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  1. @Dwarniel Actually, i have done it many times. but the problem is, i ejaculate quickly even at the second time. + after first ejaculation i lose my interest. I talked with my partner too. But it doesn't help that much.
  2. I lost my virginity 8 months ago, and i have this PE problem. I thought that, it will get better with time, but unfortunately it doesn't. I ejaculate in seconds, it is really frustrating feeling for me. I can not control my state, different negative feelings like fear, anxiety arise. I can see the irrational thoughts behind them and how i conditioned myself badly. But i don't know how to escape from this prison. I don't know if it is physical of psychological problem. What is your advice for me?
  3. @White Monk actually, i am afraid of the health problems that this work can create. have you ever tried it?
  4. I am afraid of trying holotropic breathwork alone and i am really suspicious about it. What benefits have you experienced?
  5. When i do this technique, i watch to the wall. But Leo said that; do not look any special object. But even if i try to meditate in nature, mind starts to focus on some point without my control. What do you suggest?
  6. How do i know if something is true? Can i trust my direct experience? How can i know things like astral projection, new dimensions, insights of dmt trips are true. not illusion?
  7. Hi, i am pretty much newbie at self-improvement work. I was a procrastinator for 3-4 years, mental masturbation was the biggest enemy of me. At the same time, i found lots of good stuff on internet, online courses, websites, books and so on. My main problem was acting. Nowadays, i have started to act. But, i have a problem about sharing. I have lots of great resources to use, and they are enough to me for next 5 years. When i want to share it, there is a feeling that doesn't let me share. I compare myself to others a lot, and jealousy problems. Every time, when i feel that i share. But the feeling doesn't change. Should i start working on my emotions or even after emotional mastery there will be obvious ego traps like this? Maybe i feel like a victim, i feel like if anybody use this resources he/she will be more successful than me. Maybe the problem is here. What is your advice for me?
  8. I use this technique 45 minutes per day, and every week i increase 5 minutes. But, every time when i meditate there is a problem. I have no problem with monkey mind when doing meditation. But, when the awareness comes, i don't know what to do. I can't drop it, so i watch it. But, when i watch it, there are still lots of thoughts in my head within awareness. I can not discriminate if they are automatic thoughts or i create them intentionally. So, i don't know where to stop thinking. Waiting for your help.
  9. Can this technique damage my health? What are the possible consequences?
  10. I deeply want to become a musician. I have found great online resources to learn electric guitar, but my main dream killer is the money issue. I study dentistry, but it is not my passion. I can try hard and become a dentist, then i will not have money issues. I guess a life without money problems will be so much easier. But if i choose to become a musician, even if i become a great artist, i can be broke. I know some people with great musical talent, but have no money to pay the bills. So, i can not underestimate the money factor.
  11. But, i don't know which meditation technique to use. I do "do nothing" technique every day, is it okay to use that technique for retreat? Or should i use vipassana?
  12. Is intentionally lying bad for enlightenment work? I can see it is all about lack of awareness, but ego creates lots of "games", and it causes lots of suffering. If i lie i suffer, if i don't, i suffer too.
  13. Man, i struggle with sex a lot. I ejaculate under 1 minute, and i can not make my gf orgasm. Her behavior changed towards me, now she is more reluctant and undesirous for sex. I feel very depressed, i don't wanna lose her for that reason, i am afraid of cheating as fuck. I have a trauma in the past about cheating. I feel very insecure about that. Can you guys teach me some fingering techniques to use? I try to stimulate her g spot, but after a minute my hand starts to hurt, i can not maintain stimulation about 10 minutes. Waiting for replies. Thanks
  14. Hey guys. I am asking for sex advice again. I can not make my girlfriend cum, even with my fingers i dont know what to do exactly. Have premature ejaculation issue, trying to solve it. I feel the disappointment of her. A month ago she was so clingy, now i feel that she is not attracted to me that much. I don't wanna lose her, even the idea of losing her makes me sad. I dont act needy, and not afraid of emotional suffering. But i think that if i solve my sex problems, my relationship will be much better. Waiting for your advices, thank you.
  15. Does do nothing technique lead to enlightenment?