Posted April 26, 2020 @Display_Name So you mean to say that good enough males do not have to struggle with getting sex at all? INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 26, 2020 (edited) 21 minutes ago, Preety_India said: @StarStruck For men it could be a set of factors Like, sex is no longer new for them in their 30s, if they have already experienced enough of it. So the novelty wears off. Second can be job stress. Third can be mid life crisis approaching and family and marriage stress. I think when a man becomes a daddy things change a bit sexually for him. But of course I can't say for sure. True. There a lot of factors at play. I was focused on sexual cycle. Women get hornier on their periods for example but their whole fertility up to 40 is a cycle too. https://www.instyle.com/lifestyle/hump-day-dirty-30s-sexual-prime Edited April 26, 2020 by StarStruck Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 26, 2020 (edited) To all the ones who supported me on embracing my horny side I just came twice and I think I can keep on going ... Anyways maybe you are all right and am just an exception of a woman that embraces her sexuality and is very horny and proud of it and probably am a total pervert also, but hey if i wouldn't accept that in me, it wouldn't be self love... What I think is surprising is that everybody focus their attention in the biological and binaries making generalising statements of a normative sexuality, which excludes other type of identities like the Lgbtq ... ok identities don't exit everything is nothingness, how can we apply the lessons of non duality here in sexuality in humans?... lets focus in one step at a time ok. I personally think is negative to put men and women in labels and generalise their sexuality since it can make, great damage to their psychology lets take the statement " girls are less horny then man" ok first that believe fact what ever, if you what to believe in that take it as a fact and make it a statues quote men and women, loose just by accepting that as a truth, so is useless. I decided am not going to take it for me, because i don't what to feel restrain by what society and the rest says. I think is beautiful when women can say am horny, suck me, fuck me hard do it soft or don't do anything, also extremely valid. we are not trained to communicate, what are our needs wants and limits already, and it makes it even hard, if the rest of the world is telling you that you have to be a certain way because of your gender, biology etc. What I propose and think is healthier and even more inclusive is to say some women are more horny then others and some men are also more horny then others and to compare them makes no sense, because already the way ones gets horny is very different then the other one and for me they are equally horny and get hot. Women can express their arousal in other ways and I find that maybe there, is a difference and is not even less or more, I get horny by fruits I find them so sensual delicious, they could be a turn on in their given moment, while maybe for a man is watching tits maybe some days i will be more horny then others also valid . And to be honest how can women be less horny when their own bodies are erotic already. One of my favourite videos from Actualized is this one I attach ....that was such a relive finally as a women, I also don't have to reproduce or fall in to this reproductive biological body I can also be free and decide what and how I will find the path of wisdom and impact the world in a way that is more truthful to me. but ok I accept that is very hard for people to let go of their gender etc. But at the same time my biggest concern is that what is really missing here is proper healthy, education in a more sex positive point of view. A personal story I met a girl that in her 20 never touch her vulva, she didn't even know her body her sexual organs, because no one told her, she was to shy to ask and had all the shame and restrains to even explore it, and of course as the holy horny mama that I am, i told her she has to touch herself know her body don't feel shame for feeling pleasure in any way ...I personally didn't know my own sexual anatomy since a few years ago, how terrible! ok to close this, sexuality is very broad has many colours and shades and comes with a lot of social conditioning, shame and pain for many and if we don't take it to a place of beauty and positive embracement, yes more women will believe that they are not so horny and guess what guys your lots. the only thing I can say , communicate ask but never asume. I just express from my own experience not with the intent of been wrong or right ,but more to have another perspective about this subject ... Edited April 26, 2020 by belen Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 26, 2020 (edited) @Display Name totally ...yes thank you ...i think we are just equally horny just in different ways @Girzo thats asome Edited April 26, 2020 by belen Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 26, 2020 @Dutch guy yes i know this exists and I am in the search of a group where i will be safe to experience it that was a lovely message by the way Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 26, 2020 (edited) @Preety_India I m very passionnate about biology. What about gay people ? Girl/men You mean their sex life is a trauma ? Not Real ? I m very open minded' but I believe more and more that most theory are lower stage of consciousness shaping theory of reality. What I exposed is unreal ? I never had Friends with hot witch girl ?? Exception ? What when exception become the rule ? Néo cortex grow and take over all old path. Of course currently only 1% of humanity is having a higher néo cortex. This explain why when you hang with lower consciousness you'll be bias confirmed most of the time ( sorry not judgy but relative Real ) you'll stick to your théories. Like adhd. It's maybe just lower consciousness projecting their imaginary désire of why higher consciousness kid act differently. Science doesn't back up everything. And I m a Big fan though. @Leo should I learn to stop sharing my vision and just hit the bush ? It is very Real in my mind currently that I don't want kid at all. ( 26 ) just like many mens at green + higher. StillI I enjoy sex. I live life for aesthetic ? Edited April 26, 2020 by GodDesireOnlyLove Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 26, 2020 @belen thanks. I just read your Big answer. Just fucking thanks. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 26, 2020 Impractical discussion. Men are hornier. Women are hornier. So what? You're not going to have sex with everyone on the planet. Statistics serve no value here, it just serves an ideology. You're only going to have sex with one partner at a time (or perhaps sometimes with multiple partners?). Why bother with the statistics when you should be focusing on your partner? Each case is different and unique. And if you know how to set the mood, you can get any woman horny. Sex for men is not about deep connection. It's about releasing tension mechanically asap. But this mechanical release is inconsiderate of the woman's body and is unfulfilling to both partners. Women's biology works differently on the time component but similarly on the tension component. A fantasy has to take place and it requires time to build. Every man should educate himself on how to give the best sex to his woman (both from her feedback and from research). Connecting with your partner during sex takes time, that's what differentiates between fulfilling and unfulfilling sex. A fulfilling sex for both partners will reset their hormones, while an unfulfilling sex will keep the man horny and the woman unsatisfied. