael89 said:

@TrynaBeTurquoise I see. The majority of men don't like athletic body type women, since that's a masculine thing.

Skinny, and hip/waist ratio is most important.

An athletic woman doesn't have to be masculine at all. An athletic woman is in good physical shape, which is naturally attractive to the opposite sex. A masculine woman, physically, would most likely be taking substances/compounds to build more lean muscle tissue than her body is normally capable of. A naturally strong woman who works out or plays sports is still going to have a feminine figure. Those man-like muscles don't happen without some chemical assistance in the vast majority of cases. 

[Leo Gura]

Men are attracted to all sorts of types. Which is why porn of every stripe exists. There are entire websites that cater to guys who like fat girls, skinny girls, tall girls, short girls, black girls, old girls, young girls, hairy girls, shaved girls, Asian girls, Muslim girls, Christian girls, even girls with dicks and a thousand other things.

The less people judge such things, the better.

[Joel3102]

I love thick girls, and not embarrassed by it, if it’s any consolation.