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Insightful video: Stoicism or “emotional compression” is emotional labor, which women expect.

A dynamic, nested possibility space, shaped by constraints and defined by perspective.

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Haha. Next time, be sure to cover all your basis.

Need for Cognition is an important one as well. Men do seem to generally have higher NFC. Just look at male-female chess player ratios, but I think the gap is narrowing a lot in recent years. But think about. Most guys aren’t even interested in chess. You need a high NFC for that. Low-NFC men exist in large numbers.

It’s better to generalize by personality type rather than only allowing yourself two categories. Most men I know do not engage with forums. But you know who does? INTPs. INTP males make up the majority of Reddit and forum users. There are women INTPs out there who would be forum warriors if it weren’t considered weird. Culture kinda forces them into roles they otherwise wouldn’t assume. I know a16 year old INTP girl who doesn’t do INTP stuff only because she’s trying not to be weird. Also, most men I know do not enjoy conversing on deep topics, so it’s not just “men”. It’s more so personality type. There doesn’t seem to be much utility in these overly broad generalizations about men and women.

@The Caretaker - Not sure how accurate that test is, but if you're unsure, I think this test is one of the most accurate: https://personalityhacker.com/pages/take-your-personality-test

Don't ignore your intuition. A lot of online forum talk about pickup is coming from INTPs. They feel empowered by pickup. INTJ do as well, but cannot ignore what the Fi tells them.

Yes, being locked in Fi makes you that way but most of my time is using Ni-Te. When I do get rolling around in Fi, I become selfish. Good point. As uncomfortable as I fumble about with Se, I know I’m weak there and submit to higher skill. I used to work construction under a skilled and moody ISTP who was 15 years older than me. He was often on my ass, making me feel like a total fuckup. Lol. I usually allowed it because I knew I was fucking up. It was uncomfortable, but it was good for me I think. But of course, I used my Te to accept that, which the INFP likely won’t be able to do.

Haha, yes, that too is inevitable. Your energy will still press for expression though.

Acknowledge inherent worth; practice self-forgiveness; connect with others who affirm your value. Accept that mistakes are part of growth. Small acts of care or responsibility; exposure to inspiring, supportive environments that awaken will. Is the life of a newborn baby inherently valuable? At what point does life lose its value? Your life was once precious, just like that of a newborn, and it still is, but you’ve forgotten. If you know how to love someone else, give that same love to yourself. Try to see you are inherently valuable and deserving of life and love just because you exist.

Yeah, he knew it would resonate with his target audience. I remember being quite entertained by such tactics. It was delivering insight via entertainment, which is awesome. I used to laugh so hard at some of the shit he’d say, and I don’t even think he was trying to be funny, which made it even funnier.

Do you allow yourself a window or specific meal times? I usually eat whenever I want within an 8hr window. Kinda fell off the wagon as of late. Been doing OMAD and feeling decent.

When I first started getting on here, he kept popping up on me talking about “mirror effect”. I was like, “who is this Dunning Krueger mother fucker”? Lol. But here lately, I actually think he has a lot of potential since he’s only 21. Independent thinker and access to insight. Some of it is actually good if you look close.

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