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Scientific study: Women have more power than men in the most important area

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Women are picky because women love aesthetics. They want a good story. 

Men only want a good experience, they don't care about the story. 

 


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10 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

women love aesthetics

Men love aesthetics more than women.

That's what you ladies don't like about us men ;)

Story? Yeah, that's a girly thing.


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@Leo Gura  I was talking about a good story that is aesthetics in terms of a good story. 

I know you mean aesthetics in purely in terms of appearance. 

But men don't care about a story. 

 


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On 07/12/2020 at 11:20 PM, Blackhawk said:

This is huge.

My opinion has always been that women have more power than men in the whole dating market. And that it's more important than power in the public life, for example in working life.

And now all that is backed up by science.

 

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44 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

I'm not talking about incels or virgins or even number of sexual partners.

It may very well be that women have more sexual partners on average than men.

But women still don't employ a pump and dump strategy while men do.

In general, since women socialize more they have sex more. If a guy socialized as much as the average girl, he'd get laid a lot more.

Well according to this survey men had an average of 7 one night stands, and women had an average of 6 one night stands. So not that different. And if anything I would assume men inflate their numbers and women shrink them.

https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/2017/06/157756/one-night-stand-casual-sex-facts

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American men said they've had an average of seven one night stands and American women have had six. Europeans stacked up a little lower, with six one night stands for European men and four for women.

 

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8 minutes ago, Raze said:

Well according to this survey men had an average of 7 one night stands, and women had an average of 6 one night stands. So not that different.

So what?

You have to distinguish between the reasons for how that comes about. Girls have lots of one night stands simply from being highly social and because they get pumped and dumped by guys.

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And if anything I would assume men inflate their numbers and women shrink them.

Of course they do.


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@Raze jesus such a biased study. The only guys who would agree to being part of that survey are dry soybois in the first place ?

 

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5 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Men are actually NOT content with less, they're just always angling for more.

Yeah, if a hotter girl magically jump on their dick, most men would take it but that's not what happens most of the time. 

Considering the fact that men do most of the active work in the flirting and mating process, for a guy to date up is so much fucking work that he will not even try (I am not saying that he is genuinely happy, but he is OK with having a guaranteed warm pussy and will ignore the package).

Men nowadays have Netflix, junk food, high quality porn, weed, alcohol, social media, if you add a sure warm hole to cum inside, they will gave up all their dreams in a beat.

Not to mention that to date up he would have to give up most of that to go to the gym, learn game, dress well, be successful, confident, funny, socially savvy, be a leader etc. Who wants to do that when your balls are dry, your belly is full, your mind is distracted and your senses are numbed?

Women just have to exist to maybe find an random alpha to show interest in her and do most of the work.

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@mmKay lol

The Chad Sam Harris have a Stacy wife

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Unlike Virgin Jordan's wife

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Let's not insult people's appearances. 

Everyone looks good. 

Such discriminatory terms only add more harm to dating, love and relationships.

Everyone deserves love and happiness and appreciation no matter how they look. Both men and women

It's one thing to say that you're attracted to attractive people and another thing to compare people's appearances and make one look better and denigrate the other 

It only reinforces age old stereotypes. We're moving towards a modern better future where everyone should feel accepted, loved, respected and welcomed.. 


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48 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

It's one thing to say that you're attracted to attractive people

There aren't any attractive people. But most people tend to get attracted to all sorts of things.


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@Gesundheit there certainly are. Attraction itself exists in animals. 

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So... Sam Harris married his sister? :|


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@Megan Alecia It's a very strong illusion, I'm not denying that, but nevertheless still an illusion, which means not real.


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@Gesundheit in the sense that plants growing aren't real. 


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7 minutes ago, Megan Alecia said:

@Gesundheit in the sense that plants growing aren't real. 

No. In the sense that it doesn't exist out there in others, but rather it's something you're actively generating without even knowing.

Contemplate the actuality of sexual desire. It's just energy that arises within the body with a focal point in the second chakra. The rest is thought and imagination.

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@Gesundheit we don't have control of sexual desire. otherwise, the planet would go extinct. it's not something we generate at all. 

the concept of sexuality and attraction is being generated, but sex itself precedes human consciousness itself (and to have sex you need unconscious attraction, which you can't really explain. ) Feel free to refute that with some data, some tangible claims. 

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@Gesundheit Wikipedia: 

Scientists do not know the exact cause of sexual orientation, but they theorize that it is caused by a complex interplay of genetic, hormonal, and environmental influences. Although no single theory on the cause of sexualorientation has yet gained widespread support, scientists favor biologically-based theories.

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So yeah it might be impossible to know for now. 


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Actually @Gesundheit you're right. Attraction is biological. But even biological can be an illusion (if we go deep into it)

The mind can eventually be trained to like anything. 

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@Preety_India This is false. By that logic nothing would happen, because nothing would be subjective. 

I'm tired of seeing people acting like nonduality is just 150 characters on a message board. If things were that easy we would have world peace by now. 

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