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 26, 2020 @The observer your view add always value. Did you see failure in my own perspective ?? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 26, 2020 @GodDesireOnlyLove I think they have a biology too. I never implied anything about gay sex though. INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 26, 2020 (edited) @Preety_India and that's why a theory become fallacious. ( and mine maybe uncompleted aswell ) you cannot have a theory by not having an holistic view of reality, reality is way more than separated dichotomy. Mind creates dichotomy, not reality. I think with respect that you miss the bigger picture here and have self attachment to a narrowed construct, that isn't wrong, but uncompleted. I would advice that you take attention in your futur, on the post of serotoninluv, he has better view on deconstructing narrowed observation than myself. so what about biology of being gay ? are they alien we have to not take them in our calculus ? Edited April 26, 2020 by GodDesireOnlyLove Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 26, 2020 (edited) @GodDesireOnlyLove I just don't know much about gay people or gay sex so I can't comment on that. The question was about whether women are less horny, and I gave the biological reasons why they would be, but I never implied that biology rules everything Life is complex. In life our decisions are influenced by both biological and non biological factors. Edited April 26, 2020 by Preety_India INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 26, 2020 @Preety_India it's not about gay, it's about sexuality. how can you hold a view on a puzzle ( like sexuality ) if you don't mind having lost 20 pieces of it. how can you picture a solid imagery of the puzzle with half pieces ? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 26, 2020 (edited) @GodDesireOnlyLove why not? I'm holding a view on whatever I know, now if I don't know something, that's not a part of the view. That can be discussed separately with someone who has knowledge of it.. You're using the example of a puzzle in the wrong way. It's like if I have an opinion about the quality of air in Hong Kong, I'm also supposed to know the quality of air in America even if I haven't lived in America or else my opinion on the quality of air in Hong Kong is invalid ? Smh. That's some illogical connecting there. Edited April 26, 2020 by Preety_India INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 26, 2020 The laughable part of this thread is that Leo don't seem to change his mind and always always insists on something that he seems to know. And of course, men and women are equal, they both equal horny. Just as someone mentioned, they express it differently. Most women are raised to wear he "princess mask", you know, you can't do much with that. Also they have the consequences. It's different. But it doesn't mean they don't frequently get horny as men do. Also, remember that men are watching porn from their childhood/adolescence and they rarely ditch this behavior for it becomes a part of their mindset. They think and feel like watching porn. It brainwashes their minds until is too late. Imagine that only. What you focus on, grows. No Experience Can Bring Us Happiness Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 26, 2020 (edited) 30 minutes ago, egoeimai said: The laughable part of this thread is that Leo don't seem to change his mind and always always insists on something that he seems to know. And of course, men and women are equal, they both equal horny. Just as someone mentioned, they express it differently. Most women are raised to wear he "princess mask", you know, you can't do much with that. Also they have the consequences. It's different. But it doesn't mean they don't frequently get horny as men do. Also, remember that men are watching porn from their childhood/adolescence and they rarely ditch this behavior for it becomes a part of their mindset. They think and feel like watching porn. It brainwashes their minds until is too late. Imagine that only. What you focus on, grows. the point on porn brainwashing human male is a huge one in blurring the social picture, it increase like a drug their libido , exactly the same way a smoker who smoked once 5 cigs, start to smoke 20. they start chasing the dragon and go for a mechanical release then. I predict more & more problem with porn addiction in the futur, it create a lot of false expectations and many trouble in the social system. male are utterly brainwashed by porn is more than accurate. there is too much things.. but we can't put things into easy category. My gf never watched porn, she can't even imagine how much male are into porn. - ( Pn : I quit since a month and will never go back to it, was already since a year on the low side of using it, only when I had trouble with discovering sex with gf, and started to be needy for "more exploration", then I failed to my hold habits, but now I worked on it, and plan to never go back on "fast food sex" ; improved work on my self, read more book about integral vision of sex life/girl relationship ) on another note : leo here, stated loosely bullshit, only to make us talk and think by ourself ( this his is main job here, he is just pointing to critical thinking like.. all the time, no more, nor less, he doesn't engage if he doesn't feel like it ) ( fair ) about right now, he has probably taken some some pop corn and is in delight of all our bs battle rattle. I would bet my mother on this. He probably smirk in shadow for having put his perfect trap and leeching us in delight, just one thing he wasn't aware that I would see all his plan so clearly. Edited April 26, 2020 by GodDesireOnlyLove Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 26, 2020 It's hard for a woman to understand how horny men are until you've been one. As horny as you feel when you're ovulating for a few days, that's how horny a guy feels 24/7. You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 26, 2020 @Leo Gura who are you speaking for lmao??? You've been projecting ALOT lately in the name of teaching. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 26, 2020 @Vipassana Just pointing out the obvious. You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 26, 2020 (edited) @Vipassana he is in mind game vortex and not 'relative serious' Though even the best teacher can have 'flaw' He states only for feeding lions and teals. But I'll do my homework on his statement anyway Edited April 26, 2020 by GodDesireOnlyLove Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
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