Sexcapades...mastering Sex

[Prabhaker]

20 minutes ago, tashawoodfall said:

I need to go get a book with pictures of all of them lol

The Kama Sutra an ancient Indian Hindu text written by Vātsyāyana. It is widely considered to be the standard work on human sexual behavior.  A portion of the work consists of practical advice on sexual intercourse. 

http://www.yogavidya.com/Yoga/Kamasutra.pdf ( You can download it, this book contains pictures too)

Some Indian philosophies follow the "four main goals of life",

Dharma: Virtuous living.

Artha: (Material) prosperity.

Kama: Desire

Moksha: Liberation.

[Shin]

38 minutes ago, STC said:

@tashawoodfall I think you are a troll. 

And I think you're projecting ^^

Even if she was a troll, this topic is useful and interesting to many of us (I just bought the 2 books mentioned here).

If she's not, it's helpful for her.

@STC

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if she is not she is lowering her value.

Why would you care ?

Don't you see it's your ego being hurt in some way ?

Edited March 22, 2017 by Shin

[SFRL]

@Shin if she is not she is lowering her value. 

[Evilwave Heddy]

14 hours ago, Emerald Wilkins said:

Number one, many partners doesn't necessarily mean more sex... it just means more partners. You can have one partner and have sex with them thousands of times, and have 100 partners that you only have sex with once. The more monogamous person has actually had more sex.

Number two, the cervix does not loosen as the penis doesn't go in the cervix. The cervix is where the sperm swim through. Trying to put the penis in a cervix is like saying you're going to put your penis inside another man's urethra. Yikes!!

Number three, having sex does not permanently loosen the vagina. This is myth. The vagina is designed to expand to the size of a newborn, so a penis does literally nothing to it permanently. In fact, because the vagina is like a sock, wrapped in a towel, squeezed by two hands, working the pelvic floor muscles tightens the vagina.

Number four, sex can actually tighten the pelvic floor muscles.

Number five, creams cannot tighten the vagina. Any cream company that claims this is a snakeoil salesman.

Number six, the contributing factors to vaginal looseness are 1. age 2. multiple childbirths 3. a single childbirth after age 30 4.not exercising the pelvic floor muscles.

Number seven, less pleasurable sex for a man could lead to more pleasurable sex for the woman since he will last longer.

 

It was a horrible "pro tip".  I knew little. Thanks for correcting me.  

[Ape]

@STC subjective value in your "eyes".

[SFRL]

@Ape value as it's generally viewed.

Her future husband/boyfriend is sure going to be happy with that behaviour. 

Not that it matters. 'She' is a troll. 

 

[tashawoodfall]

The type of man I would make my husband would be in a much higher perspective..He'd most likely be a master in sex and be mature and secure and I think he'd be really lucky to have me

Interesting that value is tied in here.

Also Troll? lol doesn't make sense...If you said something like whore or slut I'd get that (coming from a certain mindset of course) but Troll? Have you considered that this may be you projecting?

Edited March 22, 2017 by tashawoodfall

[tashawoodfall]

This seems like a perfect example of what was talked about earlier of woman conditioning.

[SFRL]

@tashawoodfall you think you are so cool but it's you who has a limited perspective because of your limited life experience. 

The universe as a whole does not care for your little 'rogue' opinion. 

I am doing you a favor really by calling you out. 

Find yourself a nice boyfriend and practice all you want with him alright. 

Edited March 22, 2017 by STC

[tashawoodfall]

you're actually not doing me any favors.  You're trying to press your opinion on me without keeping an open mind here.  A lot of what you write makes me think you are talking to yourself...

limited experience? Who are you talking to?

Little rogue opinion? Again who are you talking to?

My life is not your business and your opinion is not mine...

We are just in totally different head spaces so lets agree to disagree.

If your intentions are good in a sense that you are trying to 'save' me from losing my value then I appreciate that

Edited March 22, 2017 by tashawoodfall

[ajasatya]

19 minutes ago, STC said:

Her future husband/boyfriend is sure going to be happy with that behaviour.

you're just showing your true face here, exposing how jealous, judgmental and attached to the past you are.

