Is this the evolution of polyamory? Aubrey Marcus podcast)

[aurum]

The course is definitely real.

I remember them promoting it with Layla Martin:

Skip to the end to hear them mention it.

Edited Saturday at 04:18 AM by aurum

[Leo Gura]

32 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

SHRED LEO, SHRED.

No interest in shredding. Just truth.

[MuadDib]

48 minutes ago, RendHeaven said:

Fucking gross.

Just pick one and stick with it.

Nobody would have a problem with his antics if he openly embraced poly with no overcompensation or rationalization or aggrandizing.

It's the weasel behavior of wanting the cake and eating it too while denying that this is what's going on (and thinking that he can get away with it all) that makes all of this so insulting

when vylana divorces his ass it'll be a community-wide celebration

This seems to be the prevailing sentiment.
(I didn't include too many instances where people repeat themselves, because it's a bit repetitive)
 

 

 

[Wilhelm44]

I know that Bentinho also put out a video a while ago talking about poly relationship he was in at the time. They deleted it the next day. Still havent seen any prominent male spiritual teachers make a properly nuanced video on sexual transmution yet.

 

 

Edited Saturday at 06:30 AM by Wilhelm44

[Leo Gura]

I can personally attest, psychedelics for romantic relationships can be very self-deceptive and delusional. Psychedelics mixed with romantic love and lust can produce delusional fantasies about your future. You will get fantasies about any girl you're with being your soul mate when she isn't. Relationships require grounded, sober, clear-eyed assessment, not New Age positivity. That positivity is not sustainable. Dealing with people is always a pain in the ass in the long-run because their survival agenda clashes with yours. Eventually Alana will stop being a doormat for Aubrey and grow her own agenda. When that happens it will shatter Aubrey's fantasy.

Aubrey loves Alana because she is too naive to question or challenge him yet.

Edited Saturday at 05:13 AM by Leo Gura

[Leo Gura]

Aubrey talking about how much he wants a 20 year old version of Vylana 2 years ago.

Then he finds Alana who looks exactly like 20 year old Vylana.

 

Edited Saturday at 05:29 AM by Leo Gura

[RendHeaven]

14 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Aubrey talking about how much he wants a 20 year old version of Vylana 2 years ago.

Then he finds Alana who looks exactly like 20 year old Vylana.

if aubrey just stfu and had a non-public open relationship from the very beginning with a girl who was down for that, then he could have his deep intimate emotional connection + new 20 y/o fuck buddies without breaking integrity or public lynching. Plenty such people exist where the public eye doesn't reach

But no he just HAS to dub both women his "beloved" and get all romantical with the side piece in front of his original wife's face and then post it online for everyone to see. just can't help it lol. 

[RendHeaven]

"m-must... show the world...! m-my... EROS!!"

- Aubrey Marcus, on his way to ruin his life

[Natasha Tori Maru]

40 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Eventually Alana will stop being a doormat for Aubrey and grow her own agenda. When that happens it will shatter Aubrey's fantasy.

Fucken bingo.

25 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Aubrey talking about how much he wants a 20 year old version of Vylana 2 years ago.

Then he finds Alana who looks exactly like 20 year old Vylana.

 

I just walked the dog and listened to this - thanks @aurum

I picked up on that as well. Audbrey went in and upgraded the model. Sort of like when a woman turfs a man who doesn't earn as much for a man that is wealthy. It's a brutally savage blow to a woman who is aging to deal with being dumped for a younger woman. Aubrey just wasn't able to dump Vylana outright due to his commitment to her. Youth is coveted by society. 

You see a lot of older women approach their 50s and turn into complete c*nts to younger women. And resenting men who are attracted to them. They cannot let go of the value they placed in their appearance, and suddenly experiencing what it is like to be invisible is traumatic. Their 'self' they built up for decades is being destroyed before their very eyes. They had no idea of the privilege they were existing with. It's so sad to see. But if many women had any awareness at all they would realize this - and really invest in mastery in other realms. Most realize too late. And half the beauty industry is aimed at targeting these women and exploiting their fear generated due to loss of identity in appearance.

Fuck though the end was weird. It felt so fucken rude man, Vylana suddenly inserting this guided orgasm experience out of nowhere. I'm being told about cumming and loving myself while watching my dog sniff another dogs arse. Reality don't get any more puzzling.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

No interest in shredding. Just truth.

I am just embellishing - bit too flamboyant with language.

I understand what you are about (mostly... as much as anyone can through text)

[aurum]

5 minutes ago, RendHeaven said:

"m-must... show the world...! m-my... EROS!!"

- Aubrey Marcus, on his way to ruin his life

He is a lifestyle influencer essentially.

People tune into this content not just for information, but for the Aubrey Marcus show. To watch what he is doing and to fantasize that maybe they'll be super rich and spiritual and fit and hot one day.

