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How much do women get turned on by a man's looks?

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18 minutes ago, Etherial Cat said:

Grey jogger pic? I never heard it was a thing. :P

Are they really a common practice?

I think it was a thing on a small portion of the internet,  I've seen it a lot on twitter with their print visible in the joggers LOL 

It became a bit of a joke that it's the equivalent of receiving a woman's nudes, and "don't let your man leave the house wearing grey joggers" etc hahaha

 


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@Moon

Exactly! ?

1 hour ago, Etherial Cat said:

Also, further on that topic.

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2019/jan/08/what-makes-men-send-dick-pics

Sending unsolicited dick pick is discussed as criminal offense material. So beware, its not only about what's our opinion but also it could turn out rather badly in general.  ?

Haters will hate. I'll stop when it's illegal. Or, maybe not, and catch me if you can.

I only did it once to gain this wisdom that I am presenting here. But you guys take everything too seriously. Relax.


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1 hour ago, Moon said:

I think it was a thing on a small portion of the internet,  I've seen it a lot on twitter with their print visible in the joggers LOL 

1000x sexier than receiving a dick pick.  ;)

As a rule I find them gross. They are only okay if you've builded up a relation where sexting can be normalized.

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My homie is an adonis. 6 foot 4, 215 lbs of muscle, and half Cherokee for a tanner look. Women have literally gone up to him in bars looking like lost puppies and asking to kiss him.

 

nuff said

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1 hour ago, Axiomatic said:

My homie is an adonis. 6 foot 4, 215 lbs of muscle, and half Cherokee for a tanner look. Women have literally gone up to him in bars looking like lost puppies and asking to kiss him.

 

nuff said

Case closed.


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7 hours ago, mandyjw said:

So does this also mean that if looks are important to you, you're lazy, spoiled and have an undeveloped imagination?:S xDxDxD

No, it just means you're biased.


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@Emerald Oh my god I so wouldn't be comparing yourself to these chicks. They're totally overrated. You don't realise how important personality is to guys that have a brain cell as well as how overrated in general looks are to guys like this. They actually have a developed prefrontal cortex remember.

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5 hours ago, Axiomatic said:

My homie is an adonis. 6 foot 4, 215 lbs of muscle, and half Cherokee for a tanner look. Women have literally gone up to him in bars looking like lost puppies and asking to kiss him. nuff said

I am not an Adonis but i am maybe an 8,5 (considering i am short, 1,68m). This has happened to me a lot considering that this doesn't happen to the average guy but it is still a rare occurrence. Also, it is never the best girls, only average, 7 or 7.5. This can NEVER be relied upon to get girls, it is just an occasional bonus. 

The 8's, 9's and 10's don't give a fuck about your looks if it is all you got. It isn't anything extraordinary to them. 

The best girls i picked up were with pure game, i was on fire, completely in state. When looks is all i got, rejection is almost a certainty. 

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17 minutes ago, Recursoinominado said:

I am not an Adonis but i am maybe an 8,5 (considering i am short, 1,68m). This has happened to me a lot considering that this doesn't happen to the average guy but it is still a rare occurrence. Also, it is never the best girls, only average, 7 or 7.5. This can NEVER be relied upon to get girls, it is just an occasional bonus. 

The 8's, 9's and 10's don't give a fuck about your looks if it is all you got. It isn't anything extraordinary to them. 

The best girls i picked up were with pure game, i was on fire, completely in state. When looks is all i got, rejection is almost a certainty. 

The girls I saw approaching him didn't look like 7s to me but thanks for sharing 

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1 hour ago, Origins said:

@Emerald Oh my god I so wouldn't be comparing yourself to these chicks. They're totally overrated. You don't realise how important personality is to guys that have a brain cell as well as how overrated in general looks are to guys like this. They actually have a developed prefrontal cortex remember.

I'm not comparing myself out of a sense of insecurity. (Though I do have insecurities and always have)

But truly, I do like the way that I look. I think I look just fine. That's why I give myself a 5 or a 6.

I had brought up my perception of my looks-number simply so I could answer the question posed by the OP about how important looks are to women and to make my original point that I tend to be attracted to men who are about my looks-match... aka average looking guys. 

I'm an average looking woman, and I tend to be most likely to become attracted to average looking guys. And men who fall out of my looks-range (in either direction), I am far less likely to develop an attraction to them. 

So, I'm just as unlikely to not develop an attraction to a 9 as I am unlikely to develop and attraction to a 2. And that's because I'm a 5 or 6. This is how looks tend to matter for me. It's like my subconscious automatically weeds out anyone who isn't in the 4-6 range as potential partners.

And I'm also aware that many men are not that picky with looks. And men who are mature and looking for something substantial will seek real chemistry and compatibility. This was not my concern when I made the post.


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This is kind of off topic but how do you even know where you fall in the 1-10 scale of attractiveness? Like so many people have so many various preferences, what looks like a 10 to me looks like a 5 in my friend's eyes and vice versa. I get what is considered attractive by society's standards but even then culturally things can vary A LOT. Also even if someone is attractive by society's standards, that doesn't mean that they are going to be attractive by an individual's standard. For me, I can look at a lot of celebrities that people often talk about being so sexy but a lot of the times, I can see why they would be considered attractive, kind of like how you can see why a painting would be considered beautiful, but I'm personally not attracted to them and they register as a 5-6 in my mind. 


