caesar13

I've come to a conclusion

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I've realized that my PMO addiction - which I'm suffering from for a couple of years now - is just a part of me. It doesn't make me bad, nor feel bad, not anymore. Now I don't want to see a girl in that way, in that way as in how one addicted guy looks at a pornstar or a hot girl. How can I stop it? To be more expressive, cure it? This, the way I look at them, is not definitely me, but I still do it.

Why do I think this addiction is part of me? : Because I tolerated it for years, if it weren't me it wouldn't take years for me to get rid of it!

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Jerking off is not an addiction, unless you make it one.


You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity.

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50 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Jerking off is not an addiction, unless you make it one.

It is.

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1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

Jerking off is not an addiction, unless you make it one.

Jerking off cannot be anything other than an addiction. 

@caesar13 Join us:

 


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3 hours ago, Michael Jackson said:

It is.

It is not. I see we have a little disagreement. Let's have debate, vote and prepare 100 page document for world health organization for review. 

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8 hours ago, The Mystical Man said:

Jerking off cannot be anything other than an addiction.

You guys are so ridickulous.

You should start a club to cure yourselves of your shitting addiction.

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@Leo Gura There are so many ways to "jerk off"... one being so loving and compassionate that it needs a better name. Care. Cultivation. Others being self-harm. Some being an addiction. 

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3 minutes ago, Kshantivadin said:

one being so loving and compassionate that it needs a better name. Care. Cultivation. Others being self-harm. Some being an addiction. 

Interestingly, I've seen multiple accounts of people with POIS saying that masturbating differently fixes or reduces their symptoms. There seems to be something different happening energetically. I have also noticed that you retain more sexual energy or libido through different forms of masturbation, to the point where you can climax multiple times.


"God is not a conclusion, it is a sudden revelation. When you see a rose it is not that you go through a logical solipsism, 'This is a rose, and roses are beautiful, so this must be beautiful.' The moment you see it, the head stops running thoughts. On the contrary, your heart starts running. It is something totally different from the idea of truth." -Osho

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I must be addicted to this thing called "water". It makes me feel good and I have to repeat drinking it often! It's an insufferable feeling when I don't do it for a day, I think hope for me ever getting out of this addiction might be already lost! :(

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10 hours ago, Girzo said:

I must be addicted to this thing called "water". It makes me feel good and I have to repeat drinking it often! It's an insufferable feeling when I don't do it for a day, I think hope for me ever getting out of this addiction might be already lost! :(

Not all people are the same, man. Some of you are a special breed who don't feel exhausted after busting nuts.

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12 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

You should start a club to cure yourselves of your shitting addiction.

Don't compare masturbation to things like shitting and sleeping. If you don't shit and sleep, you will die. But no one ever died from abstaining from masturbation.

5 hours ago, StarStruck said:

Some of you are a special breed who don't feel exhausted after busting nuts.

I don't even need to ejaculate to feel exhausted. A few seconds of stimulation renders my brain useless.


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2 minutes ago, The Mystical Man said:

A few seconds of stimulation renders my brain useless.

Lol

You got a weak brain.


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Just now, Leo Gura said:

You got a weak brain.

Not as weak as yours, coomer.


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No idea what Mystical Man is on tbh. Nothing wrong with self sex every once in a while.

Make a gift of your life and lift all mankind by being kind, considerate, forgiving, and compassionate at all times, in all places, and under all conditions, with everyone as well as yourself. That is the greatest gift anyone can give." - Dr. David R. Hawkins

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1 hour ago, The Mystical Man said:

Don't compare masturbation to things like shitting and sleeping. If you don't shit and sleep, you will die. But no one ever died from abstaining from masturbation.

You sure about that man? I can think of countless examples of (primarily) men raping, killing, pedophilia, and committing suicide - because of (not explicitly) abstaining from masturbation and generally sexually repressing themselves.

I think you've got rose-coloured glasses on and have no idea how elementary a body function like ejaculation is.

The Catholic Church have been doing NoFap for thousands of years, and they are likely the #1 offender for sexually abusing children and women on the planet. I imagine doing it on a scale larger than criminal organizations like sex trafficking, or warlords in hellhole African nations.


