Posted December 16, 2023 Would you date a woman if she told you she was a prostitute in the past ? Because recently I'm chating up this girl from the US. and she had a super active sexual life. She basically was an escort . Tbh that doesn't matter to me. If she used to open her legs to people for money..I wanna understand.. If she did that.. What exactly is "wrong" with it? Is it wrong "morally"? Ain't no such thing as "morals".. we are just a bunch of evolved apes who figured out how to create illusions to organize our lives. Is it because she might be traumatized? Ok so she doesn't deserve love? She can't change? If she is my wife now then her prostitution career is something from the past. Why can't she open a new page with me and be become a sincere wife?. Is it because she might cheat on me? Any woman can cheat on You. If she did cheat on me that's a different subject..but imagine how crazy it is to divorce your wife because you think she "might" cheat on you!. I would say I'm not sure if I could date her beforehand.. Ladies..your opinions are welcome as well . "life is not a problem to be solved ..its a mystery to be lived " -Osho Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 16, 2023 Sounds like you're falling for some scam. You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 16, 2023 Follow your excitement! Remember that anything that happens is great! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 16, 2023 9 minutes ago, Leo Gura said: Sounds like you're falling for some scam. 6 minutes ago, Mannyb said: Follow your excitement! Remember that anything that happens is great! No she is for real . But she really threw a wrench in works for me . Not sure if it's a Shit-test . My only concern is how can I trust her ? I wouldn't want such a woman. Because I won't be able to trust her. If she can be so callous about her sexual integrity then it's not a trustworthy person given that relationship involves sex and exclusive sex. "life is not a problem to be solved ..its a mystery to be lived " -Osho Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 16, 2023 (edited) @Someone here Prostitutes are less developed in general than the average. You could find a flower in a dumpsite but why to look there in the first place? you would most likely end up with trash. Edited December 16, 2023 by LSD-Rumi Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 16, 2023 4 minutes ago, LSD-Rumi said: @Someone here Prostitutes are less developed in general than the average. You could find a flower in a dumpsite but why to look there in the first place? you would most likely end up with trash. Once I get the green signal that this woman won't cheat and is ready to show sexual commitment as a partner..I will be more than happy to move past their Old sexual habits and behaviors. I will let it go and focus on the present. "life is not a problem to be solved ..its a mystery to be lived " -Osho Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 16, 2023 Keep your eyes open. If she's able to sell her body to make money, that tells yourself what you need to know. Grow your game and find some spiritual feminine woman on a yoga studio Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 16, 2023 38 minutes ago, Nabd said: Weren't there studies showing that prostitutes or even just women who are very active sexually are more likely to cheat? If so, there is your answer Which studies? "life is not a problem to be solved ..its a mystery to be lived " -Osho Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 16, 2023 Just now, CARDOZZO said: Keep your eyes open. If she's able to sell her body to make money, that tells yourself what you need to know. Grow your game and find some spiritual feminine woman on a yoga studio You are of course right .but I'm really in need for intimate partner. I've broken up with my last girlfriend two months ago .and since then I wasn't able to pull/attract any girl from cold approach. So I turned to dating apps . Actually I'm talking to her on Discord . She lives in America and I live in India. Its pretty difficult to think of her as a wife material..but based on her photos ..she is without exaggerating one of the most beautiful women I ever saw lol 😆 I'm in hesitation .can't think straight. "life is not a problem to be solved ..its a mystery to be lived " -Osho Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 16, 2023 @Someone here I know nothing about dating on India. Why don't you move out of India? I tend to be biased with what I saw regarding India. People do the same with Brazil (where I live). But it seems that you are on a low vibe state/needy/desperate to make sex. (I know, we are sometimes) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 16, 2023 2 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said: Why don't you move out of India? Mostly Because of financial issues. College..My whole family lives in there etc 4 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said: I know nothing about dating on India. Lol no worries. Do you know anything about how to get green card and migrate to America? That's basically a dream of mine . I even have it o vision board but it seems so far from being actualized soon. 6 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said: But it seems that you are on a low vibe state/needy/desperate to make sex. (I know, we are sometimes Absolutely. I'm so sexually frustrated to the point I could get "it " up for a female cat (Don't take this seriously). "life is not a problem to be solved ..its a mystery to be lived " -Osho Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 16, 2023 @Someone here Why America? Why not Europe, South America, Thailand, Singapore, South Korea, Japan? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 16, 2023 Just now, Someone here said: Absolutely. I'm so sexually frustrated to the point I could get "it " up for a female cat lol dude I can't complain, Brazil is great for dating. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 16, 2023 4 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said: Why not Europe, South America, Thailand, Singapore, South Korea, Japan? someone said south korea is number 1 country to avoid bc they are xenophobic and have complex and rigid culture number 2 is Thailand because they are much gold digger or freelancer, sex worker whatever you call them and some are ladyboy Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 16, 2023 (edited) @nhoktinvt Thailand is because of cheaper cost of living, beach, women and business. About xenophobic cultures, they exist everywhere... even here in Brazil with Haitians, Chinese, African, Venezuelan people. Edited December 16, 2023 by CARDOZZO Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 16, 2023 1 hour ago, Someone here said: You are of course right .but I'm really in need for intimate partner. I've broken up with my last girlfriend two months ago .and since then I wasn't able to pull/attract any girl from cold approach. So I turned to dating apps . Actually I'm talking to her on Discord . She lives in America and I live in India. Its pretty difficult to think of her as a wife material..but based on her photos ..she is without exaggerating one of the most beautiful women I ever saw lol 😆 I'm in hesitation .can't think straight. It doesnt seem like you attend to this situation from a healthy place. Also I think your unmet needs distort your sensemaking. Dont builds attachment to a women you only know through the internet, easy to fall into a trap there. I read this whole post from you like a warning signal and I think you wouldnt have posted this if you would have not intuited this already yourself. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 16, 2023 From penis growth pills to masturbating to gay porn and now this. This man deserves his own anime. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 16, 2023 (edited) It's a no for me. Sounds like there could be mental health issues, traumas and shadow there. Focus on finding a quality woman to date in my opinion. I am sure there are some Escorts or there that could make a good girlfriend/ partner... But, not to me. I have my preferences. Edited December 16, 2023 by Thought Art "Unburdened and Becoming" - Bon Iver ◭"89"◮ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 16, 2023 I don't like doing weird stuff. I'd date normal women if such thing exists. (Same with men, but I don't date those.) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 16, 2023 Just now, MarkKol said: This man deserves his own anime. The hero we need Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
