1 in 4 people Will die Single

[Jowblob]

7 minutes ago, MsNobody said:

@Jowblob  To transcend the game you gotta play the game well, not dissociate your way out of it, it's easy to be enlightened when you are alone in a cave, the real work is out there, being in close relationship with others is one of the best ways to have your wn stuff bubble up so you can address it. 

Playing the game well means fooling yourself to the "agreed" rules of society to the agreed ways of being, meaning playing the game of seperation. When you become enlightened there is no game, it's all you. If you play the game "well" like you said, you're gonna be stuck in it. If you dissociate and focus on God and breaking the limits that's how you come further. The choice is yours. I already made these choices, that's why i can feel you and your body or clothes you wear right now if i wanted to. 

[MsNobody]

On 11/1/2025 at 7:55 AM, Jannes said:

Good for you!

I am just sceptical when I hear someone say they are above basic human needs, but if thats authentic to you then thats great. 

I also find it to be very suspicious, cause in reality enlightenment makes you enjoy life more, you enter life with full satisfaction and experience it through the eyes of a child, enlightened people don't seem to view human needs as shallow or something to be simply overcome disregarding the preciousness of IT. 

[MsNobody]

On 11/1/2025 at 7:35 AM, Jowblob said:

I've been single all my life basically, realized there's no true love here. And human love is based on survival

The fish is the last to discover water

[Schizophonia]

6 minutes ago, MsNobody said:

@fabger

yes its pretty concerning, another thing I've noticed (since im from brazil) is that the people having more children are the poor people, they dont even raise the children, they are just left by themselves to face the world, Im talking about 7 ~ 10 children per family in the slums. Conscious people are having less and less children, although Im hopeful about the future, the math doesn't add to bring us to a good future. That being said, if my parents really though too much about having me, I definitely wouldn't be here cause I came from one of those families too, and I think everything I went through was like a curriculum that shaped me to be where Im at, anyways the decline in birth rate is an interesting topic thank you for bringing it up.

Poor people have more children because they have nothing else to do; by definition, if they are poor, they lack access to consumer goods regardless of whether that's right or wrong.
The richer people are, the more they have the possibility to indulge their neurose; which includes antisocial behaviors.

[MsNobody]

On 10/31/2025 at 10:29 PM, Emerald said:

There are many issues that could lead to this... the most of which is probably having to do with many social interactions (including dating) happening online. And that just doesn't allow for real organic connection to form over time.

But one thing that holds people back from finding a partner is what I call "checkbox mentality."

It's like trying to choose partners with your mind so that the person has to have all the qualities on the list. And it over-intellectualizes the entire process, which is heart-centered when it's done correctly.

But even if they do find someone who checks off every box on their list, that isn't the thing that enables connection. Connection comes from the heart and from a deepening of intimacy. It's about getting out the mind and into the body.

A person who can do that and develop deep intimacy with friends and partners will have a much much easier time finding a partner.

Also, a person who does most of their dating in person (and not on dating apps) will be able to develop this intimacy much more easily.

Loooove this Emerald! There is so much that only happens in person and dating apps took this away 

[MsNobody]

@Princess Arabia yes he said "we all die alone" instead of giving an honest answer about what he thinks about the subject, but if it was a young boiii asking for pick up advice he would write a bible lol 

[Schizophonia]

The more time passes, the more I am "Heideggerian", perhaps even "Kaczynskian".

The more I connect with what truly brings me joy, the more I realize it's simple things like my surroundings, nature, hunting, and crafts.

Even food, I do this regularly with food now because I have a history of eating disorders; I realize that what's good is what my ancestors ate, and I see people who go on diets as mentally ill, harming themselves or others through their promotion.

[MsNobody]

13 minutes ago, Jowblob said:

I already made these choices, that's why i can feel you and your body or clothes you wear right now if i wanted to. 

okaaay now im feeling pretty uncomfortable hahaha thats some freak creep stuff to be saying dude, chill out, if you really felt me you would meet me where Im at instead of trying to bring me to where you are at. You are not adding to the discussion, you are just saying lets not discuss this cause only God in important, and where do you think God is at? 

[Jowblob]

5 minutes ago, MsNobody said:

okaaay now im feeling pretty uncomfortable hahaha thats some freak creep stuff to be saying dude, chill out, if you really felt me you would meet me where Im at instead of trying to bring me to where you are at. You are not adding to the discussion, you are just saying lets not discuss this cause only God in important, and where do you think God is at? 

