Alot of men and women in the western world have become sexual degenerates.

[NoSelfSelf]

@Hero in progress change name of thread to promiscuous and dont call people degenerates 

Edited November 26, 2022 by NoSelfSelf

[Hero in progress]

@NoSelfSelf

We live in a very dark and dangerous worlds sometimes my friend if you cant handle that word you need to get a grip of yourself 

[integral]

Im going to start cleaning up the language used in the dating section.

[integral]

1 minute ago, Hero in progress said:

@NoSelfSelf

We live in a very dark and dangerous worlds sometimes my friend if you cant handle that word you need to get a grip of yourself 

No we are on a forum that aims to have high quality discourse over a wide range of topics. 

[Tyler Robinson]

 

@Hero in progress time to throw the truth bomb on you. 

There's nothing like bad guy good guy for a woman. All are same to a woman. A woman is only looking for her survival agenda and just a faithful guy who will be committed to her for life. That's her greatest feminine desire. Men like to create differentiations like bad guy good guy to position themselves higher. To look better by scapegoating another man. 

The idea that only fuckboys/assholes/bad boys have commitment  issues is such a huge myth. I'll tell you a truth about male psychology that you perhaps don't want to hear because it makes men look bad. But knowing this truth about male psyche will lead you to salvation 

Every single man on planet earth has commitment issues. Literally. It's just a part of male psyche.

It's a huge myth to think that getting the most perfect woman in the world will somehow make you happy and you'll live a fairytale life with her. Never. Even the most perfect woman can't satisfy you because after 2 months of having sex you'll lose interest in her. The truth about  male psyche is that they never attracted to the same woman long term 

Such a discussion on women's virtues is pointless and futile because it doesn't address.. 

 

Blaming shaming a woman gives you a temporary outlet for why you feel bad and dissatisfied about your dating life but doesn't address the underlying reason behind male dissatisfaction. 

Your dissatisfaction should not be with women but rather with your own self. When you can't fix that, you can't fix anything else either. 

I'm giving you age old wisdom after having tested men. Just  yesterday my ex boyfriend apologized to me for leaving me for another woman and called me his perfect girlfriend. If I was perfect, then why wasn't I enough? Because nothing is ever enough to a man and this applies to all men. They get bored like children. 

Your whole idea about dating woman is an illusion in itself and based on many myths that men continue to believe. 

Every man creates this fantasy 

Why did he still cheat on me even though he considered me perfect? Because like I said almost all men have commitment issues and that's 

The truth is that you'll never be satisfied with a woman no matter how virtuous she is in your eyes. Because after a few months you'll automatically lose interest in her without reason. And you'll wonder why, you might even find ways to place blame on her, when in reality it's only your own fault and nobody else's. 

Men themselves sabotage 99% of their own relationships, nobody else does. Either men dump and abandon their girlfriends after they are bored with her or if they are too coward to dump then they find a way to hurt/sabotage the relationship in such a way that the woman gets fed up and is forced to dump them. 

What tells me this — my own bloody experience. 

 

Men think that rejection hits them  hard. But they don't realize how dumping hits women. Dumping hurts women much worse than rejection hurts men. Men dump and abandon all the time. The only reason they don't initiate a divorce is because they have to lose a lot of money in a divorce. So they don't want to risk a divorce. 

Men are never impressed with a woman no matter what the woman does because men are intrinsically very judgemental and cannot escape their own 

Men claim that they are emotional and indeed they are. I'm not denying that men are emotional. But there's a problem. A man's emotion is like high tide and low tide. It comes and goes with seasons. Seasons change and reasons change and men forget the woman they once loved to death. Then she is a past memory. 

Men are like children. They like something like a video game. Then they are bored of it one day. How the woman is, how virtuous or noble a woman is, it's practically irrelevant to a man if he lost interest, in the end they don't give a damn about what or who a woman is. She was only his temporary pursuit anyway. Most men build castles in the air and believe in this fantasy illusion that they will find a perfect woman and they will create a perfect life with her. This illusion breaks one day and men are confused and confronted with the reality of finding another woman attractive and losing attraction for the woman they once thought of as perfect. Every guy, good guy or bad guy, does this. Advice to women — never take a man's words seriously, not even his actions. 

