Elton

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  1. @Eph75 thanks for your advise I need to go through it many times more though to grasp it nicely. Thanks a lot 🙏
  2. @Leo Gura I would be a real morden sage if I could do all that in my current job. Spiritual work emotional work and relationships work.
  3. @Schizophonia hmmm I get what your trying to say...
  4. @Kksd74628 your right I'll try this
  5. @KoryKat the practical videos. Where the exact steps were given to deal with a problem
  6. @Leo Gura how about I learn and practice all the content from dealing with people section in your book list as well as practice meditation and yoga for stress shadow work and emotional mastery to deal with emotions ? could this interlink the leadership roles which are very different now ?
  7. @Kksd74628 I don't have the power to fire them
  8. @BipolarGrowth the problem is that all are better than me in repairing machines or identifying faults. Thats why I want to be a manager and not a worker. I ways thought that I am good in communication and presentation skills and planning and strategy and stuff so I thought this would be good to become but I think I should have focused on the work itself of repair and service then at least I could change companies and get paid higher 😑
  9. @Leo Gura yes I want to lead people just like you I had taken your life purpose course and found out that I want to be a life coach. in India no one gives a shit about life coaching no one is willing to pay me even 5 dollars per hour or even take my coaching for free, so my plan was to build a successfull career and I thought maybe being a manager would be similar to life coaching. After this at least I have credibility that I was a manager and I am the right person to guide or coach anyone because I have been successfull myself. Also I saw many of your vedios where you suggested to accept leadership roles whenever possible. The stage in my company before becoming a manager is a team leader. I was a service engineer before and now leading a team of service engineers. I m not really passionate about this job but I am very passionate about personal development, i have to exert a lot of emotional labour in my job dealing with pressure from customers during breakdowns as well as my team disrespecting and treating me like no one. Personal development was easier when I had less job responsibilities or when i was in college, now the job drains my soul. Books on Dealing with people and spiral dynamics could help me ? I don't know but I don't feel like a leader in my current situation. I always thought as a service engineer that I'm not good at this but would be good at being a manager, but now after 8 years I see that I suck at managing people then it's very de moralising. I thought all the personal development i had done and all the emotional mastery I attempted to develop would give me a better edge over others but the opposite seems to be true. Now my plan is to earn a lot of money in 8 years through the stock market Indian rupees of 50000000 and quit working at the age of 40 so that I can carry out my life purpose. I'm stressed and drained at the moment. Health peace freedom awareness clarity nature open mindedness understanding creativity courage is my top values maybe I should re asses and see if they have changed or not.
  10. So I have got a promotion in my organization and I am a team leader since 8 months. I feel a lot of pressure, my team members who were my friends earlier have become bitter towards me. They don't like me to tell them what they do, they don't report to me. It's getting tough day by day, I'm trying my best to reconcile with them but end up arguing or verbal fights. It hurts me when my team members bitch about me to the customers and do not give me the respect I deserve. How can I lead ? Was I just handed this position because all other old team members had quit the job ? Is it possible to reverse everything and everyone on my team will treat me with respect and accept my authority? I feel like I'm at war and I'm the captain but my army is attacking me.. Can leadership skills be developed or some people are just not ment to lead ! 😞
  11. @Leo Gura what is a mind course ? You mean mindfulness or subconscious mind ?
  12. @Leo Gura in your latest video you spoke about releasing some powerful course ... Which course is that? Could you please let me know? If you could then would you please let me know?
  13. @Leo Gura what about stage blue people who seek authority and hierarchy? They also would want to be controlled right ? Was your latest vedio on tate an example of a stage green not liking stage red/orange ?
  14. @Leo Gura is there a difference between influence and manipulation? How about the book influence? Isn't it necessarry to manipulate people so that work is carried out in harmony ? How can you lead someone without manipulation?