You belong exactly where you belong, and i knew exactly that if i would say this stuff it would bring out your "ego" so you can see for yourself. My lady you know nothing.

[MsNobody]

@How to be wise

On 10/31/2025 at 10:33 PM, How to be wise said:

I cant believe you saved this omggg I had forgotten what was written lol it was all so fast and it just disappeared, we had no time to apply but well I wouldn't qualify cause I have tattoos.

Its surprising that Leo talks a lot about Eben Pagan's relationship, if you look closely to the work of Annie Lala (his wife) much of who Eben Pagan is was just because of his romantic relationship, but Leo is not really open to talking about love, his advice when it comes to relationships is contained in pick advice and totally directed to men, I think he low key hates women 

Here is a good talk from Annie

if anyone is interested

 

[MsNobody]

@Jowblob

5 minutes ago, Jowblob said:

You belong exactly where you belong, and i knew exactly that if i would say this stuff it would bring out your "ego" so you can see for yourself. My lady you know nothing.

whopsss you just brought it up 

[TheGod]

Dying alone is just part of the dream, we are one forever and have always been one. 

Enjoy loneliness before merging back into the oneness.  

[Natasha Tori Maru]

4 hours ago, MsNobody said:

I think he low key hates women 

Do you think the possibility exists he is just extremely private regarding his inner landscapes of feeling and emotion? So, because there is so little to go off, we are unable to clearly get an idea of how he personally feels and perceives within the scope of connection with a woman.

I feel Leo has always compartmentalized this aspect of himself - strategically - as very personal emotions/feelings can be used as leverage by trolls to hurt. Being a public figure is brutal as you would have to grow a fucken thick skin and steadfast confidence in the face of extensive criticism and doubt.

I might be projecting though  Based mainly on my own tendencies. I am very open and transparent - but when it comes to my emotional connections and romantic partners I have always been very walled off to others. These aspects are my own private inner world I have zero need to share.

In addition - I have never felt any hatred or slight from Leo based on my sex. On the contrary - when I have pointed out some sexism in his words he has always been gracious about correcting if the pushback is based on sound reason.

My caveat being that I do not identify with all aspects of being a women which can mean I miss some sexism. But this is mainly because I have never felt my gender held me back in any way

I believe the messes Leo always gets himself into are when he uses generalities applying to the sexes too liberally. And this isn't isolated to women - I have seen him do this with males also. Much to the chagrin of users on the forum.

Edited 17 hours ago by Natasha Tori Maru

[Yimpa]

On 11/1/2025 at 0:33 AM, How to be wise said:

It will never be forgotten.

My only criteria is that you love God… which is obviously ME 

[Emerald]

18 hours ago, StaraX said:

Not long ago, Leo said a woman has to be at least 25, preferably around 30. But in that screenshot, 22-year-olds are also considered fine?

To be fair, those screenshots are from several years ago... perhaps 3 or more years ago.

[Emerald]

8 hours ago, MsNobody said:

Loooove this Emerald! There is so much that only happens in person and dating apps took this away 

Yes, I definitely think so.

[StaraX]

7 hours ago, Emerald said:

To be fair, those screenshots are from several years ago... perhaps 3 or more years ago.

Also, it was 3 or more years ago when he said that a woman should be at least 25. He was giving advice to a dude that was dating a 19-year-old.

[Yimpa]

On 10/31/2025 at 7:21 PM, Leo Gura said:

Everyone dies alone.

On 10/31/2025 at 7:48 PM, Ramasta9 said:

And everyone seems to try to escape this ^^

 

[Spiral]

One of the issues with modern relationships is that they do not offer practical advantages (besides potentially children and easy sex).

So it’s more of a “I want because it feels nice”. So you have it for companionship or whatever. It’s just vague and fluffy.

In the past a guy could provide economically, which is a  practical advantage for women. While woman can take care of the household or in other words clean and cook etc. Which is a practical advantage for men.

Men tend to be very practical and a lot of them to not care much for having children. The attractive ones do not care much for easy sex. So in terms of motivation we do not care that much. Even if we are actually happier and such in a relationship. 

[Beans]

When I die, I want to be cremated in the coral reefs and become one with the ocean.