Women Are EMBERASSED By Their Boyfriends

[Butters]

The other day I posted a thread cause I heard about this article: Is Having A Boyfriend Embarrassing Now? in UK Vogue.

Because THIS IS HOW WOMEN THINK OF THEIR BOYFRIENDS NOW! 

Have they not told you this? 

But it's not their fault, it's the GUYS FAULT!

Today I was at the university library sitting across this girl, normal day. Her 'boyfriend' shows and doesn't know how to act and start obsessively PDA'ing her and she's really not that interested. He continues, to the point where she LEAVES THE FUCKING ROOM!

Then I just peek over at the guy cause I'm like 'wtf is this' and this wimp is shaking cause he's probably having some anxiety attack or whatever. THIS IS WHAT WOMEN HAVE TO DEAL WITH THESE DAYS! And I got this confused with feminists being assholes in my previous thread. No. It's the MEN's FAULT. Fix yourselves. Become someone a woman will be proud of dating. 

Edited Monday at 06:26 PM by Butters

[Lyubov]

Dating in the west is so cooked 

[Butters]

16 minutes ago, Lyubov said:

Dating in the west is so cooked 

Exactly. 

Some countries, women have a natural respect for men and lift their men up, naturally. He will behave more masculine as a result. 

In the West, you could be spending 20 years on a career, making money, having a nice car, and women will STILL go "idk about that". 

It completely flips the dynamic in the wrong direction. But it's still the guy's fault for allowing this. 

Edited Monday at 07:04 PM by Butters

[Schizophonia]

You base your paradigm and mood on random article and a random example from the millions of events that have occurred in your life which you twist with this article to reach a cynical conclusion about the entire West.

Phew.

[Hojo]

Russian propaganda.

You read it and and now go looking for it in your reality.

You witness an event and make up that you know what is happening between people, when you have no idea what is happening between the two people. You have no idea about their relation, you have no idea what they are thinking and you have no idea how they are feeling.

You fall for it.

Maybe her grandmother died, maybe she said let me go freshen up before I come back and suck your dick. Maybe she said I have to go class now.

Edited Monday at 08:01 PM by Hojo

[AerisVahnEphelia]

50 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

You base your paradigm and mood on random article and a random example from the millions of events that have occurred in your life which you twist with this article to reach a cynical conclusion about the entire West.

Phew.

humans are not good at resisting memetic sweet poison

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

The writer of that article is just some popular, socially well off black woman - with good looks + she's a woman + spews endless social justice articles and content, so she fits right into the correct narrative. Although she most certainly wouldn't see it that way, in reality imho for her life is a smooth cruise. So who really cares what she writes or thinks, if she and women like her think that having a boyfriend is embarrassing, then they are entitled to having their own opinion and choice

[Elliott]

2 hours ago, Butters said:

The other day I posted a thread cause I heard about this article: Is Having A Boyfriend Embarrassing Now? in UK Vogue.

Because THIS IS HOW WOMEN THINK OF THEIR BOYFRIENDS NOW! 

Have they not told you this? 

But it's not their fault, it's the GUYS FAULT!

Today I was at the university library sitting across this girl, normal day. Her 'boyfriend' shows and doesn't know how to act and start obsessively PDA'ing her and she's really not that interested. He continues, to the point where she LEAVES THE FUCKING ROOM!

Then I just peek over at the guy cause I'm like 'wtf is this' and this wimp is shaking cause he's probably having some anxiety attack or whatever. THIS IS WHAT WOMEN HAVE TO DEAL WITH THESE DAYS! And I got this confused with feminists being assholes in my previous thread. No. It's the MEN's FAULT. Fix yourselves. Become someone a woman will be proud of dating. 

Guy probably read your thread.....

[Ramasta9]

First of all these are not "woman" these are immature little underdeveloped girls who call themselves women, hence the men they attract are not men, but little underdeveloped boys. All have deep underlying daddy / mommy issues and feed off each other like a baby suckling on mummies tits.

Real women and men don't even think these ways nor relate the same as people do on the internet. Its completely different level. What you see in university and mainstream life is far from a true and mature relationship. These are all babies, having sex, having more babies, creating immature mutations of trauma and suppressed shadows that only carry on a unhealed seed to further infest the word.

People need to be like Buddhas and Christs first, then they have the authority and maturity to create children.

99.9% of people are not even ready to be in a relationship, they still figuring themselves out. 

[OBEler]

@Ramasta9 your post is radical 

[Tenebroso]

Men today should let go of the need to become a "good man" because the truth is that there is no such thing. The goalpost will always be conveniently moved, the point is to vilify men regardless of what we do. The older I get the more I respect the point of view of The Joker in Batman........This world is a clown show, the morality we are raised to value is fake and maybe society does not deserve good men.

Edited yesterday at 11:58 AM by Tenebroso

[Human Mint]

@Ramasta9 that is a... interesting view...

[Recursoinominado]

On 22/12/2025 at 3:23 PM, Butters said:

Because THIS IS HOW WOMEN THINK OF THEIR BOYFRIENDS NOW! 

Nah man, that's not how women think; that's just a dumb article, don't confuse it with reality. 

[Ramasta9]

9 hours ago, Human Mint said:

@Ramasta9 that is a... interesting view...

Its just common sense to me. 

[TheGod]

On 22/12/2025 at 11:47 AM, Lyubov said:

Dating in the west is so cooked 

I was born in Ukraine and I moved in Canada 4 years ago. After having approached 100 women, I realized that the mentality of women here is sooo different. I'm used to beauty and genuine femininity and here in Canada these 2 things are very rare 

What you'll find is a 4/10 who thinks she's 8/10 and has no developed personality, she has an artificial one that consist basically from entertainment, TV-shows, social media and radical feminism brainwashing (based on my experience). 

I'm not a misogynist and I don't think women are born to be house wives and to be dying in the kitchen or raising kids. Men are not superior to women either. 

The best thing you can do if you want to meet feminine women is to leave North America. Complaining about it or playing a victim is just a time waste. I feel sorry for guys who have never lived outside of North America, you're missing out on a lot of things and you are not even aware of this

[Thought Art]

@Butters Sounds like a life purpose could be here for men helping men become men.

No man deserves respect just for being a man. A man has to earn the respect by being a real one. 
 

We live in a funny age. But, this article and your observation is not statistic for knowing the depth of the problem. 
 

A man learning to love a woman could be the hardest thing he ever does. Especially in this age where so many men (and women) are lacking the touch, experience and social connection…I am not saying he isn’t attracted to her… but to actually love her as a Superior Man. This is what we need.

Edited 14 hours ago by Thought Art