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23 minutes ago, Blackbeat said:

Make a gift of your life and lift all mankind by being kind, considerate, forgiving, and compassionate at all times, in all places, and under all conditions, with everyone as well as yourself. That is the greatest gift anyone can give." - Dr. David R. Hawkins

That's not an excuse to masturbate.

3 minutes ago, Roy said:

You sure about that man?

I'm pretty sure.

3 minutes ago, Roy said:

I can think of countless examples of (primarily) men raping, killing, pedophilia, and committing suicide - because of (not explicitly) abstaining from masturbation and generally sexually repressing themselves.

Sexual transmutation and sexual repression are two different things. Sexual repression will lead to problems, of course.

6 minutes ago, Roy said:

I think you've got rose-coloured glasses on and have no idea how elementary a body function like ejaculation is.

It's not elementary. Ejaculation serves only one purpose: to impregnate a woman. And how often does that need to happen in one lifetime? Many men ejaculate every day, sometimes multiple times a day, without impregnating a woman. They do it because they can't help themselves, not because it's elementary.

"Sexual fluid is something so precious that one should not waste it needlessly. The fluid is an essence of a vital force, out of which springs a whole human being." - Chin-Ning Chu

34 minutes ago, Blackbeat said:

Nothing wrong with self sex every once in a while.

"When the sexual fluid is depleted, a mental weakness results. Creativity, vitality, and the fires of life dry up and leave a person feeling overwhelmed. So instead of riding life, life begins to ride you." - Chin-Ning Chu


"Make a gift of your life and lift all mankind by being kind, considerate, forgiving, and compassionate at all times, in all places, and under all conditions, with everyone as well as yourself. That is the greatest gift anyone can give." - Dr. David R. Hawkins

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7 hours ago, StarStruck said:

Not all people are the same, man. Some of you are a special breed who don't feel exhausted after busting nuts.

I think that being extremely tired for over 30 mins after ejaculating makes you the special breed, not the other way around.

Yea, you feel relaxed after cumming, you're supposed to. But it should last like 30 mins or less.

The problem is that if you believe you're going to be exhausted and depleted after cumming then that becomes your reality, because of placebo and guilt. If you feel no guilt about it, it's just something you do and then you go back to your life as normal without being distracted as much by sexual thoughts and horniness.

17 minutes ago, The Mystical Man said:

Sexual repression will lead to problems, of course.

95% of nofappers are creating guilt around masturbation and cumming. You did it here:

2 hours ago, The Mystical Man said:

Not as weak as yours, coomer.

This is the literal definition of sexual repression. If you cum, you're weak. You're a coomer. You're shameful and evil. That's what you believe. That is sexual repression. it's the same shit religions have done for thousands of years.

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It's not elementary. Ejaculation serves only one purpose: to impregnate a woman. And how often does that need to happen in one lifetime? Many men ejaculate every day, sometimes multiple times a day, without impregnating a woman. They do it because they can't help themselves, not because it's elementary.

Biologically you're programmed to impregnate as many women as you possibly can in your life. It would be the dumbest evolutionary trait ever if ejaculating made you weak and useless as a man.

It makes you weak if you use it as an escape from actually being able to attract women, which a lot of guys do. But if you're not some nerd sitting alone in his man-cave for 16 hours every day and you can actually attract and sleep with girls then jerking off is not going to hurt you at all.

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"When the sexual fluid is depleted, a mental weakness results. Creativity, vitality, and the fires of life dry up and leave a person feeling overwhelmed. So instead of riding life, life begins to ride you." - Chin-Ning Chu

Because someone said it, it must be true? This is also a woman! Imagine a man born in the 1940s saying that women shouldn't masturbate because it makes them a slut. That's equivalent, and you wouldn't take that seriously. It's just silly.

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10 minutes ago, something_else said:

That's what you believe.

I don't believe that.

11 minutes ago, something_else said:

Because someone said it, it must be true?

It's true in my direct experience. If your experience is different, more power to you. There's no point in saying "no" to the pleasures of masturbation, if that doesn't bring you any benefits. Since it does bring me benefits, I've decided to say "no" to it.


"Make a gift of your life and lift all mankind by being kind, considerate, forgiving, and compassionate at all times, in all places, and under all conditions, with everyone as well as yourself. That is the greatest gift anyone can give." - Dr. David R. Hawkins

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