A sample Person , that is in Stage Blue.. send a videos here for a sample

[Leo Gura]

37 minutes ago, SFRL said:

But a Feminist can never be stage Red? No matter what they do? They will always be stage Green? 

Because to me that is measuring with different tools, or double standards so to say. 

I don't think you have much direct experience with Family Law, but trust me there is some institutionalized criminal stuff going on a lot of times. I wouldn't call that stage Green. In no way shape or form. 

I had to deal with it, but honestly I am good now, I got my life worked out that situation with the mother of my daughter. And your videos helped a lot to strategize all that. So thank you for that.

But there is a reason why the Red Pill and MGTOW are so popular. They really do make some valid points. Although I don't like to buy into that collective victim mindset.

I guess they can be Red at super extremes, but I'm talking about mainstream feminism.

Just like I would not classify PUA as Red but Orange, I would classify feminism as Green. Because feminism seeks the values of Green for the most part. I don't think your average feminist wants women to dominate men. She wants equality.

And your average PUA wants to bang a bunch of hot girls (which is pure Orange).

[SFRL]

35 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

I guess they can be Red at super extremes, but I'm talking about mainstream feminism.

Just like I would not classify PUA as Red but Orange, I would classify feminism as Green. Because feminism seeks the values of Green for the most part. I don't think your average feminist wants women to dominate men. She wants equality.

And your average PUA wants to bang a bunch of hot girls (which is pure Orange).

Yeah I can see that. 

[John Iverson]

10 hours ago, WildeChilde said:

@John Iverson I’m a Stage Bluer John.  What would you like to know?

It is hard to ask questions, because i wanna see it how you express yourself and i will see it in my point of view.. maybe the question i could say is.. can you show me posts, comments here that you express your blue stage? What are your characteristics, ideology, belief, wants ,dislikes, rules, order, and your whole being as blue? I am investigating,,.. haha! Here in thos forum.. and my country .. because my country is in blue stage.. and they are just starting to have a legit discipline...but the other liberal party is reacting of their own ideology and law enforcement haha! I basically see my country in the birds eye view.. i can pinpoint the blue stage haha! Even in the social media like facebook i am aware now of that.. i am not using fb but yesterday when i use it,.. i see everyone reacting to each other triggered af hahahaha.. now i know why i feel so toxicated whenever i see posts and comments in youtube or social media

[John Iverson]

9 hours ago, lmfao said:

@John Iverson dude, finding stage blue isn't too hard. Just watch Islamic scholars and Christian fundamentalists. This video is an example of excessive blue. 

This guy is meme worthy lol. If you want to understand stage blue thinking, Islamic videos are the way too go a lot of the time. And not just the extremists either, just fundamentalist Muslims because the vast majority of Muslims claim to be fundamentalist. 

 

 

Oh man!! The tension is very hot!! ? I didn't know that blue can be this,. Stage red is obvious but in blue it can cause war? It can cause fights here and there.. because of their idealogy... try to give me a taste of yeezy you will never put that on your feet HAHAHAHA! 

[John Iverson]

9 hours ago, Rilles said:

I dont need to even see a video, I got my dad lol, could post years of Blue quotes.

Post it hereeeeeee!!! Hahaha give me atleast 30 haha!! Wait? 30 is small.. well, give me as many as you can! Ahahahaha

[John Iverson]

9 hours ago, MarkusSweden said:

@WildeChilde @John Iverson

I'm also at stage Blue, just ask me anything on any matter and I share my opinions which are typical blue!

Hmm? What are your ideologies, characteristics, beliefs, dialogues, way of thinking, how you behave... what are your triggers, values, rules, etc... i want to see and informed what makes you blue and your expressions as blue...

[John Iverson]

8 hours ago, How to be wise said:

The classic shoes thrown at Bush video:

 

Another shoes! Hahahahaha! 

[MarkusSweden]

@Emerald Thank you! 

That answer was almost too intelligent for this forum. ?

A pleasure to read, rings true. 

[Rilles]

@John Iverson Well... the quotes can be very offensive, are you sure?

[John Iverson]

13 minutes ago, Rilles said:

@John Iverson Well... the quotes can be very offensive, are you sure?

Yeaaa i'm sure! 

[Rilles]

@John Iverson Alright Im compiling a list, have to pick from my darkest memories. 

