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Can you Get Girls That Are More Physically Attractive Than You?

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I found this video that talks about how to attract girls that you think are more physically attractive than you. What are your thoughts on the points in this video. Do you actually think it is possible? 

 

 

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Yes you can. Prettier doesnt necessarily mean sexier though. It also doesn't necessarily mean she will be more of a freak. 

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@hellojohnson With a sports car and a house, you can get any girl you want. Well, almost any, it depends on how rich you are. But I don't know for sure. Maybe you can get any girl you want if you just try going out and approaching 100 of them. 

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The more developed and conscious you will be, the less important to get hot girl it will be.

It's way more about the deepness of how she has realized herself that will matter (but ofc we still have dicks, so she still needs to be booty attractive 😁).


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If you want love, do not hide from yourself

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I've attracted girls (8s, 9s, and even 10s) who were way more physically attractive than me.

Because girls aren't primarily attracted by a guy's looks, but by his persona, charm, charisma, confidence, wit, leadership qualities, intellect, social status, and strength.

If you go out a lot and approach a lot you will attract 8s and 9s fairly regularly. Which is not to say you'll be able to close all of them, because closing requires having perfect logistics, which usually isn't possible. So you will lose a lot of 8s and 9s, but at least you'll get the validation of having attracted them. You will be able to tell, for example, that if the logistics had been good, she would have eagerly slept with you. And from that point, it's only a matter of time until the logistics line up and you'll sleep with your first 8 or 9.

10s are just so rare it's not even worth thinking about.

All that's required is that you go out a lot, approach a lot, and have good game. If you can set up good logistics (by living very close to bars/clubs) that will up your chances of pulling girls by a factor of 2x-10x. Logistics are super important if you want to get laid a lot.

Basically any girl that's an 8 or above is a model-quality girl, as she can make easy money off her looks, and often does or did so in the past. She can be a model, actress, stripper, pornstar, webcam girl, go-go dancer, hostess, etc. But don't forget, a lot of these girls can be annoying to deal with as they tend to spoiled rotten by men. These girls know how to use their looks to manipulate men. They know they are hot and they know the value of that in our society. Handling girls like that requires a serious boss/pimp attitude. A weak man cannot handle a girl like that.

The rule of thumb is, whatever quality of girl you feel you deserve and can boss around, is the quality of girl you will get. Anything above that you will not be able to handle because your confidence is too low. Hot girls have high confidence. As a guy, in order to attract a girl your confidence and value must be higher than hers. If you want to date models, you need to develop balls of steel and a delusional, borderline narcissistic degree of self-confidence and self-love. You need to be unfazed and just have an I-don't-give-a-fuck attitude.

Or become famous. Famous guys get hot girls easily.


"Be melting snow. Wash yourself of yourself." -- Rumi

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@Leo Gura What is "being higher value" exactly? It seems that term gets thrown around a lot.

Is it just a mans behavior cues like you mentioned... 

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@joeyi99 What is a woman's value in a man's eyes? Think of a list of what makes a woman high value to a man. What makes a woman a prize?

Now step in the woman's shoes. What is a man's value to her? Make a list. Why would a woman need a man in here life at all? What makes a man a prize?

Hint: these are NOT symmetrical! You must stop thinking about this using your dick. A beautiful face/body is not why a woman is looking for a man. Nor does she need a man with a long dick. She has much more important needs he must meet.

Contemplate this from the woman's POV until you understand what needs a woman has. Then you will understand what value means here.

A woman's value is much more physical. A man's value is much more social. A man who is weak, lazy, socially out of touch, and incapable of leading other men is the equivalent of an ugly woman.

What makes a man ugly is NOT his physical appreance but his meek attitude. Which is exactly why incels can't get laid. It's not their looks, it's their ugly attitudes.

You need to develop the attitude of a winner or a boss or a warrior.

What do all girls fantasize about? A knight in shining armor who will sweep her off her feet and show her a whole new world. Looks are not what make a warrior.


"Be melting snow. Wash yourself of yourself." -- Rumi

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@Leo Gura all this compassion high values etc. we learn doesnt really work irl its ruthless even stage red playground its a zoo just by driving for 5 minutes you can see how all behave and if you are stage green or emotional compassionate etc you get crushed...

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@NoSelfSelf No, it's actually the opposite. You feel that way because your love and compassion is so weak.

And don't confuse compassion with being a doormat or a lazy bum or a weak man.

It's because life is ruthless that we practice love. A warrior must have heart. Love and consciousness is true strength. 


"Be melting snow. Wash yourself of yourself." -- Rumi

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@Leo Gura yeah i confuse it with being a doormat and a weak man...i dont know how to be strong and be compassionate its like one or the other...

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@NoSelfSelf For now, you can just practice doing those two things seperately. When you go to a bar, practice being ruthless. When you are at the grocery store, practice being compassionate.

Later you can bring the two together.


"Be melting snow. Wash yourself of yourself." -- Rumi

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@Leo Gura

To be honest @NoSelfSelf has a point. Being compassionate has no value to a woman in the attraction phase. In some cases it's almost a negative.

As you yourself have pointed out, Leo, girls in the first attraction phase love a guy who is a ruthless warrior and completely self centered. Compassion takes place only in a relationship, from what I can observe.

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13 minutes ago, billiesimon said:

@Leo Gura

To be honest @NoSelfSelf has a point. Being compassionate has no value to a woman in the attraction phase. In some cases it's almost a negative.

As you yourself have pointed out, Leo, girls in the first attraction phase love a guy who is a ruthless warrior and completely self centered. Compassion takes place only in a relationship, from what I can observe.

 

It has a value to you.

Seeing women like meat does not feel good for very long, even if you were the most unexperienced nerd ever.


If you want the moon, do not hide from the night
If you want a rose, do not run from the thorns
If you want love, do not hide from yourself

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11 hours ago, billiesimon said:

Being compassionate has no value to a woman in the attraction phase. In some cases it's almost a negative.

Lucky for you the attraction phase lasts about 60 minutes tops.


"Be melting snow. Wash yourself of yourself." -- Rumi

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On 2/17/2019 at 9:39 AM, Leo Gura said:

If you go out a lot and approach a lot you will attract 8s and 9s fairly regularly. Which is not to say you'll be able to close all of them, because closing requires having perfect logistics, which usually isn't possible.

You will be able to tell, for example, that if the logistics had been good, she would have eagerly slept with you. And from that point, it's only a matter of time until the logistics line up and you'll sleep with your first 8 or 9.

All that's required is that you go out a lot, approach a lot, and have good game. If you can set up good logistics (by living very close to bars/clubs) that will up your chances of pulling girls by a factor of 2x-10x. Logistics are super important if you want to get laid a lot.

 

@Leo Gura Can you expand on these points you made about the "logistics" please? Sounds like your saying it is a frequency of interaction, environment and a numbers game...

 

On 2/17/2019 at 9:39 AM, Leo Gura said:

You will be able to tell, for example, that if the logistics had been good, she would have eagerly slept with you. And from that point, it's only a matter of time until the logistics line up

 What else makes up good logistics? are you saying if it was a different time and place and you handled the interaction better things would have gone more smoothly?

 

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@Leo Gura 

My hot student xc runner friend actually dated a porn star and had great sex with her for about a month before ghosting her because he realized she was a toxic, manipulative liar.

i will never put a girl on a pedestal for anything, especially not just because she’s hot 

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Posted (edited)

The video is ridiculous yeah of course, thinking of any girls as out of your league is not productive and often not true.

Edited by Spiral

You can't be enlightened, no one can.;)

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