Something Funny

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  7. Posted

    2 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

    A girlfriend of mine got a free Mercedes SUV from a billionaire working in a hotel. A free brand new fucking Mercedes! Just for being a girl. She didn't even sleep with him! Now she drives that Mercedes to my house to sleep in my bed.

    Leo, do you mind if I ask how this makes you feel? On two levels.

    1) Did you have any feelings of jealousy / insecurity. I don't mean about money, but the kind a person might feel if a gf flirted with another guy in front of you (I assume not, but still curious).

    2) Did you start thinking less of her after it? Or, alternatively, would you admire her more if she told you how a billionaire offered her a mercedes and she rejected it because she doesn't need random "freebies" in life?

    If you didn't start thinking any less of her after it, is it because you didn't treat this relationship seriously / consider her as a potential life-long partner anyway or is it because you genuinely don't mind it?

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    15 hours ago, Basman said:

    @Something Funny I believe it is fundamentally a need to be enjoyed as a person that is amiss here. Parents usually fulfill this need for their children when they play with them, talk with them leisurely or simply spend quality time with them. The experience of joy derived from your mere existance. It is hard to get that as adult the same way unfortunately. It is something you gotta learn to cultivate yourself somehow.

    I can relate to the pain of feeling like nobody enjoys you for who you are and that you have that you have to grind just to get what you want, however. It is not helpful thought to whish you had it easier. Girls might have it easier one way but they also fundamentally have different needs and insecurities which don't apply to you the same way (and which you probably don't want).

    Just keep it rolling. Do things you find meaningful and makes you happier as a person. Just keep in mind that your brain still growing. Trust me, as you inch closer to 25, you will suddenly feel a lot more level headed.

    Thank you. That’s an interesting take. I don't think I've this issue when growing up to be honest. My problem was that I would be adraid to express myself around my dad and would try to be as invisible as possible.  And I think because of that I still have issues with opening up to people and having a good time without constantly analyzing my every action.

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    1 hour ago, Judy2 said:

    i'm always scared to love (myself) cause it might hurt too bad. so let's not call this love for now. and i can keep being scared if it helps. 

    Why scared? I understand why someone wouldn't want to love themselves because they just don't like themselves,  but why would you be scared? How might it hurt you?

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    6 minutes ago, ValiantSalvatore said:

    I have a sauna that I could ask to be fixed as it's not in use. I don't own a TV, neither do I plan to own one my place is large, yet wine and the sauna could be the only thing I could offer. As well as the swimming thing I mentioned in another thread.

    What are other cool things to own? That are pretty cheap? I don't have the place setup, yet as this is costly for example bikes etc. for at home training etc. Darts? 

    To complicated and just going for some wine and dinner at my place?

    A pet rabbit. Buy yourself a pet rabbit. 

    Who would refuse you offering them to go and play with a rabbit xD