Muslim family wants to find me a wife.

[Husseinisdoingfine]

So a while ago, I posted this.

 

Welp, they're back.

My Aunt has been insistent on finding me a "nice Lebanese wife", because she wants for me to marry a woman who is a practicing Shia Muslim, as well as is Lebanese. I received a phone call from my Uncle that apparently they found a woman for me. She's a 100% Lebanese woman who works at some sort of health clinic. 

This woman's parents and family are very strict about religion and so my Uncle said that I was not allowed to "do anything" (have sex, kiss, etc...) until marriage. But they want to set me up and schedule with her family (not with her, her family) to have me meet with her with the supervision of her parents. We are both in our 20's.

Of course I declined and said I was not romantically interested, but I later agreed to meet with her as friends.

I'm sharing this because for you westerners, white people, and Americans, this is completely out of the ordinary for you all. 

[Someone here]

35 minutes ago, Husseinisdoingfine said:

but I later agreed to meet with her as friends.

great . Meet her and screen her up and down and find out if you are interested in her.   Be very careful here because marriage is a big responsibility and commitment .

What is your mindset ? What kind of relationship you are interested in ? Do you want to marry or just have a fuckBuddy or have multiple partners?

do you speak Lebanese yourself habibi ? I mean “nice Lebanese wife “ like Nancy Ajram drop dead gorgeous? lol

 

[Oppositionless]

Reminds me of my Vietnamese friend. I don't think he ever introduced his parents to his white girlfriend, or even mentioned her to them. They were together almost 2 years .

Edited 7 hours ago by Oppositionless

[Husseinisdoingfine]

46 minutes ago, Someone here said:

great . Meet her and screen her up and down and find out if you are interested in her.   Be very careful here because marriage is a big responsibility and commitment .

I will never even consider being in a romantic relationship or marriage with a religious Muslim because Spiral Dynamics Blue strict religious people are not too smart. Not at all. 

Their values fundamentally contradict mine, and so it will never happen. 

[Someone here]

9 minutes ago, Husseinisdoingfine said:

I will never even consider being in a romantic relationship or marriage with a religious Muslim because Spiral Dynamics Blue strict religious people are not too smart. Not at all. 

Their values fundamentally contradict mine, and so it will never happen. 

Okay so you’ve made up your mind ? A no? Then what do you want? 

[Carl-Richard]

Good to have a Plan B I guess.

 

50 minutes ago, Husseinisdoingfine said:

I will never even consider being in a romantic relationship or marriage with a religious Muslim because Spiral Dynamics Blue strict religious people are not too smart. Not at all. 

Their values fundamentally contradict mine, and so it will never happen. 

"I can fix her".

[Raze]

1 hour ago, Husseinisdoingfine said:

I will never even consider being in a romantic relationship or marriage with a religious Muslim because Spiral Dynamics Blue strict religious people are not too smart. Not at all. 

Their values fundamentally contradict mine, and so it will never happen. 

Try finding one that’s a closeted atheist like yourself 

[cistanche_enjoyer]

Oh no, my steak is too juicy, my lobster is too buttery