It's a sad bitter truth that men find difficult to deal with because it heavily conflicts with their illusion of a perfect world with a woman. So they love to live in illusions. 

The final solution to this is to not externalize blame anymore, do soul searching and learn to point the finger inwards. Grow as a man into an ideal man and heal your commitment issues and then build relationships with women. The woman you wanted always existed. Once you find her you'll be able to live in peace with her. But first heal yourself as a man to be truly  happy with women. And all this nonsense talk about women is mere blame game and distraction from actual work. 

Contemplate deeply on whatever I wrote. 

 

[Eyowey]

16 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

After 2 months of having sex you'll lose interest in her.

True. That's why you should have sex only once or twice a month. Even then you might get bored but you can spice things up with different outfits, wigs, weight gain, weight loss etc. 

[Tyler Robinson]

Just now, Eyowey said:

True. That's why you should have sex only once or twice a month. Even then you might get bored but you can spice things up with different outfits, wigs, weight gain, weight loss etc. 

And what should the girl do when she is super horny and wants her boyfriend to do things to her? 

 

[integral]

1 minute ago, Eyowey said:

True. That's why you should have sex only once or twice a month. Even then you might get bored but you can spice things up with different outfits, wigs, weight gain, weight loss etc. 

That’s why it’s important to move up to higher stages of sexual development so that sex isn’t only about gratifying and orgasms.

 

[Lila9]

The problem with women sleeping with a lot of men is not about her purity (which is a stage blue obscure term) but with the psychological affects of it on women (and men either).

One night stands or sleeping around a lot with people who they have shallow relation to, isn't healthy for both men and women. Men who sleep around a lot aren't psychologically healthy or happy, same with women. They are generally miserable and in constant chase to prove something. (for men to prove that they are men enough and for women to prove that they are sexual, strong and free enough).

One night stands or sleeping around aren't a real sexual liberation for women, in fact, it's a patriarchal trap that implays you aren't worthy or you aren't really strong as long as you don't act exactly like men (or to be more accurate- toxic and immature men, not healthy and mature men). Women are very less likely to orgasm in one night stands so they end up used as objects who benefit nothing from it except the delusion of power plus the risk of getting pregnant and diseases.

Both women and men should be  mindful regarding who they are sleeping with and take sex more seriously.

I agree that men should stop watching porn and talk to more women, also to learn appropriate communication and let go of toxic beliefs regarding women and sex. Women should be more tuned to their bodies and intuition, and they should understand that they are already powerful and they have nothing to chase or prove but only to be receptive to sexual pleasure from highly compatible men.

 

 

[Gesundheit2]

10 minutes ago, Lila9 said:

One night stands or sleeping around aren't a real sexual liberation for women, in fact, it's a patriarchal trap that implays you aren't worthy or you aren't really strong as long as you don't act exactly like men (or to be more accurate- toxic and immature men, not healthy and mature men).

I agree, feminism surely is a patriarchal trap.

10 minutes ago, Lila9 said:

Both women and men should be  mindful regarding who they are sleeping with and take sex more seriously.

I agree that men should stop watching porn and talk to more women, also to learn appropriate communication and let go of toxic beliefs regarding women and sex. Women should be more tuned to their bodies and intuition, and they should understand that they are already powerful and they have nothing to chase or prove but only to be receptive to sexual pleasure from highly compatible men.

I agree, but this time for real.

[Eyowey]

16 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

And what should the girl do when she is super horny and wants her boyfriend to do things to her? 

I'm not judging couples who have sex every day but there's a risk that you'll get bored of each other.

17 minutes ago, integral said:

That’s why it’s important to move up to higher stages of sexual development so that sex isn’t only about gratifying and orgasms.

I would suggest that most people want an emotional connection from sex because they have mommy issues. They want the lips and the breasts because they didn't get enough of that when they were young. It requires emotional independence to be able to fuck a girl without needing her to love you. I'm not there yet. I very strongly desire to give and recieve love from a girl. But whether that's healthy I don't know.

