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I am not good enough for this world

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none of you have been any help and this forum is pointless

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@saffron You have to help yourself. You need to suffer and hit bottom, then when you have no other options you will fix your own life. You are creating your own suffering, and only you can fix it.

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@saffron You are good enough for this world, in fact you're amazing. You are the world. It's  a shift in perspective that is needed. Are you willing to make that shift? If you are you've got to be aware of your projections onto others and really really look inside. But that's tough so we tend to just continue blaming the external world. 

To quote Tolle, "The truth is you need to say yes to suffering before you can transcend it".

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4 hours ago, saffron said:

none of you have been any help and this forum is pointless

That's not how it works. We cannot help you. That's your job and yours only. Did you want us to carry you on our back or something?

We're here to share insights and experiences. Pick whatever serves you.

In order to say that this forum is pointless, you'd have to prove that it's pointless for everyone, which is obviously not the case because it is useful to me.

You want an easy way out of the confusion you built for yourself. You want a shortcut. Here's the truth: there is no shortcut available. You will have to face the immense emotional pain that awaits you.


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@saffron I'm in a similar situation. Single and alone for life.

I agree that there is no point in living. But it's hard to cross the barrier to suicide.

For me, life is a waiting game for death, and hope to get reborn as female which of course guarantees a abundance of partners, and you don't need to do anything to get them, they come to you. And oh, you don't need to work either because the man is supposed to provide for you, and protect you, and repair/build stuff, and take care of everything.

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@Mikael89 I'll take my chances by selling my soul to the devil. He seems a lot better than the phony abrahamic God that I have stopped fearing for a long time.

 

Who knows about being reincarnated as a girl. If you're an ugly girl, you're just as screwed as a boy.

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@Mikael89 I can't wait until your improves so much and you can look back at these comments and smile. You are in for such a treat. Can't you see how YOU are creating your own misery. It's funny because I can see it. Loving relationship is so easy for you. You are so close. Go read @Nahm's thread about the dream board. Start dream boarding bruh

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14 minutes ago, saffron said:

@Mikael89 I'll take my chances by selling my soul to the devil. He seems a lot better than the phony abrahamic God that I have stopped fearing for a long time.

 

Who knows about being reincarnated as a girl. If you're an ugly girl, you're just as screwed as a boy.

Don't do that. When it comes to existential stuff: better safe than sorry. We have no idea what Reality is. Nothing would surprise me.

 

No, don't you know anything? It matters absolutely nothing that she is ugly. A woman always has a abundance of men, no matter how ugly she is.

13 minutes ago, Raptorsin7 said:

@Mikael89 I can't wait until your improves so much and you can look back at these comments and smile. You are in for such a treat. Can't you see how YOU are creating your own misery. It's funny because I can see it. Loving relationship is so easy for you. You are so close. Go read @Nahm's thread about the dream board. Start dream boarding bruh

Well, you will have to wait for the rest of your life then.

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6 minutes ago, Mikael89 said:

Don't do that. When it comes to existential stuff: better safe than sorry. We have no idea what Reality is. Nothing would surprise me.

 

Don't do what? 

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@Raptorsin7 at this point, I don't care. The abrahamic concept of hell is a farce and all of reality is a hallucination anyway. All notions are relative. So it isn't "evil"

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7 hours ago, saffron said:

none of you have been any help and this forum is pointless

Yea..

In my opinion, these advice givers are insane. Just look at what Raptorsin7 is telling me.

They lack the ability to comprehend that some cases are impossible. They think that everyone can get fixed, only because they themselves managed to get fixed. Maybe they damaged something in the brain so they don't understand that hopeless cases exist.

See, like Tony Robbins in that video, clearly insane.

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22 hours ago, Mikael89 said:

Yea..

In my opinion, these advice givers are insane. Just look at what Raptorsin7 is telling me.

They lack the ability to comprehend that some cases are impossible. They think that everyone can get fixed, only because they themselves managed to get fixed. Maybe they damaged something in the brain so they don't understand that hopeless cases exist.

Well, I can't make any promises about the future, whether you will get fixed or not. Rather than trying to change, another way of approaching this work is by not trying to fix or change yourself, but compassionately accepting who you are right now, moment by moment. Broken, wounded, depressed, a failure, whatever life feels like for you. Look at your feelings, get to the root of them and lovingly accept (but not react to) whatever you find. That's as good a place to start as any. 

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@saffron I've been there. Everything it's so overwhelming that nothing makes sense, but you have to choose: do you want to continue feeling this pain, inadeguacy and emptiness, or you want to be happy? 

Dont take this as graunted, really ask yourself and decide. It's easy to miss this point but realize that if you don't know where you want to go you will stay where you are. 

Take some minutes and relax: forget about possible or not, being enough or not even if it does make sense or not and ask yourself: "Do I want to be happy?" 

I were in a point where all of i can thought about was killing myself and who knows what would have happened if i didnt make the vow to stop feeling that pain again, to make myself happy no matter what. It was a long journey and those feelings returned frequently, only when i accepted the reasons why i felt that way my life started changing for the better, but nothing would have happened if i didnt make that decision.

Once you decide to be happy you can start accept your problems and find solutions for them.

Now it's up to you what to choose, I will trust your decision 

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9 hours ago, saffron said:

@LeoX8

Why do you talk as if it is so simple?

It is simple. But "simple" does not imply "easy".

In fact, you're addicted to complex stuff. You're so addicted to complex that you cannot handle simple.


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@saffron I agree with what@ajasatya said.

Sorry for have not mention it: it is not easy. You need a lot of courage for doing that. I personally did that at one of my lowest points in my life. It was hard to accept all of that but it ended up being so rewarding.

4 hours ago, ajasatya said:

In fact, you're addicted to complex stuff. You're so addicted to complex that you cannot handle simple.

I agree and I also think that you are seeing all of your problems at once, it is obvious that they seem too big and complex together. Try to focus on one thing at time, it will help you.

Life isn't meaningless even meaninglessness is in itself a meaning, figure out what makes sense for you.

If you want to go out of this situation you can't give up. Trust me and the people on this forum, we want for you only the best. But again, the decision Is yours.

Think deeply about that. 

 

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