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@Galyna Galyna, what's you in the soul description? 

 


INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues

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@zeroISinfinity  you're profoundly funny. 

Your alter ego seems to have disappeared forever. 

I think the name was God desire only love.. Something like that.. 

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INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues

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@zeroISinfinity @Preety_India @Keyhole

Guys, I will run now, spent all day here.....for free....xDxDxD

My thing is when feminine and masculine energies are proper adjusted in relations, not even a porn , or sex with other people needed, for anyone.

You will have this connection that will go above and beyond any human can wish for. 

The challenging part is to find a person like this, with whom you will click on all levels.

Talk to you soon!

 


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16 minutes ago, Keyhole said:

@Galyna I was just going to say that if you had replied to my thing that I would cut the conversation off because I didn't want to be wasting your time.

Hope you have a good rest of your day.

Sure, I will reply back ?. I just have family and a kid to take care, how about tomorrow I will reply you back. 
I don’t want to do it today in a rush, since it might take some time and needs my proper attention, ok? 
hugs! 
 

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@Keyhole

First of all, I am truly sorry that you had to go through such an experience:(, I can only imagine what you felt:(.

If we are brutally honest there are two forces that are in charge: survival and reproductive. Deep-deep inside it is all about sex and survival, for human and animals. We are here to survive and reproduce. I know it might hurt us, women, but behind any man’s action there is desire to have sex with you. I have male friends, I dated. I know. Rarely man would even talk to you like your lady friend.  It is hard to attract man with your deep nature. It has to be physical first. Same with animals, look around. 

“Men are incapable of loving women for who they really are.” I disagree here. If they feel attraction on the physical level first, it will deepen for them on a mental. Also, men in his 20 and in his 40th have different standards. They behave differently. As they mature, they understand that it is not all about your ass or boobs, it is about your personality. So is there any chance for you to find a mature guy who will not be into looks a lot? There are tons of average guys that would dream to have you as a partner. I am sure. Of course, they might not have all the qualities you want, but we must be realistic here. American men are not so spoiled here as in Europe. I promise you; I know what I am talking about. If you dated Russians, you would understand. In my culture basically it is all about men and how to please him. My mother still tells me that 90% of my marriage success is on me, and only 10% on my husband. Because “he is a man!”, like it is my responsibility to create this atmosphere. I grew up like this. Russian/Ukrainian YT has tons of videos about how to eat, sleep, pee sexy, so your man always perceives you as a sexual queen. It is two extremes I guess between our cultures. I heard it all my childhood, I was not even allowed to put my make up in front of the guy. It is not sexy. Everything has to be sexy, sex has to scream through you. It is in our survival pattern there. I am not very happy to talk about it either. 

“The fact that you're going to want to get a facelift when you're in your 50s goes to show that you also know the reality of their corrupt nature.”

You are right about it. I want my man to be proud of me, because I was raised with the idea that I am a business card for my man, in a way I define him. I want other men like me, I will never deny it. It was my moving force, all my life. I can not live for myself, I need a partner. My whole worldview is predicated on the idea that I need to live for someone, to make other ppl happy, to make my family happy. I am not a loner by nature. I like solitude in a moderate quantity. My life purpose is in Love. I want to admire others and to give them inspiration, because without others, it would not be me. This "me" is defined by others! And if I need to serve the man I love, I will absolutely do it and I will be ecstatic about it. I feel like I was created for this. I will not allow any man to take advantage of me, but if he loves me and loyal to me,  and there is a special connection between us .....oh Boy.....my whole sexuality enclosed in this, in admiring my man, in a healthy way....ofc.....I just love men, I think men are awesome, I can not live without males. I was hurt in the past, so what? I still believe there are a lot of decent men in this life, including my father and grandfathers. I will never deny masculinity, I will always praise it! But all my men in the past were good, the main reason I broke up with them was coz they were young and not ready for commitment. And I always wanted to have a stable relations. Dream for every woman. 

If you feel it is great to be in a solitude for a while, ofc do it! No pressure. 

“I think a lot of people who gravitate towards spirituality feel the same.” – everybody is different, cannot say for sure. But with the dawn of the internet, the social life as we know, is going to cease to exist, agree!

“I have some sort of chronic illness it wouldn't really matter much if I took care of my body or not.  I don't want to get stuck in that neurotic habit of having to poke at myself all the time in order to feel as though I'm attractive enough to be loved, I'd rather just focus on health for the sake of feeling more comfortable within my own body.” – I would say this, try to look nice and attractive with the body you have and never close up, believe that one day you will meet your true match, a guy who will love you to pieces with regards. He might not be perfect himself, so what? Appearance is important at first, but then it takes a secondary place.

“I can't guarantee that I would be a good fit for anyone.” Me neither. Some people love me, some - hate me. So who is right? Nobody.

