Leo's Blog Discussion Mega-Thread

[Leo Gura]

I do judge sloppy and irresponsible people.

Like addicts, criminals, perverts, liars, degenerates, scammers, etc.

I don't tolerate that kind of behavior and mentality.

Edited 2 hours ago by Leo Gura

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[Joseph Maynor]

1 minute ago, Leo Gura said:

I do judge sloppy and irresponsible people.

Like addicts, criminals, perverts, liars, degenerates.

I'm not saying judgment is wrong, but it can be overstated in a way that is not conducive to relation.

[Leo Gura]

Just now, Joseph Maynor said:

I'm not saying judgment is wrong, but it can be overstated in a way that is not conducive to relation.

I agree. I want to be less judgmental. But when people behave like such animals it is hard.

[Leo Gura]

11 minutes ago, TheBG said:

@Leo Gura

 you posted a RÜFÜS DU SOL 

Seems like a lot of you like them.

[Terell Kirby]

22 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Like addicts, criminals, perverts, liars, degenerates, scammers, etc.

Life wouldn’t be the same without em. For better or for worse.

Edited 2 hours ago by Terell Kirby

[Vynce]

12 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Seems like a lot of you like them.

My sister actually does a lot of booking for them, if you ever need a last minute entry for their shows. 

[Joseph Maynor]

31 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

I agree. I want to be less judgmental. But when people behave like such animals it is hard.

I see so you're still a life coach in a way.  You're urging people to seek the good.  Maybe you're more like a philosopher.  

[Husseinisdoingfine]

42 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Like addicts

What about people who are 'addicts', but not to serious hardcore drugs like heroin, but to something like cell phone or cigarettes? 

Do you harshly look down on cigarette addicts who can't seem to quit? 

Like this woman at the 10:00 minute mark.

Also, this documentary is really good, I would recommend it. 

[Phil King]

7 hours ago, LoneWonderer said:

Hi Leo in regards to your two posts on India. We have just been in Sri Lanka doing the exact same things the young chinese woman was doing and maybe even more dangerous things such as walking without guides through slums at noon.

https://www.hindustantimes.com/trending/sri-lankan-man-asks-tourist-for-sex-then-masturbates-in-disturbing-video-arrested-later-101763523680235.html 

^^^ Your post reminded me of this recent story of a Sri lankan guy jacks off in front of female tourists.

Its gonna be way different for you since your a guy. Any female solo traveling in these countries should be on high alert always

Edited 1 hour ago by Phil King

[LoneWonderer]

5 minutes ago, Phil King said:

https://www.hindustantimes.com/trending/sri-lankan-man-asks-tourist-for-sex-then-masturbates-in-disturbing-video-arrested-later-101763523680235.html 

^^^ Sri lankan guy jacks off in front of female tourists.

Its gonna be way different for you since your a guy. Any female solo traveling in these countries should be on high alert always

We met many females from EU contries during our 3 week stay. They had nothing but positive experiences. Not to say shit doesn't happen sometimes in developing nations. 

Again it's important in such countries to not draw attention to yourself and be especially weary of clothing attire choice to minimize chances of bad experiences (both sexes but especially females).

Also in these countries trust your gut feeling when assesing situations. If something doesn't feel right get out of there.

Edited 1 hour ago by LoneWonderer

[Natasha Tori Maru]

2 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

I agree. I want to be less judgmental. But when people behave like such animals it is hard.

Do you feel disgust behind the judgement? It is a common one for me. And often I find the feeling of disgust arises prior to the thought judgement appearing - or me being aware of it. An extreme turn off is felt.

On the flipside of the above - my feelings of disgust are simultaneous with deep compassion. I have a contradictory set of emotions/feelings that arise together; I understand what drives people to extremes of degeneracy. I also project my own capabilities heavily onto others; when they fall short I can be harsh. I remind myself often there are others out there who are simple. Double digit IQs. Developmentally behind. Brain damaged.

I am in a position of privilege. It is very easy for me to project my aptitude onto others and judge when they fall short. There is a limit to responsibility in the absence of rational intellect, education and competency.