You are Bisexual

[Butters]

Admit it; you're struggling with women because you're Bi. If you were 100% straight you would have figured it out by now on your own. But instead you come here to find magic solutions. You don't want to emerge yourself in women because of fears, because you are sensitive to the female's energy because you have that in you. 

Think about it: the guy in the relationship is more straight than the guy who just fucks girls. Why? because the relationship guy doesn't mind putting up with the woman's bullshit all the time. He loves being around a woman and is not even sensitive to the manipulation and the BS. The guy who just fucks is sensitive to the girl's paradigm and it annoys him, so he chooses himself and connections to many people over 1 partner, he's less straight! I'd rather be guy #2. 

Owen is clearly Bi, so are most famous rappers and charismatic leaders, they're just not out. 

Bi doesn't mean fruity or acting like a woman, not at all. It doesn't even mean sexual attraction to guys! It means deep down a love for all humans and you could entertain a romantic attraction to a guy, if the mood was right. 

You can be the coolest, most stoic chick-magnet on the planet and be Bi. You can never have sex with a man and be Bi. Those are just choices. 

 

[Dabidoe]

Look there's nothing "gay" or "Bi" about having anal sex with other men. Don't be so suburban!

[Butters]

4 minutes ago, Dabidoe said:

Look there's nothing "gay" or "Bi" about having anal sex with other men. Don't be so suburban!

Don't misinterpret my thread: I am Bisexual so that's why I have this philosophy. And I have no interest in casual sex with men and have never watched gay porn. It's very different from that. 

[Princess Arabia]

You might have a point here. I've seen some on here openly admit to being bi while having problems with dating or getting dates. Something to ponder. Human psychology and behavior can get very complicated but can be simple if understood.

[Leo Gura]

7 hours ago, Butters said:

Admit it; you're struggling with women because you're Bi. If you were 100% straight you would have figured it out by now on your own.

Lol

Nonsense.

Edited December 29, 2023 by Leo Gura

[Yimpa]

4 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Human psychology and behavior can get very complicated but can be simple if understood.

My bi boi, Albert Einstein, would humbly disagree.

[Princess Arabia]

2 hours ago, Yimpa said:

My bi boi, Albert Einstein, would humbly disagree.

Yeah! Maybe, what do I know. I'm starting to realize I know nothing. 

[nhoktinvt]

you are bi, you just dont know it

[BlueOak]

I have never had any attraction to a male.

With women sometimes I realise I am attracted when I am in close-proximity usually. I don't have to think about it or rationalize it, I feel the connection and then decide if I want to act on it or not.

Attraction for me has never been an intellectual choice.
 

[eos_nyxia]

I think the term you might also be looking for is "homosocial".

As in, you're primarily attracted to the emotional and mental qualities that are typically associated with and have been bound to "masculinity", and you exclude "femininity". You want be around that sort of energy, you're obsessed with "masculine values". "Femininity" exists primarily to validate your masculinity, and you don't want to feel or to live within "feminine" energy. Not really. Not too much, not for too long, not in any way that makes you feel uncontrolled, lest you be overwhelmed and subsumed... and transformed into something more feminine yourself.

 Maybe it's a bit physical too sometimes though, I also get that vibe sometimes (but not always).

It makes me think of all these dudes who look up to GI Joe caricatures of "hyper-masculine" men, yet very few women would pick these men for themselves and they actually lack charming qualities. The admiration does feel almost queer, lol.

Edited December 30, 2023 by eos_nyxia

[Princess Arabia]

36 minutes ago, eos_nyxia said:

I think the term you might also be looking for is "homosocial".

As in, you're primarily attracted to the emotional and mental qualities that are typically associated with and have been bound to "masculinity", and you exclude "femininity". You want be around that sort of energy, you're obsessed with "masculine values". "Femininity" exists primarily to validate your masculinity, and you don't want to feel or to live within "feminine" energy. Not really. Not too much, not for too long, not in any way that makes you feel uncontrolled, lest you be overwhelmed and subsumed... and transformed into something more feminine yourself.

 Maybe it's a bit physical too sometimes though, I also get that vibe sometimes (but not always).

It makes me think of all these dudes who look up to GI Joe caricatures of "hyper-masculine" men, yet very few women would pick these men for themselves and they actually lack charming qualities. The admiration does feel almost queer, lol.

Nice explanation. Made me more aware of some aspects of attraction and sexuality. It clicked somewhere inside my psyche.

Edited December 30, 2023 by Princess Arabia

[Princess Arabia]

37 minutes ago, BlueOak said:

I have never had any attraction to a male.

With women sometimes I realise I am attracted when I am in close-proximity usually. I don't have to think about it or rationalize it, I feel the connection and then decide if I want to act on it or not.

Attraction for me has never been an intellectual choice.
 

From you saying this, I can tell you are a very passionate lover.

[Bandman]

You're just a little bi-curious.

[NoSelfSelf]

This threads are getting better by the day 😂

[gettoefl]

bisensual is my term of choice, am happy going deep emotionally with whoever and validate support empathise ... with their desires no matter the genitalia, i don't do the deed with such mutuals however as that is reserved for those designated goddess

[Yimpa]

I’m E = mc2sexual.

[universe]

You can have emotional resistance towards female energy, closeness and attachments without being bi.

[museumoftrees]

this is pure non-sense