[Elisabeth]

@Emerald Thank you, this is great. I have an urge to like take it and proudly post it on my facebook wall to end some of the arguments in my social circle, but of course that would not work (and not just becasuse nobody would take the time to study spiral dynamics and think independently if it fits or not ). I have a slightly different take on some of the stages, but this is to be expected. Anyway, it's a great illustration how people and movements are rarely truly at one stage at a time. And great historical context too!

[Leo Gura]

1 hour ago, Bane said:

If someone rapes today your dog - your dog won't have ANY  testimony in court, still It doesn't mean that rapist will go free. 

So you support women having the legal rights of dogs?

How would you feel about that if you were born a woman in the next life?

[John Iverson]

14 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Pretty much anything you see on Fox News

 

i see now even more the limitation of blue stage.. haha!, question, if the shoe video of islam, can he be classified also as red if he killed the guy?? Because of his ideology? And literal interpretation of koran 

[White]

@John Iverson I don't think there is such a thing as a blue person, but blue values and behaviours are real.

Blue is the part of us that understands rules and roles. 

For example, when you are in a public place you are expected to take part in a ritual of sorts, even with strangers there is an expectation that a group organize itself into a family type hierarchy where you all forced into different roles depending on your level of skill, experience, your age and how you look. 

The phenomena allows us to live in an orderly fashion and prevents abuse from opportunistic and tyrannical red. 

 

[John Iverson]

1 minute ago, White said:

@John Iverson I don't think there is such a thing as a blue person, but blue values and behaviours are real.

Blue is the part of us that understands rules and roles. 

For example, when you are in a public place you are expected to take part in a ritual of sorts, even with strangers there is an expectation that a group organize itself into a family type hierarchy where you all forced into different roles depending on your level of skill, experience, your age and how you look. 

The phenomena allows us to live in an orderly fashion and prevents abuse from opportunistic and tyrannical red. 

 

Blue also has the tendency of destructive behaviors like red do... look at the video in the first page.. i can see islamic blue stage... and sometimes enforcement of law can leads us no freedom, family type hierarchy or blue stage has also a limit, 

"blue is the part of us thag understands rules and roles" - I don't know how i evolve from this stage but I don't see anymore myself in a blue stage,.since elementary I don't see the importance of what rules telling me to do, like hair cuts, like praying at school , or about religion,, today That i know more about spirituality, what they talk about is not the truth... i can pinpoint blue,, but to me i can say that i am orange going to green... 

[Sparkist]

@John Iverson My Dad once told me I should respect him because he is my father. I disagreed. I feel that my respect shouldn't come because of status, position or expectation, but by actions, and mutual respect and understanding. He was absolutely enraged when I stood up to him in this way. I don't think he's ever really truly forgiven me. I believe his sentiment was very stage blue.

I have had an issue with 'authority', certainly for the sake of authority, for many years. Titles and hierarchies don't really mean anything to me. Just because you are the 'boss' or the 'father' or the 'leader' does not mean I instantly do what you say and instantly give you respect. We've seen many people in positions of power over the years take advantage of those positions and use them for selfish and/or evil means. So, all credibility in hierarchical structure comes into question, for me.  

 

[White]

@Sparkist Your way of thinking is orange/GREEN. Green values mutual respect, give and take. The problem green has is it denies everything underneath it to hold onto it's values. That's where yellow comes from, it appreciates all the systems of first tier and seeks to integrate them back in their healthy forms. 

So yellow appreciates the rules and roles, but doesn't cling tightly to them because it can also appreciate orange (which breaks the rules in order to develop autonomous thinking). 

@John Iverson

Do you think extremist Islam is red? I don't agree. I think it's blue, but it's unhealthy blue because it's stuck. 

Red is a different beast altogether. Red isn't the only stage that is destructive, every stage is destructive in its stuck or unhealthy forms. 

Edited June 19, 2018 by White

[Rilles]

@Sparkist Same here, ”Because I said so” are the 4 worst words I hate the most. 

[Sparkist]

@White Ahh interesting. I was wondering where I fell on the ole Spiral Dynamics model. Thanks for your reply. 

@Rilles That ole chestnut eh? I've actually used those very words myself, much to my own disappointment (I have a teenage daughter). I grew up with that sentiment. Allow me to add (and defend myself entertainingly, I'm sure) that I only ever used it when I was at my absolute wits end  I don't feel as though I'm tried to this degree with her nowadays. 

What about 'children should be seen and not heard!' And 'Do as I say, not as I do!'?