Jannes

Insecure about my d size

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Its ok, you cant change that, but you need to play to your strengths and reframe your supposed limitation.

First of all, you need to become a master at:

-oral sex

-finger game

-squirting

-DIRTY TALK

 

Biggest part of sex is abstract, emotional, not physical, especially for woman.

Its not her pussy, ass or breasts the more erogenous part of her body. Its her brain.

 

You have to become a master at making her wet without penetration, without even touching her.

Can you make her moan just by gently kissing her forearm?

Get to the point she is BEGGING you to fuck her.

At that point your d size is really no problem.

Try learning about sex so you reach a point that guys with bigger ds become jealous of you. Become a mystery. A fucking contradiction.

So you get in the sauna and guys cant believe hot girls want to keep having sex with a man who is not 'that big'.

Become the dick-paradox.

But more important. Nobody really gives a fuck about your d size.

 

Check out some of these:

https://sexualquantumleap.com/

- Don of desire:

  (buy his ebooks if they are available).

 

- Sex God Method.

https://www.youtube.com/@JasonJulius/videos

 

The key here is to understand the psychology of sex (especially for women), and forget for a while about the male POV.

 

 

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Keep that clit happy, more girth than length. I know a chap who had a small friend, and he still got chicks. It means nothing, the older you get. You will look back one day and laugh at it all. Most guys don't know this, there are so many different sizes, clits, vaginas, and vaginal lips as there are cocks. God created a massive variety of both.

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Many here are mentioning the importance of things like oral, fingering, squirting, ejaculation... none of that even matters, even that is somewhat 'distorted' of what true love making actually is and a true orgasm can be. Fluids can be supercharged and alchemized internally.

You'd be amazed and how much can be transformed in a sacred dance ritual when done with full soul and loving intent. Most of the things mentioned on this topic can be dropped and you can experience even more than all of them combined.

That's when you finally start tapping into the real mastery of the art of making love. 

 

 

 


I am but a reflection... a mirror... of you... of me... in a cosmic dance ~ of a unified mystery...

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Dudes, insecurity about your dick is not about pleasing the girl, it is about pleasing you.

This issue is not solved by figuring out clever ways to do sex. That's irrelevant. You have to deeply surrender to the reality your own dick.

Edited by Leo Gura

You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity.

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15 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

You have to surrender to the reality your own dick.

Final step before enlightenment 

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How would you experience your situation differently if you really believed that your soul specifically choose to incarnate into this exact body to give itself an opportunity to overcome and evolve beyond a small D insecurity? 🤔


reminder: My life's mission is to help men Completely Heal ALL their Ego Wounds, so they develop a Mature, Healthy, Strong and Integrated Self-Esteem & Ego.

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If you are on the lower end of average for a western male than you're on the higher end of average for an Asian male.

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