Posted July 18, 2020 2 minutes ago, Someone here said: Honesty If you are not dating blondes you are wasting your time. Just like : if you don't take psychedelics for consciousness work..you are wasting your time. Every girls are special?Hahaha Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 2 minutes ago, Leo Gura said: Lol I don't even click on blonde porn any more. Bad aesthetics. Hahahahaa!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 1 minute ago, Leo Gura said: Lol I don't even click on blonde porn any more. Bad aesthetics. Leo stop watching porn already it's 2020 buddy lol .. Who even watches porn anymore? No judgment lol jk. But tbh it's not so high consciousness of a habit. "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly." -Leo Gura. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 2 minutes ago, Leo Gura said: Lol I don't even click on blonde porn any more. Bad aesthetics. After this comment, I love you even more..... "All that we know is limited, something we don't - is infinite" Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 (edited) 1 hour ago, Display_Name said: God’s exploration Nice rationalization. Sneaky ego hehe! 1 hour ago, Display_Name said: No, it really isn’t Yes, it really is. The women Leo was describing in the context he was were bombshells, "crazy hot", top 5% girls. Which common sense tells us statistically aren't going to be extremely developed spiritually or maturity wise. It's incredibly rare to find such people anyways (or be the quality person to be able to pursue them and land them). The people he was taking about wouldn't be tempted to bother pursuing such things as "enlightenment" if their life and survival has been made so convenient to them because of their looks/attractiveness. That's obvious. Therefore as that an advanced "spiritual" person you'd know having sex and messing around is basically "toying" with them, knowing full fucking well you aren't compatible for a long term relationship, and are just wasting everyone's time indulging shallow urges. That isn't to say it's an "absolute" wrong to have casual sex with good looking people, like I'm sure people will rebut. Life is a playground and there are no rules. It's just that the way "enlightenment" is marketed and the way enlightened people carry themselves (and the image they have of themselves whether they're conscious of their maintenance of it or not) within those kinds of communities is to be mature and above such childish flesh chasing. Of course they still have sex and enjoy themselves, but it's usually much more selective and with someone on the same "level" as them let's say. They demonize egoic pleasure seeking within their teachings, saying it doesn't lead to happiness. So that's why I said it's incongruous to be "enlightened" and consider oneself spiritually developed, but simotaneously be chasing "crazy hot girls". See I actually don't personally give a shit what people do or if they're hypocrites or not. Not worried about it, I just wanted to point the inconsistency for other people that might be confused about the message being sent. Instead of giving an elaboration that was honest about the context @Leo Gura responded with a smart ass comment, "So should we have sex with trolls?" So either this indicates he's lying/deluded (I don't think so, but nobody can really know anything about it), about his maturity/"enlightenment" level and rationalizes chasing what is preached about being "egoic pleasures". Or he's sending another hidden message that it doesn't really matter what you do in the end, but not being honest or explicit about this in his language. Either way we have to re-examine the marketing of what an "enlightened" person is because what he's implying takes away from the common understanding of it. Of course this could just be my flawed perception of it and obviously I think I'm right because I'm a selfish little devil who thinks that taking advantage of people is wrong, oh wait.......... Edited July 18, 2020 by Roy hrhrhtewgfegege Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 2 minutes ago, Someone here said: Who even watches porn anymore? 99% of males, and a less percentage of females. And a lot of them demonize porn and tell others to quit. Only if they could lead by example the whole industry would have collapsed ages ago lol. At least some people are being honest about it. There's no shame in living life. “If you have no confidence in yourself, you are twice defeated in the race of life. But with confidence you have won, even before you start.” -- Marcus Garvey Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 (edited) What kind of behavior in a guy turns me off 1 Extreme Neediness 2 Emotional immaturity 3 Argumentative 4 Arrogance and stubbornness and egotistical 5 Controlling 6 Lack of responsibility and accountability Edited July 18, 2020 by Preety_India INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 8 minutes ago, Someone here said: Who even watches porn anymore? He who is a connoiseur of God's exquisite handiwork. You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 Just now, Gesundheit said: 99% of males, and a less percentage of females. And a lot of them demonize porn and tell others to quit. Only if they could lead by example the whole industry would have collapsed ages ago lol. At least some people are being honest about it. There's no shame in living life. Yes and I am being honest. I used to watch porn back in it's prime (2014-2016). But honestly I just outgrew it. It's ok to watch a little bit here and there if you are horny.. But don't let that be your sexual outlet. You should strive for mating a real partner not some pixels on a screen.. Ofcourse I'm not saying it's right or wrong.. Who am I to judge? .. But come on.. as a grown ass man who wants to be serious about relationships you shouldn't be a porn dude anymore. "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly." -Leo Gura. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 @Someone here Well my take on blonds is if someone fakes the color of their hair, what else do they fake. As you know 99% of blonds die their hair just to be appealing sexually. Screams shallow, vain, and inauthentic, aka low self esteem. If that's the only kind of women you're attracted to, perhaps there some shadows that need to be addressed. Just sain Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 5 hours ago, Someone here said: A guy wants a sexy body.. A girl wants a sexy personality.. Yessssss!!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 2 minutes ago, Someone here said: You should strive for mating a real partner not some pixels on a screen.. But come on.. as a grown ass man who wants to be serious about relationships you shouldn't be a porn dude anymore. I'm not pro or against, but seriously why? “If you have no confidence in yourself, you are twice defeated in the race of life. But with confidence you have won, even before you start.” -- Marcus Garvey Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 @Meta-Man She would look better without the blonde. Lacks contrast. You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 4 minutes ago, Natasha said: @Someone here Well my take on blonds is if someone fakes the color of their hair, what else do they fake. As you know 99% of blonds die their hair just to be appealing sexually. Screams shallow, vain, and inauthentic, aka low self esteem. If that's the only l kind of women you're attracted to, perhaps there some shadows that need to be addressed. Just sain No.. A guy who doesn't like blondes is the one who has some shadows that needs to be addressed lol jk. Seriously tho..I'm not saying that to provoke women who are not blondes.. I'm just being honest. It's something from my childhood and puberty.. Immediately I got attracted to blonde models who I saw in magazines or wherever else.. "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly." -Leo Gura. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 (edited) 7 minutes ago, Someone here said: Immediately I got attracted to blonde models who I saw in magazines or wherever else.. How are you gonna commit to your blonde wife with millions of other blondes out there? If she's wise enough to marry you in the first place lol jk Edited July 18, 2020 by Gesundheit “If you have no confidence in yourself, you are twice defeated in the race of life. But with confidence you have won, even before you start.” -- Marcus Garvey Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 1 minute ago, Meta-Man said: Harsh! For me beautiful women come in different shapes and colors. Like hot girls with buzzcuts ? Blondes overrated, perhaps. But you call this bad aesthetics brother? Oh shit! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 @Meta-Man Fake boobs, fake hair color, fake lips, fake nails, fake smile. And almost positive deep inside she resents being viewed and treated like an object. Where's the real woman? Wow how sexy lol Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 (edited) @Gesundheit 16 minutes ago, Gesundheit said: I'm not pro or against, but seriously why? Look I'm smart enough to not get into this debate.. It's so easy to make a case why you should be watching porn.. "it feels good DUH done bye bye".. But it takes intelligence and maturity to see why you shouldn't be watching porn anymore as I said especially if you are no longer a horny teenager. Edited July 18, 2020 by Someone here "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly." -Leo Gura. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 Am I an actual object or not an object? If I get offended by other bodies and other bodies preferences for those bodies didn't I just objectify myself? Isn't everything kinda fake? I dunno. My Youtube Channel- Light on Earth “We dance round in a ring and suppose, but the Secret sits in the middle and knows.”― Robert Frost Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 6 minutes ago, Gesundheit said: How are you gonna commit to your blonde wife with millions of other blondes out there? If she's wise enough to marry you in the first place lol jk Maybe I should marry all blondes out there since you guys seem not interested in them lol... 18 minutes ago, Gesundheit said: "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly." -Leo Gura. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