[jivvie]

2 hours ago, Cat_eyes said:

Agree.  I actually find it more repulsive, when a man fucks anyone and anything, or when they just want to gain numbers. It shows lack of self control and someone to be wary of. 
 

Why? I am not saying I disagree with you but why? You’re missing so many raw details.  I swear to GOD that a fine, beautiful woman will choose a whore man over a sensitive boy virgin. In fact, I guarantee it. I hate to say “nice guys finish last” but bruh….. sometimes they don’t even get to start lol. 
 

1. What does masculinity mean to you homie? Please none of that woke garbage here. It don’t work in real world relationships because relationships are meant to skewed from the first date. 
2. Women are born with inherent value. Men strive for it. Women determine the family, men determine the date/marriage. 
3. A high value man will probably have a few women under his belt because the women are leaving the relationships. (Usually due to money) mMost men do not want divorce nor want to leave the relationship. 
4. Men are more open to criticism and new things. They do not create fantasies that do not exist. I employ you to talk to your exes and/or lady you mess with now. Ask her what she wants in a man. Ask her. Most modern women will bring up education, monetary value, goals, accomplishments, equality. Things that men do not want in a woman. 
 

Women are lost in modern society simply because these masculine women do not understand us men. They are too damn masculine and it’s unattractive. 

Men with a lot of women are looked at as Kings because it is a masculine scenery. Wanna bet he provides for those women wholeheartedly? Men provide. That is in our culture and instincts. Women are out of line today. But they have their “equality” so it is what it is. 

Edited November 26, 2022 by jivvie

[Hero in progress]

@Tyler Robinson

Hey I thought you was a virgin? But it turns out you just got dumped!  funny that, or was it just a relationship that was sexless? 

I think you have got alot of issues with men as a whole, I personally do alright myself since you keep trying to make it personal. Thanks for finally liberating me It feels much better now.  

I got a nice warning from the PC brigade, I guess saying things how they are is too much for some people to handle, everything has to be sugar coated for the sensitive these days.  Hey man its all good.  You guys can keep it all soft and gentle.  Just remember though I could off said slut. 

I feel I was very positive and frank with my Reponses but now that I feel the onslaught of incoming post of angry hurt female toxicity I am less inclined to be so nice.    

That warning shit is really quite ridiculous, I cant say degenerates but you can talk about clitoral stimulation and put a poster up of a Porn star. What kind of double standard shit is that. 

My initial message was sexual discipline for both sexes, but It takes a huge amount of self development and respect for oneself which is probaly lacking in the majority of humans nowadays, especially in the west. 

Remember Tyler I was nice to you at first, you took it to this level. 

And purity is a term I am using from a mans perspective, you know what I am saying fellas, if she has been run through by a bunch of dudes why would you even consider giving that kind of women the fruits of your labour. 

[jivvie]

Just now, Hero in progress said:

@Tyler Robinson

Hey I thought you was a virgin? But it turns out you just got dumped!  funny that, or was it just a relationship that was sexless? 

I think you have got alot of issues with men as a whole, I personally do alright myself since you keep trying to make it personal. Thanks for finally liberating me It feels much better now.  

I got a nice warning from the PC brigade, I guess saying things how they are is too much for some people to handle, everything has to be sugar coated for the sensitive these days.  Hey man it’s all good.  You guys can keep it all soft and gentle.  Just remember though I could off said slut. 

Remember Tyler I was nice to you at first, you took it to this level. 

And purity is a term I am using from a mans perspective, you know what I am saying fellas  

Do not argue with masculine women. I found it to go in circles. 
 

The feminine, silent types always have something to say and it’s usually diamond advice. 

But topics like these? A woman that understands herself and her man will ignore. 

[Hero in progress]

WARNING TO EVERYONE!!!!

MY POST DID NOT HAVE MEN AND WOMEN IN THE TITLE INITAILLY THEY HAVE CHANGED THE TITLE THEMSELVES YOU CRAFTY BASTARDS 

This is censoring of speech and manipulation of information 

 

[jivvie]

I noticed that too. That’s a bit disheartening. Never thought this would be a platform that does this. 
 

very unfortunate. 

