Hypothetical question for the men

[ajai]

16 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

@ajai I'll let you discover the joys of dating prostitutes for yourself. Wouldn't want to spoil it for ya.

Is it like saying I'll let you jump into the well of hell to measure it's depth for yourself, ??

[Rilles]

You cant make a hoe a housewife... 

[Origins]

@vizual Depends what culture the imaginative version of myself is from. Did you know that in some cultures a mans masculinity is measured by how many children he has and that polyamory for men not females is a cultural norm for some geographies because of the shortage of men? True, true. 

Most people are stuck in the primordial soup of what they're culturally conditioned by. Study the entire world (& universe), build your own models be as accurate as possible.

Sex is a low consciousness biological game being played with very basic primitive rules that culture has deluded it's slaves into thinking are complicated and mysterious. Play the game, but play it to a higher standard compared to everyone else, be a scientist and an artist not stuck in the soup like a dupe. 

Edited October 7, 2020 by Origins

[Recursoinominado]

Damaged goods, get the fuck away.

Sex workers(including strippers) usually live in a low-vibration state, have deep traumas, drug problems and all sorts of toxic behaviors. 

[aurum]

@vizual .

If we were already dating and we weren't having problems, I'd suppose I'd be okay with it. That is unlikely to happen though. A girl does not become a prostitute without either having or developing some serious emotional problems. Dating her I imagine would be a train wreck.

 

[vizual]

@aurum  Well according to Leo dating a 10/10 "supermodel" is the holy grail of dating. I know for a fact a lot of these supermodel women have worked as high-class escort girls working their way up the ladder. Of course this is kept under wraps as much as possible. And the supermodel would never admit this until the proof comes out. 

 

So what do I make of this? Ignorance is bliss?

 

[ajai]

5 hours ago, Rilles said:

You cant make a hoe a housewife... 

Yes I got you.

But that's you sayin it from your POV.

4 hours ago, Etherial Cat said:

But who knows, what if then she becomes enlightened because of her suffering

I think we got a legit point here.

And more so what I don't get it is why it's so important to always be in relationship (be a bf/husband) to experience sexual pleasures at first place.

Everybody is like: okay I see you, but I'm getting laid with you only after 10 dates and cute little evening spent together, then perhaps we'll move onto the sexual stuff.

I'm like let's do the "real thing" first and show me what you got, then perhaps I'll see if I have to move on to a relationship or not.

But no it's always the contrary always, I don't get the way it works, when everybody knows what the end goal is ( for a guy to get the pussy imo),

why too much of tantrums for what reason?

[fi1ghtclub]

I would like to build up an authentic relationship with anyone no matter what their vibration is this, in this case, a prostitute

I don't understand why we term relationship as being together with X person.

We're in a relationship with everyone in life. And as long as we don't understand the nature of each one of them of deeply, it doesn't matter if it is not reciprocated by the other person in the same way, we can provide and gain a lot of value out of it.

In the case of a prostitute, it would be so much interesting to understand those patterns and learn.

It would take a relatively higher level of consciousness to deal and respond to it than just looking out for self survival.

A true relationship would be beyond the scope of survival.

[ajai]

5 minutes ago, fi1ghtclub said:

A true relationship would be beyond the scope of survival

Dayummmm, 

I like that juice rt there, thank-you for this insight.

[aurum]

1 minute ago, vizual said:

Well according to Leo dating a 10/10 "supermodel" is the holy grail of dating

When has he said that? Leo has always advocated strict boundaries when it comes to picking a partner as far as I've seen.

Regardless, it most definitely is not the holy grail. Sure, we all want someone we are attracted to but attraction is very subjective. Much more subjective than people usually realize.

And once you take off the makeup, the mascara, the hair extensions, the push up bra, the perfectly done hair and everything else these girls do to look pretty, they actually look fairly average.

The holy grail is higher consciousness women. As men we may not be ready for that kind of relationship, but that's where you want to get to.

[Preety_India]

4 hours ago, Etherial Cat said:

But who knows, what if then she becomes enlightened because of her suffering,

This line is so beautiful. 

Yes why not. 

Suffering can bring huge shifts in consciousness, sometimes the levels that even enlightened gurus might not have experienced after deep practice. 

Whatever road you take, the soul needs to be awakened. That's the key. 

It doesn't matter how you reach this transcendence in life. 

It's always waiting for you anyway. 

Beautiful lines 

 

When a prostitute was stoned, Jesus said 

He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her. 

There is such value in this sentiment. 

We judge others. Yet we don't judge our own judgement. 

Love can exist where it is made to exist, without boundaries, without conditions and without judgment. 

 

 

[ajai]

4 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her. 

?❤️❤️?

[vizual]

3 minutes ago, ajai said:

?❤️❤️?

I think we can pretty much answer the question with that quote and lock the topic. That's the true answer right there

[Spiral]

Supermodels? They look good in photos less so in person. After that’s the whole point. Besides at least in my experience their really obsessed with their looks. 

I rather go for that hot witch girlfriend everyone on about. As for ex-prostitutes meh I don’t, never met one that I know is one so I can’t say.

[ajai]

15 minutes ago, vizual said:

I think we can pretty much answer the question with that quote and lock the topic. That's the true answer right there

Well, let it roll let's see how meta we can go about this question?

[Gesundheit]

15 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Find a better girl.

It's not about the cheating potential. That girl is gonna have so many emotional problems.

You don't just walk away from being a prostitute without serious trauma.

Even dating a stripper is a huge red flag. She's gonna be nuts.

Given how many nice girls are out there, why on earth would you settle for an ex-prostitute? It shows you have low value and can't get anything better.

Unless you want to do charity work here. Then by all means, go for it.

More traumas = more potential for consciousness.

10 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Sometimes in life the proper move is to be a bit ruthless.

This assumes there is a "proper" move.

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20 hours ago, vizual said:

Hi guys,

How would you react if you found out your girlfriend/wife has worked as a prostitute for a period in her life before you met her and she have had sex with hundreds/thousands of men?

I personally don't know how I would react, so I'm curious.

If she was hiding it from me and I found out about it without her will, I would certainly dump her immediately if not before. If she was honest from the beginning, I would have to re-evaluate our relationship and see if I could continue. Maybe I'd discuss it with her and see if she's looking for more healing.

[Recursoinominado]

3 hours ago, Gesundheit said:

More traumas = more potential for consciousness.

Why don't you take a crazy homeless guy home in the meanwhile? Great idea, i guarantee. 

 

3 hours ago, Gesundheit said:

If she was hiding it from me and I found out about it without her will, I would certainly dump her immediately if not before. If she was honest from the beginning, I would have to re-evaluate our relationship and see if I could continue. Maybe I'd discuss it with her and see if she's looking for more healing.

Stop with this Captain Save A Hoe shit.

[Leo Gura]

55 minutes ago, Recursoinominado said:

Stop with this Captain Save A Hoe shit.

Take it easy.

[Recursoinominado]

9 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Take it easy.

:0

I mean it with love s2

[Gesundheit]

6 hours ago, Recursoinominado said:

Why don't you take a crazy homeless guy home in the meanwhile? Great idea, i guarantee.

Because I'm not gay lol.