Why can't I stop hurting every time I get rejected?

[Something Funny]

Logically, I don't even really care and know that everything is okay and that I am making progress. But emotionally, I just feel so sad, empty, and alone. It hurts like a bitch.

[Kid A]

Because our minds aren’t adapted for the rejections we experience in modern society. Our emotions are adapted to a pre-historic society, where rejection was something that could lead to isolation and thus death. No wonder why it hurts like hell.

[Raze]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CW-CvGwRLX0 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1uHpPI3lz1Q https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DHfAMh6Edm4

[Hojo]

Because you are making fiction in your head and sabotaging yourself. Its very hard to do but this is what going with the flow means. Everytime you think about conversations you are going to have or think about other people when they are not there you are sabotaging yourself. It seems like you are preparing but its going to have a counter effect to what you want.

As a man when you do this you are confusing yourself we are trained to do it but not built for it.

The best thing a man can do is nothing. Especially with thinking about woman. Once you get traumatized you will go into thought spirals that sabotage you later.

You might think how can thinking about a person sabotage it but it will everytime 100 percent without exception.

The more you think about a date the more chances it will get fked up. The more lonely you get the more you sabotage this spirals fast. If you are interested in a girl and want to date its best to stay not interested. Just say to yourself not interested and you will be in better flow for real life.

Woman can do this kind of stuff men can't. Let them do it and you go play video games or something. Let them do the mind work.

Once you fall into this pit its hard to get out cause you actually have to do nothing to get out. And when you do nothing you spiral again cause you are lonely.

When you think too much it will show to a woman when you talk to her cause you want her to like you. She will clearly see you are doing it and won't like you because of it. You will be oblivious that you are doing it or be oblivious that you are giving tells that you are desperate for love.

This is a survival mechanism woman have. To be able to see these tells that you were thinking about them alot. This activity is threatening to a woman.

You are a logical creature diving into the realms of unlogical thinking and you will drown in it and go mad.

Edited 1 hour ago by Hojo

[Hojo]

@RazeThat first man is being way too aggressive.