[Tyler Robinson]

 

16 minutes ago, Hero in progress said:

@Tyler Robinson

Hey I thought you was a virgin? But it turns out you just got dumped!  funny that, or was it just a relationship that was sexless? 

You love to shame women, don't you? First you shame them and call them degenerates on a public forum. Now if that's not bad enough, then you shame me for my virginity. Lmao. 

Yes it was a sex less relationship because there was no commitment. And I'm strictly against premarital sex. Maybe you're going to shame me for that as well. 

I just got dumped? When did I say that? 

16 minutes ago, Hero in progress said:

I think you have got alot of issues with men as a whole, I personally do alright myself since you keep trying to make it personal. Thanks for finally liberating me It feels much better now.  

Yea I definitely have got a lot of issues with men, because men happen to create issues. Your post is just an example of that. 

16 minutes ago, Hero in progress said:

I got a nice warning from the PC brigade, I guess saying things how they are is too much for some people to handle, everything has to be sugar coated for the sensitive these days.  Hey man its all good.  You guys can keep it all soft and gentle.  Just remember though I could off said slut. 

I don't know about that. I didn't report you. But "degenerates" is a bad word and in my opinion you probably should have been careful. 

16 minutes ago, Hero in progress said:

I feel I was very positive and frank with my Reponses but now that I feel the onslaught of incoming post of angry hurt female toxicity I am less inclined to be so nice.    

You weren't nice to begin with. How can a man be nice who refers to women as degenerates. I don't how that adds up as nice. 

16 minutes ago, Hero in progress said:

That warning shit is really quite ridiculous, I cant say degenerates but you can talk about clitoral stimulation and put a poster up of a Porn star. What kind of double standard shit is that.

Clitoral stimulation is not offensive. If what stimulates women sexually is offensive to you, you should probably not have relationships with women. If a woman talking about her sexuality is so threatening to you, how would you plan to satisfy her? Men talk about masturbation all the time, then why shouldn't women? Double standards much. 

16 minutes ago, Hero in progress said:

My initial message was sexual discipline for both sexes, but It takes a huge amount of self development and respect for oneself which is probaly lacking in the majority of humans nowadays, especially in the west. 

Remember Tyler I was nice to you at first, you took it to this level. 

I was nice to you and I'm still nice to you given the degrading language you're using. 

16 minutes ago, Hero in progress said:

And purity is a term I am using from a mans perspective, you know what I am saying fellas, if she has been run through by a bunch of dudes why would you even consider giving that kind of women the fruits of your labour. 

You're acting as though women are begging for you. Which woman wanted you lol? I don't see any. Maybe you live in your head. 

[integral]

11 minutes ago, Hero in progress said:

WARNING TO EVERYONE!!!!

MY POST DID NOT HAVE MEN AND WOMEN IN THE TITLE INITAILLY THEY HAVE CHANGED THE TITLE THEMSELVES YOU CRAFTY BASTARDS 

This is censoring of speech and manipulation of information 

Are you saying that your original post was calling only women degenerate but you will not extend that favour to men who sleep around?

I changed the title because it opens up an equal discussion, the alternative was to lock this topic.

Edited November 26, 2022 by integral

[jivvie]

Bro please stop responding to that masculine woman. 
 

The longer it goes, the more she fishes for more of your manhood. You gave your opinion, and while I don’t use “degenerate” as the term or speak of women that way, I understand where you are coming from and even my wife agreed with you. 100%. Then she continued making my breakfast. 
 

Let it go. It’s causing more issue than worth. 

[jivvie]

2 minutes ago, integral said:

Are you saying that your original post was calling only women degenerate but you will not extend that favour to men who sleep around?

I change the title because it opens up an equal discussion.

What equality are you searching for? There’s no equality in love and war sir/ma’am. What type of equality do you actually want from this post. Do you believe equality can actually exist? 
 

I would say the term “degenerate” is a bit harsh and maybe so unprofessional but as actualized beings, if you believe equality exists in the dating scene then….  yikes ?