“This can happen, but that is the exception not the norm, usually what ends up happening is that one partner becomes stagnant and the other feels resentful and it either becomes toxic or they break it off at some point.” – wont deny it, there are a lot of things we need to work on. Marriage is not perfect and it is not easy. It is a constant work.

“This is because the masculine and feminine are not energies that can coexist and have it work out, they are competing energies.” – disagree, it is like saying black and white competing colors. It is a part of one. No division here. Would you acknowledge black without white, no….

“Look at how men have treated women all throughout history, They don't care about a woman's true femininity they care about the femininity that makes them feel good. It's a selfish form of coveting. “ – it is just an idea in your mind, rely on your own experience. Why would you feel bad about smth you were not a part of? Why would you care about something that happened 300 or 1000 years before? All you need to care is about your current partner, do not gather a dossier for everything men ever did in our history, it is not healthy for you. It has nothing to do with you, leave it behind and worry about your current experience. Otherwise it gets very toxic. Did it touch you on the personal level? No, what is the point to worry about it?

“I don't think that we need duality I think that we need unity. unity is androgynous it isn't masculine or feminine.” It is semantics. But the meaning is the same, everything in this world, absolutely everything has it own opposite. We can not deny it. Birth has death, day has night, love has hate, etc. Why? For evolution purposes only,  to not keep our world stagnant. How would you identify any quality without opposite?

Sorry it took so much time to reply, I was really busy today, plus I spent the whole day on forum yesterday.

I might sound rude, do not take it personally. 

Hugs.:x

 

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@zeroISinfinity Friend, you are next in line...."This call may be monitored or recorded for quality and training purposes only!" xD 

approximate wait time is 18 to 24 hours... ;)


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juicy Astr(sex)ology this evening :) xD 

idk how shit can get more comical than this :D

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@zeroISinfinity Reading your post I am just starting to realize that friendship between man and woman is possible, when one of the following conditions is satisfied:

1. A guy is a womanizer and you do not take him seriously, he is not a threat. He is your best friend. 

2. A guy is a gay, and of course you can not take him seriously.

You are a perfect male friend to come to for a dating advice. 

For the sake of argument, lets say I am single, living in your city, and I've just met you...there is no change for you, no chance. I would not really care how tall, handsome you are. I would never just take you seriously to give you my heart. Again, I am talking for myself. Woman thrives in man's loyalty. How can a womanizer help to open up a God within me (here I am spiritual growth in relations). It is not possible for a spiritual, tantric merge with womanizer, like a deep merge on all levels, when two become ONE. 

Please do not spend her time, just let her go....you understand that she is 27, she wants kids and marriage. You are playing around with a woman. 

In one post you are crazy about her, in another post you tell me you do not care about her.

 


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@zeroISinfinity Well, first of all....stop...you do not need to put on show to show me your best qualities. It makes you look cheap! Let me make my own judgement about you. Get ready to lose in the battle and let me tell you why....

1 hour ago, zeroISinfinity said:

Do you have gay friend. I bet not. 

I will tell you more, I was in love with one, I did not know he was a gay, later on he confessed. We were best friends for a long period of time. We are still in touch. This yours " I bet not", Alex, wow... you do not even know who you deal with on that side of the screen. Stop assuming things, learn to observe and listen. We are on page 53, this is probably the second question you asked me. You need to develop ability to listen and observe others, it is not all about the show, jokes, your girlfriend, learn to be a good companion by genuinely wondering about other people. It is not all about you all the time, every day. 

1 hour ago, zeroISinfinity said:

In real life you can't fool me at all. At all. 

This is not a wise statement, naive and too confident. let me prove you why....any person can deceive you in one way or the other....always...with regards how good you are at reading other people. Simply, because no one can predict with 100% his next reaction or behavior. Do you think you know yourself with 100% accuracy? If yes.... Then you are BSing yourself. You truly do not know what life will throw at you in the next moment, what life will throw at your gf and how she will accept any challenge. Really wise answer would be: I truly do not know, I am good at reading others, but I truly don't know what person I meet in the next second and how that person will behave toward me, how smart he/she is. Wisdom is humble, it does not show off. And this is the most appealing feature. You know what you worth, but you do not scream about it, you let others to figure this out, and even!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! they tell you: " Oh our Lord Alex, you are so wise!" You take it with a grain of salt, because a  truly wise person under any conditions or circumstances will NOT admit this about himself. By already saying or emphasizing this, you depreciate yourself in value. 

1 hour ago, zeroISinfinity said:

If you met me most likely you will find me attractive and trustworthy. 

xD again, the show of the single actor. Let me decide this for myself. If you mean attractive your body and face, I do not even know what kind of self-development we are talking about here. I would find you as much attractive as the picture on my wall...very beautiful and? And what? I am asking you now.... what? Give me a God damn mature answer. I am a bit angry now... What your cute face or nice body would add to my life if I am a single woman? I find attractive many things, beauty is in every object. How does it relate to my personal values, deep core values I seek in man? Very shallow answer, Alex! Trustworthy, no...it is not in your cards, sorry for being rude. Not bc you sleep with every girl in your village, just bc you can not integrate masculinity and femininity. You need to work my friend on the root issues. Kudos to you that you are trying to work on your self-development. At least some progress, keep working....