13 minutes ago, tashawoodfall said:

The type of man I would make my husband would be in a much higher perspective..He'd most likely be a master in sex and be mature and secure.

you're completely right. i can say this from personal experience. before meeting my fiancée, we were both learning how to please ourselves and the partners we had. no fear! mastering the physical part of sex is necessary. now that we're engaged, we're mastering the spiritual part, connecting simultaneously to the infinite source of love.

we're both thankful for each other's past. we're truly happy. truly happy now!

[SFRL]

@tashawoodfall ok help yourself. 

[Shin]

49 minutes ago, STC said:

@tashawoodfall ok help yourself. 

I would suggest to deeply investigate what you're feeling right now, because it is extremely egotic to impose your beliefs on other people.
What are you trying to do ? Making her realized that polygamous lifestyle is bad, why are you doing that do you think ?

Maybe you're doing that because you think women should be treated like princess and they have no right to be dirty and sex driven ?
Maybe you think (very inconsciously) that you're not worthy of her, and so your ego goes apeshit to hide his old scar ?

Seriously think about this, you're not gonna be able to really grow if you don't.

 

@ajasatya Thank you

Edited March 22, 2017 by Shin

[ajasatya]

@STC this is PRECIOUS.

13 minutes ago, Shin said:

I would suggest to deeply investigate what you're feeling right now, because it is extremely egotic to impose your beliefs on other people.
What are you trying to do ? Making her realized that polygamous lifestyle is bad, why are you doing that do you think ?

Maybe you're doing that because you think women should be treated like princess and they have no right to be dirty and sex driven ?
Maybe you think (very inconsciously) that you're not worthy of her, and so your ego goes apeshit to hide his old scar ?

Seriously think about this, you're not gonna be able to really grow if you don't.

and @Shin, just a tip. try shift+enter to start a new line without starting a new paragraph . i edited your text on the quote above to show you how the text would look like. a little cuter imho.

[SFRL]

@Shin @ajasatya you guys are just horny. Don't lie to yourself. 

[Shin]

5 minutes ago, STC said:

@Shin @ajasatya you guys are just horny. Don't lie to yourself. 

That's the problem right there, you now think I'm defending her because your ego needs a nice counter argument.

The reality of it, is that I don't, I'm just trying to help YOU.

Why would I care about her ? You said it yourself, she could be a fake, "she" could be a guy ...

Edited March 22, 2017 by Shin

[SFRL]

@Shin you make a lot of assumptions. A lot of 'maybe's'. 

Maybe your asesment is wrong. 

My thing is the forum attracts a lot of nutcases. It's best not to encourage their behaviour, so they don't do damage to themselves. 

 

Edited March 22, 2017 by STC

[Evilwave Heddy]

41 minutes ago, ajasatya said:

@Shin, just a tip. try shift+enter to start a new line without starting a new paragraph . i edited your text on the quote above to show you how the text would look like. a little cuter imho.

Useful tip.  This always bothered me as I had to hold the space button and line it up.

[Salaam]

4 hours ago, tashawoodfall said:

connecting with yourself..inner being while having sex i think can be even more powerful than connecting to someone else during sex...it's still giving but way more intense..in my experience (mind you i've had 2 long term relationships and understand)

Be careful of limiting yourself here

In my experience there is an awesome place I call trinity worlds, where there is my world, her world, and the shared world.

So the best sex is when your intimately connected to all three at the same time. Feeling these deep amazing connections within yourself, seeing and connecting with her personal connection to her sexuality, and then connecting with the sharing and interplay between them.

This makes for the best kind of sex, but also the best kinds of relationships.

It doesn't have to be a binary, either or thing, or a single unitary thing, but a superposition thing, where all three stack and superimpose on each other, while still all as distinct and coherent.

It's amazing really. Of course it's something a person leads up to and develops into over time, but I figured it's super helpful to be aware of it as a potential reality.

[Phocus]

@STC and others, please stay on-topic.  This is not a place for gossip or nonconstructive criticism and speculation.