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  1. @mandyjw Synchronicity is how the magic of life happens. Follow your impulses, your gut, the signs, you're being guided. Let go of your thought stories of who or what is leading this, be curious and enjoy how it all unfolds. When you do, you realise you've tapped into gold.
  2. @Zak The point is you actualise with all these distractions. The biggest obstacle to this path is committing to it, as you have pointed out. How do you get over this obstacle? Realise what is, is. Dark days = dark days, light days = light days. Become aware of the resistance as your post describes. Realise the resistance for what it is, and carry on the work.
  3. @Thewritersunion Try a Yoga Nidra before bed. Good for sleep and relaxation.
  4. @Carson Ford You mentioned feelings a lot through out your post. What are these feelings? Who is experiencing these feelings? Receive your feelings then let go of them, this is the I am, the Now. What is meaning/meaninglessness? You have tapped into the source but perhaps you are not quite aware of it's power yet. Wait and see. See and wait.
  5. @Zak I find this very offensive. Go work on yourself my dear and perhaps you'll have a very different view in a few years.
  6. @Mikael89 Hi. I'm sorry you feel this way. Lots of people on here can relate, myself included. What if you could overcome this? What if you didn't have a shitty personality as you so describe? What if you didn't have social anxiety? What would that look like? What would that feel like? I spent a lot of time lost in the negative spiral. One day I woke up and realised, I don't want to feel this way any more, so I tried another path. Awakening helped me. Good luck, there's support if you need it.
  7. @ivankiss @Leonora What is exactly is regret? Perception of experience. What exactly is perception of experience? Going through mental health problems myself has enabled me to be the person I am today. I can now help others and love more. Also what are mistakes? Mistakes are needed to help you achieve your dreams. It is how you look at life which is key. You are here, you are living, you are accepting. That is such an achievement and a blessing. Dont underestimate what you have been through and the understanding this can bring. Not only about yourself but others too.
  8. @Shaun How much mindfulness meditation do you do? Forget the conceptual stuff, try really feeling the what is.
  9. @Rasheed Why are you starting a journal if you don't know what to write in it? Perhaps think about this more, your connection with your inner being first, and why this is difficult.
  10. @Psyche_92 Perhaps your routine is a bit too hardcore. Review it and adjust where necessary. Also are you an all or nothing kind of person? If so, why is that? Start with changing one thing and integrate then another then another. Rather than five at once, or you'll just reach burn out.
  11. @Mu_ Great video, thank you. As humans we thrive on problems as we like things to solve, to work out and to talk about. Working on letting all this go is interestingly, not as difficult as it may seem.
  12. @outlandish Really interesting reading, thank you. All feeds into the illusion filter we hold. What I found really interesting is the part about what and how we remember. When we remember things, how do we remember the Truth? Tricky if this doesn't exist. We're in fact remembering only our take on the event, which in fact is biased, therefore an illusion.
  13. @ActualizedDavid If you want to find out about NLP look up Tony Robbins. His work is based on NLP.
  14. Thanks for this. Authentic choicelessness, now this is key. When we make promises to ourselves and we fail, we beat ourselves up for failure. Take away the promises and you take away the room for failure. Be kinder to yourself.
  15. How do you deal with motivational ruts? You have your long term and short term goals, you have a life purpose, you understand about ego backlash. Despite this all you want to do is sit on the couch and eat pizza.