If people are being mean to you in their journal, please block them.

[Preety_India]

4 minutes ago, Proserpina said:

@Carl-Richard There are users who clearly create conflict if you watch. Preety usually keeps to herself and wants to grow. 

Thank you so much 

@Aleister Crowleyy to be honest I'm the coolest person you know. If I don't get along with someone I let them have their way. 

I even talked to people who have repeatedly fought with me. These people even called for my ban, not once but several times. Even then I accepted them back. 

I'm all for fun and joking about things. But some people either say hurtful personal things as a joke and on the other hand there are people who just won't let go like people on this thread, who want to pick on something about me and keep repeating it forever like a broken record till I'm driven insane. 

At some point if someone accused you of stalking them and you defended yourself and they keep accusing, I mean you will reach your breaking point defending yourself. 

This is like someone is accusing you of stealing stuff in a shop when all you did was simply touch the stuff 

I'm still trying to stay calm under the pressure of these useless accusations. 

All of this simply because I started a journal with the title Dragon. 

I don't even know whether I should laugh or cry 

 

It's just so annoyingly absurd.

 

[Carl-Richard]

29 minutes ago, Proserpina said:

There are users who clearly create conflict if you watch.

Ask them personally whether they think that.

[Proserpina]

@Carl-Richard Telling people they are intellectually disabled is not exteme to you? Calling someone a 'parasite' does not appear as bullying to you? There are levels to this thing.  

[Carl-Richard]

9 minutes ago, Proserpina said:

@Carl-Richard Telling people they are intellectually disabled is not exteme to you? Calling someone a 'parasite' does not appear as bullying to you? There are levels to this thing.  

If you see something that is against the guidelines, report the person. You want to revolutionize moderation? Write your own thread or debunk mine.

[Preety_India]

I wouldn't even care to defend myself honestly, if there was at least a modicum of respect. 

But here I am.... against my wish. 

I just wish love from the bottom of my heart. Nothing more nothing less. 

 

 

 

[Gesundheit2]

7 hours ago, Loba said:

I doubt anyone has ever actually gone through one of my journal entries from start to finish with an open mind - so I write for myself.

Hello!

[Preety_India]

5 minutes ago, Loba said:

Carl, I have a question - do you keep report history available?  Because that chick was goaded me and the other dude into an argument nearly the whole day.  I had reported those before asking my question here, and they were removed by either the girl or a mod, but I am not sure by who.  This chick isn't some innocent bystander or anything like that, she surmised I was talking with someone by following them, and me around on this website and then started freaking out about it.

I wasn't paranoid about you. You were gossiping about me. So I wasn't off the mark. Maybe mods need to check your pms. Or you have deleted those pms. I was  freaking out for the right reasons because you gossip about people and then come around and attack them in their journals. How about admitting your pathetic gossiping behaviour on others personal lives. Gossip hurts. Others life is none of your business Madam

[Preety_India]

6 minutes ago, Knowledge Hoarder said:

Noones gonna ban me, cause guess what: I mostly provide actual value in my posts, unlike you, and when I have a beef with someone, I adress the person directly. Not gossip like a coward. And even if they ban me, or give me warning points, I could give 3 shits, honestly.

Exactly she gossips like a coward behind people's back. Acts innocent on the front. Starts shit of her own accord. Attacks everyone on their journals but cannot take it when she is attacked. Says everything contradictory. Says she doesn't want drama in her journals and that she is so busy with her life. 

So she is so busy that she finds time for gossip? And gossip is such a trash activity tbh. This is not like some low level neighborhood. This stuff happens in trailer park lol

This is what she wrote in her journal. 

 

 

So she purposely throws herself directly into people's conflicts, writes in big bold letters. Completely demonizes a person's character and sense of self worth, parades that person around the forum, harasses them non stop and when she is called out on her endless non stop bitchiness, she acts high and mighty and goes back to her journal, and then says how she doesn't want drama and how she is busy and valuable are her contributions blah blah blah blah... She is the reason why I did not talk on the forum for 2 full years. Because she threatened me so badly. I was severely traumatized by this woman's attacks. 

