jivvie

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  1. Okay. Let’s use your context. Long Term Relationships. Modern women today are not looking for what you are talking about brother. They aren’t. And it shows you obviously have not been in the market or did much research in this market because you would know. Most modern women have the following wants: Good job or career, money (6 figures), good education, goal driven. Traditional women want: security, safety You are researching traditional women in a modern world. Do they exist? Hell yeah. They do. But they are the “pure” women the OP is talking about lmao. No woman with 5-7 partners is a traditional woman. If they were, even the type of men you are complaining about would have put a ring on it. Do not run away from the obvious. Men recognize traditional women. Men recognize a good woman that knows her place.
  2. How to seek attention without asking for it. Example of a man that has not matured.
  3. I did not read that. I apologize. Gonna have to agree in that context.
  4. What equality are you searching for? There’s no equality in love and war sir/ma’am. What type of equality do you actually want from this post. Do you believe equality can actually exist? I would say the term “degenerate” is a bit harsh and maybe so unprofessional but as actualized beings, if you believe equality exists in the dating scene then…. yikes ?
  5. Bro please stop responding to that masculine woman. The longer it goes, the more she fishes for more of your manhood. You gave your opinion, and while I don’t use “degenerate” as the term or speak of women that way, I understand where you are coming from and even my wife agreed with you. 100%. Then she continued making my breakfast. Let it go. It’s causing more issue than worth.
  6. I noticed that too. That’s a bit disheartening. Never thought this would be a platform that does this. very unfortunate.
  7. Do not argue with masculine women. I found it to go in circles. The feminine, silent types always have something to say and it’s usually diamond advice. But topics like these? A woman that understands herself and her man will ignore.
  8. Why? I am not saying I disagree with you but why? You’re missing so many raw details. I swear to GOD that a fine, beautiful woman will choose a whore man over a sensitive boy virgin. In fact, I guarantee it. I hate to say “nice guys finish last” but bruh….. sometimes they don’t even get to start lol. 1. What does masculinity mean to you homie? Please none of that woke garbage here. It don’t work in real world relationships because relationships are meant to skewed from the first date. 2. Women are born with inherent value. Men strive for it. Women determine the family, men determine the date/marriage. 3. A high value man will probably have a few women under his belt because the women are leaving the relationships. (Usually due to money) mMost men do not want divorce nor want to leave the relationship. 4. Men are more open to criticism and new things. They do not create fantasies that do not exist. I employ you to talk to your exes and/or lady you mess with now. Ask her what she wants in a man. Ask her. Most modern women will bring up education, monetary value, goals, accomplishments, equality. Things that men do not want in a woman. Women are lost in modern society simply because these masculine women do not understand us men. They are too damn masculine and it’s unattractive. Men with a lot of women are looked at as Kings because it is a masculine scenery. Wanna bet he provides for those women wholeheartedly? Men provide. That is in our culture and instincts. Women are out of line today. But they have their “equality” so it is what it is.
  9. No problem. Take care and good luck with dating. Competition is high out there. it’s a good thing I’m no longer in that market just giving advice
  10. @universe shaming is a stretch. Shaming is intentional. I don’t want to get into that. It’s a circle jerk. Just saying it’s a stretch assuming they do not mean well. Most men of value do not want a woman that’s had 5-9 men inside her. I surely did not. Which is why I married a 20 year old at 30. (Happily married. And when I say happy, I mean walking on clouds daily. It gets rough, but man is it nice having someone that listens intently and grows with you). She is 23 now and I am 33. Most women just have too many relationships under their belt and it makes it hard to really please them. A lot of them need progressional counseling and a lot of them are manipulative as hell. There’s a reason why you’ve been with a lot of men and still on the market. dating is an intent to marry. Period. If you aren’t intending to be with a person for a long period of time through a date, then you obviously have commitment issues. Men are logical beings. I’ll end it there.
  11. I was born an African American male. I’ve been through modern racism (ain’t that bad honestly) I was molested as a child. My mom died when I was 4. I never met my father. My family was toxic and did not want me. My family forced me to fight smaller kids when I was growing up. I grew up depressed, lonely, fatigued, and felt like I had something to prove. I’ve attempted suicide twice. Once, with pills (I was young and dumb lmao) Where I’m going with this, I am a top 10% earner in the black community, I know 12 programming languages, I read 8 books or so a month, and I have a baller wife. You can turn it around. But do you want to? Read my past posts lol. I used to work at WALMART. I would Uber half way through town every day. I made no money. I had maybe $100 to myself each pay day. Life is hard man. This ain’t Jay Z and Beyoncé brunch. We struggle out here. Gotta be stronger. How? Don’t know man. It’s inside you. Gotta fish it out. what I personally recommend? Take Leo’s course. Can’t afford it? Figure out a way to buy it. Changed my life. Maybe it’ll help you. Good luck.
  12. 1. You internalized this too much. I do not think the original poster was targeting you. If you have nothing to answer to, don’t answer to them. 2. your claims that men do not know what women want is hella ludicrous. Men are still doing their best to build women this fantasy they want. Men are still working very hard to be what women want. Thing is, men are getting tired of building on the fantasy because they’ve realized it’s impossible. 3. Your values are not opinions. They are your truths.
  13. I vote for finishing college in communications or business for the relationships and during all that, work on business. Just my 2 cents. You’ll do great