RoaldKamman

How much sex do you like to have in a relationship?

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Hey, 

Im just curious about how much sex people like to have in a relationship. I have only had one serious relationship and plenty of one night stands but I feel like I still might have to adjust some of my expectations a bit. My one serious relationship was with someone that could qualify as a nymphomaniac so we could litterally have sex all day. Waking up at night for sex at least once, when waking up, in the shower.... go some place cool, have sex before dinner, have sex after dinner untill we would fall asleep and repeat. It was fucking awesome but as I said I feel like I might have to adjust my expectation a bit.  Ideally for me two or three times a day when together sounds pretty good.

What do you think ladies and gents? 

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once a week. twice MAX.

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@RoaldKamman Sounds about right.    Did you notice any changes in energy or anything? 


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With my ex I had sex a few times a week, it wasn’t a priority. She wanted to do it more regularly than me.


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about 5/6 times a week if you are living together. Otherwise just whenever you see eachother ;) 

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@RoaldKamman

Depends on the relationship really. 

Ideally once or twice a day. 

It also depends on the actual chemistry you have with the girl I suspect. Like the actual cocktail of your hormones that you sniff on each other that makes you decide you should make baby's or not. 

I was fucking this beautiful African girl that smelled real good and we would fuck litteraly from sundown until the sun came up. Taking short brakes to rinse my dick in the sink. 

Then there have been girls where I am like, meh, I am fine skipping a day. 

In a long-term relationship it might go down to 4/5 times a week from my experience.

I am fine with once or twice a day, or whenever you see her. 

I am from Holland as well, and almost all girls go on the pill at 16, as you know. That makes things a lot better/easier.

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@Nahm I had more of it. might also be because I don't finish most of the times I have sex. 

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12 hours ago, RoaldKamman said:

What do you think ladies and gents? 

One of the disciples of Socrates asked his teacher, "My Venerable Master, kindly instruct me how many times a house-holder can have copulation with his legal wife?"

Socrates replied, "Only once in his life time."

The disciple said," Oh my Lord! This is absolutely impossible for worldly men. Pray, kindly prescribe an easy path."

Then Socrates said, "A house-holder can have copulation once in a year."

The disciple replied, "O Venerable Sir, this is also a hard job for them. You must prescribe an easier course."

Socrates then replied, "Well, my dear disciple, once in a month. This is suitable. This is quite easy. I think you are satisfied now."

The disciple said, "This also is impossible, my revere master. Householders are very fickle-minded. Please prescribe an easier course."

Socrates said, "Twice in a month. But this will cause an early death."

The disciple said, "This also is impossible, for they cannot remain for a single day without sexual intercourse."

Then Socrates- said, "Well said, my dear child. Do one thing now.
Dig a grave and purchase a coffin and winding sheet for the corpse before hand. Now you can spoil yourself any number of times you like. This is my final advice to you."

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@SFRL Holy shit I know right. Chemistry can be so right that you just cannot stop. I had one instance where this girls sweat would litterally taste sweet and delicious. And then I woke up and saw this golden diamond ring on her finger..... I had not noticed that before

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6 minutes ago, RoaldKamman said:

@SFRL Holy shit I know right. Chemistry can be so right that you just cannot stop. I had one instance where this girls sweat would litterally taste sweet and delicious. And then I woke up and saw this golden diamond ring on her finger..... I had not noticed that before

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Hehe...jij vies vies mannetje!! 😉

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22 hours ago, RoaldKamman said:

What do you think ladies and gents? 

3 times a week on average.

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Whenever the moment arises, once a week, once a month, once a year, it really doesn't bother me at all. Sex is fun in the beginning but as you grow as a whole it becomes more sacred and powerful experience you do it less often with more power and passion = greater the effort/reward :)

 

 

 


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Posted (edited)

If you manage to have sex 2-3 times a day after a two years of relationship you either both are nymphs or working tougher in the porn industry 😂

Please make distinction before and after the hormonal balance is back to basic :) That will guaranteed be different

Edited by cirkussmile

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It all varies from person to person and relationship to relationship.

There is no such thing as how much sex people have in a relationship.

For a couple who are new to a relationship, they might spend more time between the sheets and make use of every opportunity they get.

While for some,  a good healthy sex maybe perhaps once or twice a week may and suffice.  

There are many reasons that may affect the number of times you may want to have sex in a relationship such as responsibilities, work, timings, children,lack of privacy etc.

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1-3 times a week depending on how much we have going on. Fwiw I'm 37, married, and have a kid in the house. Kids make sex on the regular a lot more difficult. 

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