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@Recursoinominado Look i really appreciate all the positive vibes you give on this forum and tough love etc. However normal guys cannot take you as a success model if you look like an  8.5 honestly. As an 8.5 you need some decent game and you can fuck even very attractive girls. Decent game is not that difficult to develop, the issue is with average looking guys that need GREAT game to get a nice girl (around 7/10 in attractiveness). Anyway thank you for the work you do here, i am not attacking you or anything

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@soos_mite_ah  Theres actually a whole subreddit dedicated to finding stuff like this out believe it or not, it's called TrueRateMe. In my opinion the place reeks of incel and Redpill culture but their template on rating looks is one perspective to think about if you're interested. 

The general gist is that in terms of facial aesthetics a 1-3 is  on the lower end end of the spectrum 4-6 is where most of society lands is 7 is your local hot chick or dude and 8-10 are model like status.

This is the Rank system they use for Men~ https://i.imgur.com/1EpSoNB.jpg

This is the Rank system they use for Women~ https://i.imgur.com/YlBqElb.png

And this is how they determine those metrics~ https://i.imgur.com/vA5AUfp.jpg

My take on it is that there are certain traits that all human beings find attractive and unattractive. One person may see someone as 5 but to  you see them as 8 because they have certain preferences you enjoy (hight, build, race ect).  This model does have its limitations as beauty is subjective but only up to a certain point. A 1-2 stands out just as much as a 9-10 does 

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5 hours ago, neutralempty said:

Couldn't you consider bias an underdevelopment?

Life cannot exist without bias. Consider it what you will.


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@soos_mite_ah I know I don't get that either. When I used the word math as I did initially in this thread, its complicated math, not straight forward math as culture likes to oversimplify it "Oh you're a 5, 6, etc, etc". As long as your nose isn't Everest / analogous you have to be more open minded to at least both a +/-2 depending on what demographic is viewing you, and that too, is still oversimplifying things.

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39 minutes ago, ColeMC01 said:

@Recursoinominado Look i really appreciate all the positive vibes you give on this forum and tough love etc. However normal guys cannot take you as a success model if you look like an  8.5 honestly. As an 8.5 you need some decent game and you can fuck even very attractive girls. Decent game is not that difficult to develop, the issue is with average looking guys that need GREAT game to get a nice girl (around 7/10 in attractiveness). Anyway thank you for the work you do here, i am not attacking you or anything

My whole point is that I would SUCK with women if I didn't learned game. In fact, I still think I SUCK because I can't really get the top 20% of women and if my looks mattered that much, that wouldn't be a problem.

As I said before, I grew up socially isolated, sucking with girls, which made me somewhat autistic-like. As "good looking" as I am, I am not nearly as good with women as I should be based on you guys opinion.

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1 hour ago, Bando said:

@soos_mite_ah  Theres actually a whole subreddit dedicated to finding stuff like this out believe it or not, it's called TrueRateMe. In my opinion the place reeks of incel and Redpill culture but their template on rating looks is one perspective to think about if you're interested. 

The general gist is that in terms of facial aesthetics a 1-3 is  on the lower end end of the spectrum 4-6 is where most of society lands is 7 is your local hot chick or dude and 8-10 are model like status.

This is the Rank system they use for Men~ https://i.imgur.com/1EpSoNB.jpg

This is the Rank system they use for Women~ https://i.imgur.com/YlBqElb.png

And this is how they determine those metrics~ https://i.imgur.com/vA5AUfp.jpg

My take on it is that there are certain traits that all human beings find attractive and unattractive. One person may see someone as 5 but to  you see them as 8 because they have certain preferences you enjoy (hight, build, race ect).  This model does have its limitations as beauty is subjective but only up to a certain point. A 1-2 stands out just as much as a 9-10 does 

Ok I checked all the links out and I will say that I think it's stupid lol and that these people have WAAAAAY too much time on their hands. 

To me in in both the men's and the women's sections if it were up to me  I would rank what the chart defines as a 10 all the way to 5 as very attractive to attractive depending on an individual's preferences. 4.5 - 2 to me look more like average people. 

The nose, lips, cheekbones, and face shape thing is kinda dumb. I looked at the people who they deemed as sub par as perfectly fine. I get the ratio and the symmetry thing but maybe the way I rate people is more broad and forgiving because I'm not out here measuring out people's faces like a obsessive lunatic, and maybe I might have a very inclusive definition of beauty and attractiveness. I also kinda get the skin thing but I find it nitpicky. You can be pretty attractive and still have acne or wrinkles. 

1 hour ago, Origins said:

@soos_mite_ah I know I don't get that either. When I used the word math as I did initially in this thread, its complicated math, not straight forward math as culture likes to oversimplify it "Oh you're a 5, 6, etc, etc". As long as your nose isn't Everest / analogous you have to be more open minded to at least both a +/-2 depending on what demographic is viewing you, and that too, is still oversimplifying things.

Yeah it's really difficult to just quantify beauty like that. Just because your nose is slightly crooked doesn't mean you get points taken off. Hell, most people probably aren't looking that closely at your face to analyze it and if they are that's weird as hell. 

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