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    5 hours ago, Preety_India said:

    @Lyubov like connecting with them in a more emotional way, chatting with them in a personal way, I suck at it. I just don't do it or avoid it completely. A lot of people feel pissed off because of my distant behavior. 

    Ι get pissed off when people are distant too. So I get it. Lol 

    But also, must respect introverts 

    5 hours ago, Preety_India said:

    I don't see the necessity in being personal. But maybe I could be wrong. 

    Maybe... Because you haven't felt it yet. See how it feels you may like it 

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    Hello @Stratos

    From what I read, it seems that you're not ready for this type of connection. You'll get hurt and you'll take your lessons. That's great and universe has always the best for you. You want commitment and trust but this lady  probably doesn't want something serious and she just is living her greatest life with you lol Maybe in your age she didn't have the chance to do what you're doing now. 

    The problem is not the age gap as there are soooo many age gap relationships out there today, but your feelings now describe that is not the right time for you to sustain this. Maybe it'll break you but you'll grow from this. 

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    @Ampresus That's super common. Everywhere you look there's this issue. Everywhere, social media, even there. Outside, inside. It's spreading like crazy. 

    Accepting it helps a lot to put the fire out. Other than that, as people said, it needs practice like everything. It's a trauma feeding itself from this mind pattern /habit. There's a process, you kill the habits, replace with new healthier habits. Tired already. Also requires a lot of emotional maturity and strength. Meditation will help to stay focused. 

    Ps. I'm not following my own advice ?

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    19 minutes ago, iceprincess said:

    @Space  i don't resist the thoughts i have about him when they happen, i actually enjoy them and don't mind them being there.

    R u sure? 

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    i don't beat myself even more  that would be terrible considering how much i think about him. what's more frustrating to me is that i can't seem to let him go.

    He is only thought. You're only thought. Without thought, there's no ego. Without thought there's no attachment. If he doesn't exist in you as a form of thought, he doesn't exist at all. So letting go of him means letting go of the thought of him. That's fucking genius you know? You've always been free. 

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    it's when i relfect back on my life and go "omg how is this guy still in my mind, move on already"  . in some way i;ve accepted it and realized at one point this will vanish. it's just annoying how long it's been taking over a relationship that was so long ago and so insignificant. what's gonna happen when i do end up in a really loving committed relationship and that goes to shit? how insane will i end up becoming then 

    You're judging. Can u see? Let it be. 

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    21 hours ago, Flowerfaeiry said:

    and lied to. 

    Yet they won't admit so I'm left with just using the info I have. 

    So much of me knows that I'm holding myself back being in this relationship, yet I can't fully convince myself to leave :(

    I don't feel strong enough. 

    You should leave because your gut never lies. You don't have to have written proof of cheating to actually realize. Leave. 

    Ps. Except if you want an open relationship ?then stay and enjoy yourself. But don't make this an excuse to stay. Look within for more info. 

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    4 hours ago, UnconsciousHuman said:

    @Amit I don't care and don't know. To me, he speaks dogma, to him it's his experience. Also, there are things outside of his experience he talks about. Karma, past lives, and a bunch of other stuff I can't remember this very moment. 

    Dude if you wanna follow Leo and his ideologies and dogmas do so, there have been others here that waste as much as 8 years of their life only to come to the conclusion that this forum and Leo is the perfect distraction from actual spirituality because it is a distraction which claims it is spiritual.

    Hello. I don't follow Leo or his dogmas lol 

    I hate Leo. ?? Loool I'm kidding. 

    I've been here for so much time now. I just read fun stuff and reply. 

    Don't take life so seriously. Nothing is serious. You do you. You can leave you can stay, you can come back, as I always say you can never lose. Everything's in an experience. Lessons 

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    Also, I wanted to add that insight I had yesterday, it's also related to that thread and it can be helpful. 

    That vibing with other people in the dating scene is only random-meaning that you can not control it its like a wheel turning and if it happens it happens. Trying to impress someone never works. Sooner or later they'll know and you'll feel inauthentic. So if you vibe you vibe. Can't do anything about it. So dating its a good opportunity to see whether if you do or not. But after that, it's not in your hands. Lol