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Is Polyamory More Spiritual Than Monogamy? Aaron Abke

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Great conversation on conscious dating and sex. If you strongly desire an amazing intimate relationship or if you think that having sex with a lot of people will fulfil you, I recommend you watch it.

Also good perspective on how much people can learn from intimate relationships, if they are conscious enough.

"Don’t pretend like you are having lots of sex to spread the love and light of the Creator"

Interesting comment :

"I had quite bad sex addiction and relationship/affair addiction, sometimes having more than 2 partners at once. Used to think i was so modern and a "free spirit" 🤦‍♀️ I was also extremely codependent and traumatized, masking my insecurities with being "sexy and confident". Until I fell in love with a guy who was just like me, he had other partners while in relationship with me (we had open relationship), triggered the shit out of me, all my childhood trauma resurfaced, I was in unbearable emotional pain (literally couldn't get out of bed for days) and then the light appeared and I had a spiritual awakening. Now after a year of healing and spiritual practices all addictions are gone, I don't need relationship, I don't need sex, I don't need to watch porn. This all was just from my traumas. Healing is the answer, guys. Love and light! 🙏❤️"

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@knakoo The type of relationship you choose to have doesn't have anything to do with spirituality, it has to do with preference.

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The question is what level of consciousness are you operating these choosen relationship types at…

for example, both types can be toxic depending who the people are… 

because usually the polyamory that ppl say they are into is really just a way of emotional avoidance. Then when you ‘fall In love’ with someone you realise how messed up you are and shadows you’ve been avoiding (like the person found out in comment from the video)

…for sure there is more to be learned from an intimate relationship, if you do it consciously and face your shadows. 
but by sleeping with lots of people you don’t learn so much because no1 is challenging you and it’s easy to run away when something comes up. 

 

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Nobody who's serious about his/her life purpose has time for that shit 😂😂😂


Spirituality is not the renunciation of life

It is the art of living fully

 

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On 21/06/2021 at 11:24 AM, Shin said:

Nobody who's serious about his/her life purpose has time for that shit 😂😂😂

I feel the same.

It's fun but it would just take time and energy away from what is important.

Better have one quality relationship and do that one right.

Perhaps it fits into a phase of life where you don't want to work on anything seriously. Taking an extended break from hard work.

Or if you're a writer and want to get experiences to write about.


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