She has harassed me on this forum for almost 4 years now. 

Someone who is accusing me of stalking should probably look in the mirror. 

She harassed the user Modmyth for almost a full year. And Modmyth talked about it to me. We even approached Nahm about it. 

This woman had an account called @Keyhole on this forum. Before that she had the account @Annetta which was banned/removed. 

She told me that she had close to 17 warming points on her @Keyhole account. She had been accumulating warning points for harassing people. Then she didn't want to be banned. 

Then she approached the guy Gesundheit (who was also previously banned and this is his second account) and he helped her to create the account Loba. She herself told me all this. 

Because of her a user left the forum multiple times, I won't take their name, but she used to harass him in the journals. 

She has the longest history of harassing people and then going quietly into her journals and starts victim narrative. 

Nobody told her to do this. She herself engaged in gossip, decided to jump right into the conflict, the guy did not even want any action, she did this all on her own. 

But when called out, she will pretend she was never interested. 

 

 

[Zeroguy]

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Wxv6LOF61r0&t=1008s

 

[Carl-Richard]

@Loba @Preety_India

Anybody fancy some coerced mutual blocking? Pros and cons?

[Preety_India]

Just now, Loba said:

@Carl-Richard I have her on block and have been ignoring her.  Literally the moment I said I would I did and never looked back.  It's great.  I love it.

 

If you have me on block then it's disingenuous to continue to talk about stalking which is basically directed at me. Blocking does not mean that you get to block a person and still get to talk about them. That's not the objective of blocking. 

I think blocking should also include no gossip about the person who is blocked. Or do you still get to talk to the whole forum demonizing me and then say I am blocked. Huh????? 

@Carl-Richard

 

 

[Preety_India]

@Carl-Richard explain me this thing that shouldn't blocking mean that the person no longer talks about you? 

Or they keep running their mouth forever and then admit that they have blocked. 

This is looking funny. 

Can you explain me the objective of blocking here? 

 

[Preety_India]

@Knowledge Hoarder the mod is telling us that there should be mutual blocking. Don't you think that it's absurd that someone says that they have blocked but they continue to talk about you 

So what was the point of blocking then, why did they block?

[Michael Jackson]

@Preety_India

Everyone here knows that @Loba is a bit strange... She has a drinking problem and this transfers to her behaviour on the forum. Treat her with care, but don't take her seriously.

Peace.

[Carl-Richard]

@Michael569 I considered locking the thread earlier, but you beat me to it  

 

7 hours ago, Preety_India said:

the mod is telling us that there should be mutual blocking. Don't you think that it's absurd that someone says that they have blocked but they continue to talk about you 

So what was the point of blocking then, why did they block?

It doesn't work as well when you're not also blocking her (it's not mutual blocking), but again, it's not an effective solution. It's about pragmatics: making people less likely to get into conflict. It doesn't stop people talking about you, but it stops people talking to you. It might seem stupid right now, but I think if we tried it out, it would have more positive effects over time. However, I'm not sure how to know for certain when somebody is blocking somebody or not 

[Preety_India]

@Michael569 I don't think reading someone's journal is stalking. 

[Zeroguy]

I agree with @Loba.Wondered how this user is not permanently banned by now.You missed that she enjoys creating drama.Real narcissist.

[Preety_India]

@Zeroguy by that definition, you read my journal all the time. Then according to you and @Loba you must be stalking me too. 

 

[Raptorsin7]

@Zeroguy You're all narcissists. Everyone in here complaining about drama is mentally ill let's be honest.

[Preety_India]

@Carl-Richard @Michael569

I guess this thread should be locked again. Because people who supposedly aren't into drama have returned back to complain about me. Don't blame me for it. Anything I wrote is just defense.