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I think he's talking to me. We never know who he's talking to

Because like, a lot of teachers talk of the possibility of making an abundant living doing something that one is passionate about and that comes EASY... Others are adamant about the hard work and effort mentality. So, what is it? Do I really have to swallow the reality that it's gonna be harsh and effortful? It feels like hard work is forced, I don't know..

I wouldn't tell them to just get in and fail. I also wouldn't tell them to study hydronamics because it's too detailed and doesn't get motor skills locked in. But I would offer guidance, some support. There are stupid mistakes you can learn about in advance and avoid. If we can't learn from the experiences of others, why would we live in a world with billions of people? We don't have to go everything alone without external guidance. (Note to myself as well)

Makes sense. This actually clarifies a lot of things about my impatience. This thred has been very useful to me, y'all. I might keep coming to the forum more often this year as I work through my mentality issues around money and what's possible in money-making and value-providing for me. The first barrier is definitely about ridding myself of the idea that this should be easy. Ugh.

"It is characterized by an overestimation of one's own abilities." What? I'm literally dealing with the opposite condition

I'm putting together a Youtube playlist on this topic. There's some Leo Gura, some Teal Swan and some AJ Miller in it. More to come https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLk-zP5FXAEEZwYJS-RWzL76CeZabosU-O&si=dFuGqPVuplE-3tMX

I'm 26 am I still fixable? ———————————— I got some pretty good responses here. Thanks. A lot to think about😭 Basically I need a major mentality shift and lifestyle changes. I'm now working at a grocery store basically just receiving the products the truckers bring, checking if everything's correct. Sometimes I work the cash registers as well. Sometimes I help bag the groceries. Sometimes I help customers find or carry stuff. And I oversee 2 people working the cash registers. I make minimum wage in Brazil. I created a spreadsheet for my monthly expenses like Leo suggested in one of his videos, and looking at the numbers feels terribly depressing and despairing Lol. I just really feel very stuck about how to make more money. So I'm kinda making it my 2026 theme to understand more about finances.

As I've mentioned in my previous post, nothing really comes easy to me. I wish I had financial abundance so I never had to worry about money again in my life. But money only comes in as a result of offering value to others. And building up something of value takes time. And I have no patience for things that take too much time to actualize. I feel a sense of urgency. I wanted more money NOW. Guess I'll just give up, I can't bear the long process... I wonder what's at the root of this impatience. I wonder if I can speed up the process somehow, idk My fantasy is I wish I already had a natural skill that required no time to develop, just like a gift that I could naturally offer others. But I guess it doesn't work that way right?

Nothing comes easy to me Life is a constant struggle, and everything seems like hard work (yesterday I created a post on suicide and today I'm thinking of my life purpose. My two personalities talking..)

Is it too late for everything, like getting over addictions, developing a solid life purpose, fixing up my relationships, becoming more decisive, getting over past stupidity and mistakes, etc? i feel like ive wasted so much of my life so I’m so depressed over it

“What did we smoke?”

@Leo Gura make a 3 hour long video on this

We come into ancestral issues, we aren’t born clean slates

Why materialism is baloney Bernardo Kastrup