1 hour ago, zeroISinfinity said:

You will want to be my friend. 

Every statement is screaming like : "here I am, pay attention to me." I probably would...but you would not want to be mine....guaranteed! Because I am not going to be their to feed this self-efficacy. I would not want to admire man who would scream for admiration. You are not secure with yourself if still seeking for any approval. You can seek it my friend, but in a humble manner. This way you will more likely receive what you want.

1 hour ago, zeroISinfinity said:

I am selfless in sex couldn't care less about pathetic male orgasm. 

This could not be more further from the truth. No need to be ashamed of the desire to get a wonderful orgasm. If your statement would be true, sex would depreciate in value for you. You still have sex, are you telling me you're having sex for your girlfriend only?  xD " I am selfless in sex" - he is saying. I am laughing so hard, so hard...sure...remember that woman forced you to have sex with her to avoid drama, "100% you are selfless", great guy, so altruistic. Where else are you selfless? Maybe I need to employ for my routine needs, you cook well, so who knows....xD

1 hour ago, zeroISinfinity said:

To finally put end on my shit

No woman and any relations will resolve your issues, period! And you know it, no need to repeat here. 

 

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@zeroISinfinity Alex, I am tired of you, Macho man. ????,
where is my ♌️ Leo-knight , I miss him already❤️! 

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16 minutes ago, zeroISinfinity said:

Only peeps I want to met here are Jed and Andrey maybe I will like to meet you too. So like to talk with someone slavic just fills my ❤️. 

Doesn't matter how "pissed off" I am. 

Nah, I am nobody here, just a random stupid housewife ...for sure not worth any attention, especially from a guy your caliber! ?

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40 minutes ago, zeroISinfinity said:

Sorry @GalynaI apologize.

 

You do not have to apologize for absolutely anything.  Unless this "sorry" has a hue of dignity and self-pride, than it's another story. But Alex, do not take it too personally, really, if you died as a human, nothing I say or do can truly hurt your feelings. If there is a reaction somewhere, on the backyard of the psyche, than you still associate yourself with a human being.

We are just discussing things here, nothing personal. I am giving you a response I would give to any womanizer! 

In real life I could touch you on the personal level if I wanted to....but I will never ever play with other people's feelings. I know the game, I know how it works, I know what man loves, what excites him...but it does not excite me anymore, it is a game of life. It is all silly and stupid. Nothing can be more attractive when you are being your true self, your honesty, your vulnerability, your compassion. All those things we think contribute to our success are just masks, social game, no more, no less, including your looks, social status, how many females you had sexually, and all the alpha male perceived qualities you claim to have.

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2 hours ago, Galyna said:

@zeroISinfinity
where is my ♌️ Leo-knight , I miss him already❤️! 

Hello my lady, I was delving into some unseen territories... ?

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@zeroISinfinity

I know man, I know. I’d rather get yelled at by my wife than have her be mad at me. I’d rather get stung by a bee than worry about getting stung. 

You know what I mean. 


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@zeroISinfinity

Meh says who. You thinkin I got somethin. I have nothing. Careful not to assume an ideal of my life. 
 

Funny thing, ya check in with black thingy who can be any thingy, and it’s being you thingy. Good enough for Goodness, good enough for youness. 
 

Even Nahm isn’t being Nahm. 


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3 hours ago, zeroISinfinity said:

I really mean it. 

Well okay, no need for this. You shared, I shared...all is good....nothing personal.....

3 hours ago, zeroISinfinity said:

Because I have  to live life too and love life too and this guy too. I don't feel hurted at all. Like bad or something response comes literally from  My heart from inside.  @Nahm understands me regarding feelings and why it is sometimes  bit difficult to live life ir to even want it. Doesn't matter. 

I understand you too, you're being pretty authentic here with us, nothing to worry about it. I just do not like when any man challenges me with his looks or anything else. So...do not take it personally. 

3 hours ago, zeroISinfinity said:

I don't hate women. I respect them and have understanding for them and how life is more difficult for them then for men. I am not a moron my lady. Women I liked the most in my life was victim of rape abused anti depressants attempted suicide etc so give me a break I am some jerk that uses women. I quite actually love them. 

I have never said anything like that that you hated women. 

so give me a break I am some jerk that uses women. I quite actually love them. - I guess we went too far in our discussion because you sound a bit offensive. You are not a jerk and who the hell am I to judge you?

3 hours ago, zeroISinfinity said:

Ok I know it too. I am mature same as you. Not really that different my no nonsense lady. How else could I be. 

I am far from mature, I promise...never claimed to be this way.

Keep writing in your style. Everybody loves you here...

Sorry I was rude today. Just can not stand when man is overreacts about his charisma and personal traits so I lashed out.

 

 


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