girls don't like nice guys

[Jirh]

Is this nice or kind?

Honestly, I think it's cringe.

But seriously, nice or kind?

Edited 6 hours ago by Jirh

[Natasha Tori Maru]

32 minutes ago, Jirh said:

Is this nice or kind?

Honestly, I think it's cringe.

But seriously, nice or kind?

Both.

Not cringe for me. If that shits earnest it's lovely. I've had that consistently from partners 🥰

[Salvijus]

2 hours ago, Jirh said:

Is this nice or kind?

Honestly, I think it's cringe.

But seriously, nice or kind?

More like a simp to my view. 

Edited 3 hours ago by Salvijus

[something_else]

2 hours ago, Jirh said:

Is this nice or kind?

Honestly, I think it's cringe.

But seriously, nice or kind?

It's one of those things you think and do, but don't necessarily say out loud.

It's a bit cringe because it could be a lie just to make himself look better. It breaks the show don't tell rule.

[Miguel1]

On 29/09/2026 at 5:40 AM, TheBG said:

@Natasha Tori Maru I like it when women are nice, but not nice in a way where they are being fake. I would rather someone be able to express how they feel and not conform to what I think, without ever letting themselves have a voice.

Moral of the story: don’t be insecure and fake.

Whether you are a man or woman.

[Leo Gura]

Waking up thinking of how to serve your woman is the wrong mindset. You are not her babysitter. Your life should not revolve around serving her or making her happy.

Occasionally you can do something nice for her. But every day? That's crazy. You will get so sick of that so fast, and she will too.

Edited 33 minutes ago by Leo Gura