Elton

So I have got a promotion in my organization and I am a team leader since 8 months. I feel a lot of pressure, my team members who were my friends earlier have become bitter towards me. They don't like me to tell them what they do, they don't report to me. It's getting tough day by day, I'm trying my best to reconcile with them but end up arguing or verbal fights. It hurts me when my team members bitch about me to the customers and do not give me the respect I deserve. How can I lead ? Was I just handed this position because all other old team members had quit the job ? Is it possible to reverse everything and everyone on my team will treat me with respect and accept my authority? I feel like I'm at war and I'm the captain but my army is attacking me.. Can leadership skills be developed or some people are just not ment to lead ! 😞

@Eph75 thanks for your advise I need to go through it many times more though to grasp it nicely. Thanks a lot 🙏

@Leo Gura I would be a real morden sage if I could do all that in my current job. Spiritual work emotional work and relationships work.

@Schizophonia hmmm I get what your trying to say...

@Kksd74628 your right I'll try this

@KoryKat the practical videos. Where the exact steps were given to deal with a problem

@Leo Gura how about I learn and practice all the content from dealing with people section in your book list as well as practice meditation and yoga for stress shadow work and emotional mastery to deal with emotions ? could this interlink the leadership roles which are very different now ?

@Kksd74628 I don't have the power to fire them

@BipolarGrowth the problem is that all are better than me in repairing machines or identifying faults. Thats why I want to be a manager and not a worker. I ways thought that I am good in communication and presentation skills and planning and strategy and stuff so I thought this would be good to become but I think I should have focused on the work itself of repair and service then at least I could change companies and get paid higher 😑

@Leo Gura yes I want to lead people just like you I had taken your life purpose course and found out that I want to be a life coach. in India no one gives a shit about life coaching no one is willing to pay me even 5 dollars per hour or even take my coaching for free, so my plan was to build a successfull career and I thought maybe being a manager would be similar to life coaching. After this at least I have credibility that I was a manager and I am the right person to guide or coach anyone because I have been successfull myself. Also I saw many of your vedios where you suggested to accept leadership roles whenever possible. The stage in my company before becoming a manager is a team leader. I was a service engineer before and now leading a team of service engineers. I m not really passionate about this job but I am very passionate about personal development, i have to exert a lot of emotional labour in my job dealing with pressure from customers during breakdowns as well as my team disrespecting and treating me like no one. Personal development was easier when I had less job responsibilities or when i was in college, now the job drains my soul. Books on Dealing with people and spiral dynamics could help me ? I don't know but I don't feel like a leader in my current situation. I always thought as a service engineer that I'm not good at this but would be good at being a manager, but now after 8 years I see that I suck at managing people then it's very de moralising. I thought all the personal development i had done and all the emotional mastery I attempted to develop would give me a better edge over others but the opposite seems to be true. Now my plan is to earn a lot of money in 8 years through the stock market Indian rupees of 50000000 and quit working at the age of 40 so that I can carry out my life purpose. I'm stressed and drained at the moment. Health peace freedom awareness clarity nature open mindedness understanding creativity courage is my top values maybe I should re asses and see if they have changed or not.

@Leo Gura hi Leo happy new year, i was waitung anxiously for your subconscious mind course, can you tell us by when are you planning on releasing it ?

@Leo Gura what is a mind course ? You mean mindfulness or subconscious mind ?

@Leo Gura in your latest video you spoke about releasing some powerful course ... Which course is that? Could you please let me know? If you could then would you please let me know?

@Leo Gura what about stage blue people who seek authority and hierarchy? They also would want to be controlled right ? Was your latest vedio on tate an example of a stage green not liking stage red/orange ?

@Leo Gura is there a difference between influence and manipulation? How about the book influence? Isn't it necessarry to manipulate people so that work is carried out in harmony ? How can you lead someone without manipulation?

@Thought Art oh noo

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@StarStruck thanks man it's true what you said.. I noticed now that yes I am not focusing on my vision...

Man I really struggle with this topic. In theory .. ok I need to write down the thing I feel jealous about and achieve that and put it in my vision board. In practice I feel really anxious, If someone is earning 100 percent more than me I can definitely have a vision to attain that but how long will it take to reach there? How do I control my emotions until that point? It's bullshit to see the people you grew up with having massive success and you not. I sometimes make myself happy by telling myself I am going self actualization and I am the captain of self actualization but the results speak for themselves. Need to be more result oriented need to be more stage orange more of the expert stage. Cause at the moment this matters the most money matters the most peace of mind happiness sex doesn't appeal to me so much now as much as money. I feel that the biggest factor for me of comparison with others is money or career achievement. How you guys deal with such comparison or jealously ? Should I use this as fuel to drive me to success. Or do yoh know any technic to stop comparing myself to others some affirmation or subconscious technique ?

@Leo Gura this sounds like orange to me, health.. socialisation... personal development... Why do you think green population is required ?

@integral great idea I always wanted something like this ...

https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=ZRtnt1sXy6s&feature=share You will feel the sadness to your bones in this song!

Funk Roberts

So today I have got little bit more clarity on my vision, The insight about this vision which is different from the earlier visions I had is that this is highly dynamic and really really broad and wide, the vision of transformation in all areas, it took me so many years to actually form this grandiose vision cause it's not just about one aspect it's about the good life, about emotions, success travel, life purpose, understanding the psychological evolution and using it to understand the people I deal with, life skills like charisma, leadership, funniness... fuck this is totally a vision I could spent my entire life working on, things in my vision are things where I can work on each aspect every day for many years. It's scary cause it's so broad like I can just take 1 subset of a subset and it may take so many years to master it. It's totally worth it, I guess this is more of a meta vision but it's scary, it so big, it's so dynamic I created a notebook called vision on one note and it has so many aspects to it, it is like brining it all together maybe it not a 10 year vision maybe 30 years but I so want this to be achieved in the next 10 years, fuck how! ? can't connect the dots at the moment. is it possible to master life in 10 years having collected the theory little by little in the last 8 years? it took me so much time to realize and connect the dots at least document it, will it ever happen, I want to achieve it as early as possible I wish I stared doing all this when I was 13 years old, i would have definitely been at a different place. Maybe I must follow the one thing strategy on each of these and keep doing it for the next 10 years. going small is the key to going big.

@Vision wake up 4 am Meditate 4 30 to 6 30 pm Breakfast Break upto 8 00 am Meditate 8 00 to 10 00 am Break upto 10 30 Meditate 10 30 to 12 30 pm Lunch Break upto 2 00 pm Meditate 2 00 to 4 00 pm Tea Break upto 5 pm Meditate 5 00 to 7 00 pm Break upto 8 00 pm Meditate upto 9 00 pm Sleep Notice dinner is missing