Zion

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  1. Let's create an amazing list of profound questions that may be simple, but still extremely deep & wise to personally contemplate. Post any questions you may have written down or thought of, that have helped you gain insight or a new perspective in some way: Note: These are questions that are supposed to help someone see a new perspective or have a new insight by simply personally contemplating the questions that are posted. Here's some I find valuable: - Is faith all you know? - Can one live without faith? - What are you doing out of fear? v.s What are you doing out of love? - Should it matter to someone how beautiful they think they are? Why & why not? - Why do you fear not having certainty? - What is compassion? - Is _____ productive? - What is the wisest way for me to live lie as I currently am & continue to be? - Do you take credit for who you are? - Ect. Thank you for any participation.
  2. Watched this video, I think it's important to note that when she's talking about making a woman feel safe, she's talking primarily mentally. Physical is less important in this regard. When she's talking about how all women are fundamentally in constant fear, this is mental. While physical stature can be important to some degree, that is only so; due to the mentality the woman holds about what is safe & what isn't. Each woman has her own level of fear, so building trust & creating mental safety will be completely different with every woman. The goal is to understand how you can better understand what she fears to better help her feel safe & truly loved.
  3. Is attraction simply liking/loving things about others that you yourself lack love in? Is attraction simply liking/loving things about others that you yourself don't embody or struggle to embody? What is attraction? Spiritually, what does it mean to be attracted to something? I'm not necessarily asking only for the definition, but also WHY the definition is defined as it is? What is the cause of any attraction, without regards to the bias of the one experiencing attraction?
  4. What are some good examples of effective & clear communication? Communication that is direct, forward, yet nonchalant.. Thanks for any help
  5. Ignorance is bliss.
  6. Are you asking if you're "allowed" to be liking this guy even if he's coming off abnormally social? Are you asking if you're allowed to have certain social boundaries? Or perhaps maybe you're asking how you can make your boundaries known to someone your interested in.. Whats normal is entirely subjective, so it all comes down to you. You make what's normal for you. I'm sure you know yourself in that regard. Whats normal is entirely dependent on the standards you place on yourself. My advice: If something isn't normal for you, try it out. Embrace it. Notice any insecurities or uncomfort that comes up & ask yourself why you feel that way. This will help you to adapt a good consensus of what your boundaries are & better help you understand why they are there, & if they need to change.
  7. @kinesin So many honestly. A great one would be meditation. Another one shadow work. Another, putting myself in social situations to better my social skills. The list goes on.. I understand that I perhaps have put too much on my plate, & that's the main issue. However, how do I narrow it down to one at a time?
  8. I have all the knowledge, but the experience is lacking more & more heavily with each day. What can I do to force myself to start something & form a habit? Or rather, how can I convince my subconscious that I'm comfortable with starting something? How can I trick myself into starting something that I currently subconsciously fear doing?
  9. So I'm finding myself stuck in paralysis by analysis. I feel as though I need to be emotionally mature enough before I start initiating relationships of any kind. I feel it is dangerous to involve myself in any type of relationship deeply, as I'm still currently developing myself emotionally & spiritually. However, I do still have sexual needs & it becomes very frustrating to not have that need met. You may think that fwb & hookups would be the way to go, however I find it difficult to participate in that without some kind of emotional connection. Is there any tips to better enjoy the hookup/fwb process? It seems as though it is a necessary step in developing one's sexual experience, stature, & well-being. Is it a necessary step for sexual maturity? Why is it a necessary step? It seems patience is the way to go, as well as learning how to better emotionally connect with people, but some practical tips on how to do these would be much appreciated What would you advise? What are your thoughts? How do you personally go about this issue? Thank you for any help
  10. The bias of professionalism.
  11. I understand it's all a matter of learning to become comfortable with the uncomfortable. In the mean time however... when creating a conversation or starting some kind of an interaction with someone, what are some good tools that can help to alleviate any tension & uncomfortability for the person you're interacting with?
  12. Once one is awakened, does everything lack purpose and actual intention? Does purpose become anything one wants to see? Does purpose become fluid; without purpose? Does purpose lack purpose once awakened?
  13. Wow, I never thought of that.. ? Some good food for thought.
  14. Is there a way to speed up the process of exhausting a desire to transcend your addiction to it?