Spiral

I’d focus on friends first. Doesn’t need to be deep and amazing friendships but something. The lone wolf is weak, a man with a tribe is strong.

My ex told me a year into our relationship that she had it. Don’t think I caught it tho.

Being a bit more playful helps, if you’re not quite comfortable touching “unnecessarily”. Like if she asks you where you are from you could tell her your North Korean and here on business trip. I’ve never had these sort of comments go poorly.

I prefer shoulder as a first contact point or kissing I suppose.

I’m great looking, however I do think the confidence that comes with it is the greatest perk

Animal rights is certainly a valid career path.

I would do a hybrid approach. Out of curiosity what type of self help are you interested in teaching? I guesstimate that you need to produce high quality content for about 2 years regularly before you start do see some results.

Yup, haha. That might be the case

One of the issues with modern relationships is that they do not offer practical advantages (besides potentially children and easy sex). So it’s more of a “I want because it feels nice”. So you have it for companionship or whatever. It’s just vague and fluffy. In the past a guy could provide economically, which is a practical advantage for women. While woman can take care of the household or in other words clean and cook etc. Which is a practical advantage for men. Men tend to be very practical and a lot of them to not care much for having children. The attractive ones do not care much for easy sex. So in terms of motivation we do not care that much. Even if we are actually happier and such in a relationship.

More definitely. We at least try to hide it.

I been single now for quite some time. I haven’t really made an effort to date or approach girls. When I moved to the city my first priority socially was friendships. I’ve made some friends now, but they are shallow and easily replaceable. it’s been five years, and I’m still disappointed in my social situation but it’s probably time to get more serious with girls. Whatever I’m doing isn’t working so better change it up.

I tried, failed, had a “near” death experience of the mystical variety. Now death is the thing I look forward to the most. I can wait, for varieties sake.

I do not like shit tests, they are annoying. Regardless if you pass them or not

You can be feminist and anti-feminist at the same time, it’s probably a solid approach to relationships. Oddly enough

I think they do it subconsciously for the most part. I’ve never seen a man shit test anyone