It's like reality TV.

[Wilhelm44]

Aubrey's issues are highlighted because he is in the spot light. But any guy who successfully wants to be in a long term relationship, would need to look into sexual transmutation of some form or another. This is probably the most nuanced video I have found so far on this subject.

 

[Leo Gura]

1 hour ago, RendHeaven said:

if aubrey just stfu...

But no he just HAS to dub both women his "beloved" and get all romantical with the side piece in front of his original wife's face and then post it online for everyone to see. just can't help it lol. 

That's the nature of narcissistic entitlement and self-absorption. It feels it deserves it and nothing is wrong, but is then shocked to discover that others don't share that bias.

One of the most profound things that Jordan Peterson has ever said is this: The narcissist wants the fruit of hard work without doing any of it.

We can extend that to say that the spiritual narcissist wants the fruit of self-annihilation without actually annihilating the self. Wants the adoration of Jesus/Buddha without doing what Jesus/Buddha did.

Edited Saturday at 07:30 AM by Leo Gura

[RendHeaven]

19 minutes ago, aurum said:

hot one day.

hot take but aubrey is not hot (visually), and I personally don't find his ladies attractive either.

they all have low body fat, that's about it. I guess in america that's enough to put you in the top 90th percentile due to everybody being overweight.

aubrey is loved by women because of frame/self-belief + status/clout/connections/access/lifestyle + sweet talking/knowledge of emotional triggers. As you know, women generally don't judge men by looks but go with emotions and consensus. By that standard, I suppose aubrey is "hot." 

But in terms of pure aesthetics, aubrey is bascially a genetically mediocre man who got shredded and tan + tattoos + TRT. Not to sound like a blackpiller but a facial analysis of him would probably spit out a 5 or 6 lol.

not that any of this discredits him or his ladies regarding their impact as influencers. I just find it interesting that not-hot people can still pull off the public image of enviable sexiness based on being slightly above average + emotional narrative, lifestyle, and cult aura.

[RendHeaven]

13 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

We can extend that to say that the spiritual narcissist wants the fruit of self-annihilation without actually annihilating the self. Wants the adoration of Jesus/Buddha without doing what Jesus/Buddha did.

this describes 99.9% of spiritual folk

[Natasha Tori Maru]

6 minutes ago, RendHeaven said:

hot take but aubrey is not hot (visually), and I personally don't find his ladies attractive either.

they all have low body fat, that's about it. I guess in america that's enough to put you in the top 90th percentile due to everybody being overweight.

aubrey is loved by women because of frame/self-belief + status/clout/connections/access/lifestyle + sweet talking/knowledge of emotional triggers. As you know, women generally don't judge men by looks but go with emotions and consensus. By that standard, I suppose aubrey is "hot." 

But in terms of pure aesthetics, aubrey is bascially a genetically mediocre man who got shredded and tan + tattoos + TRT. Not to sound like a blackpiller but a facial analysis of him would probably spit out a 5 or 6 lol.

not that any of this discredits him or his ladies regarding their impact as influencers. I just find it interesting that not-hot people can still pull off the public image of enviable sexiness based on being slightly above average + emotional narrative, lifestyle, and cult aura.

I agree with this take.

Theres that saying that floats around 'You're not ugly, just poor' Money or time-poor. Same shit here.

However, these guys just may not be your (or my) taste. 

[OBEler]

@RendHeaven He is 7. But if he would not go to gym, tan his skinn, bleach his teeth he would be a 5-6.

 

 

@Leo Gura 

[Rafael Thundercat]

7 hours ago, aurum said:

The course is definitely real.

I remember them promoting it with Layla Martin:

Skip to the end to hear them mention it.

Jesus,the performative vibe here is crazy. This is a cringe test video. If you dont cringe a second in this video you are Enlighted 😂 

[Oppositionless]

7 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Fucken bingo.

I just walked the dog and listened to this - thanks @aurum

 

You see a lot of older women approach their 50s and turn into complete c*nts to younger women. And resenting men who are attracted to them. They cannot let go of the value they placed in their appearance, and suddenly experiencing what it is like to be invisible is traumatic. Their 'self' they built up for decades is being destroyed before their very eyes. They had no idea of the privilege they were existing with. It's so sad to see. But if many women had any awareness at all they would realize this - and really invest in mastery in other realms. Most realize too late. And half the beauty industry is aimed at targeting these women and exploiting their fear generated due to loss of identity in appearance.

 

I don't understand how a supposedly spiritual person is attached to someone so much younger, ideally if you're in your late 30s you're vastly more mature and spiritually awakened than someone on the path in their 20s

 

Unless you yourself have the development of a 20 years old 😆

[Leo Gura]

52 minutes ago, Oppositionless said:

Unless you yourself have the development of a 20 years old

Unless you are a horny stallion of Eros.