Elham

How can I reset my sexual fantacies?

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i started nofap like 2 years ago and right now i don't need to fap to feel good

it's like cutting alcohol or weed out from your life, you don't need stimulants to make you feel good, you just feel good 24/7

the more you feel good without it, the easier it is to get it - i mean pussy (or dick in your example) :) 

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24 minutes ago, 28 cm unbuffed said:

i started nofap like 2 years ago and right now i don't need to fap to feel good

it's like cutting alcohol or weed out from your life, you don't need stimulants to make you feel good, you just feel good 24/7

the more you feel good without it, the easier it is to get it - i mean pussy (or dick in your example) :) 

I think it's a little different for girls. Girls can  control themselves pretty much. I don't know about other girls but I definitely can. 

So I don't need this whole nofap craze. In fact if I do "nofap" it will be too bad for me and I'll become miserable. 

It doesn't work that way for me. I feel 24/7 good especially with it. And I can get it even without having to practice nofap, why should getting that ( ) be a problem for me. Its available anytime. 

For a guy, however, it's understandable because there are so many issues (when it goes out of control). 

That thing for girls or me is not like alcohol. It's more like daily breakfast.

 

 


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15 hours ago, Anna1 said:

This is too long, imo, you may turn into mother Teresa and kill your sex drive.

I still don't know if I don't have sex for a long time will I weaken or strengthen my sex passion! 

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@Preety_India Maybe the way that one masturbate can be have both positive and negative effects. For example masturbation with porn doesn't have positive effects. Does it?

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Just now, Elham said:

I still don't know if I don't have sex for a long time will I weaken or strengthen my sex passion! 

Aww, well, I really only went a week without hun, so I can't advise more then that. It allowed me to have multiple orgasms if you are striving for that.

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1 minute ago, Anna1 said:

masturbation with porn doesn't have positive effects. Does it?

I also have no problem with thisxD

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@Elham

i wasn't masturbating for like 2-3 months and yesterday i decided to go for it, because "tention" was just too big

i didn't use porn for that and where i was thinking "it will deplete my energy" or something (like eastern gurus say) after that i felt a lot better and suddenly got a lot of power to clean my room and stuff

and a lot of stuff that was on my head lately that wasn't connected to "sexual frustration" in my head, just got sense, that i was just frustrated, needy, jealous fucker, that wanted to bust a nut

then yeah - if you feel like fantasies and shit on your head are too much to handle, just go for it, have some fun, plan it like a trip or picnic and have a ride

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7 hours ago, erik8lrl said:

Try Tantra Sex. 

I need to study about that

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13 hours ago, DrewNows said:

Changing your approach, this video may shed light on deeper needs or some behind the scenes reveals on sex

https://youtu.be/9Feb6b1kIsw

she also has one specified for masturbation and attraction worth watching imo 

I will check it out. Thank you

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34 minutes ago, Elham said:

@Preety_India Maybe the way that one masturbate can be have both positive and negative effects. For example masturbation with porn doesn't have positive effects. Does it?

Dépends the kind of porn. Seriously.

But it create a lot of false expectation if you only watch 'high erotic girl stuff'.

I think that's like men expecting girl to only be focusing on pleasuring the men ( in porn ). ( No Real mind interaction ) ( and in fact both like it' that's not a woman thing )

You need someone who want to connect and focus aswell on your pleasure. ( Teamwork )

Everyone should focus on giving-being

Mostly men don't do it because they coufound real sex with porn story.

But if a men can Do the distinction between fantasy and Real things that's ok.

My girlfriend and I listen our breath for instance.

That's for body part. If you are a over mind thinker. Just méditation should do good for sex and présence.

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22 minutes ago, Anna1 said:

@Aeris I have no problem with porn and sex, but I don't shame myself.

I m sure it should be fun with you. Not pointing finger in anyway haha

Everyone his path and taste in term of sex.

I have no problem with porn or hardcore sex neither.

Right 'assuming' body is one of the best way to heal.

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On 12/1/2019 at 4:23 AM, Aeris said:

I m sure it should be fun with you. Not pointing finger in anyway haha

Everyone his path and taste in term of sex.

I have no problem with porn or hardcore sex neither.

Right 'assuming' body is one of the best way to heal.

Whatever gives an awesome orgasm I'm all for it. xD 

Hey, why not?

 

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24 minutes ago, Anna1 said:

Whatever gives an awesome orgasm I'm all for it. xD 

Hey, why not?

I'm out of town, so no sex for me for  4 days so far, by tomorrow 5 days. Might have multiple orgasms tomorrow , hehe :D

You sure you don't want to try with 28 cm unbuffed ?

In the back alley it should do something for sure :D


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