I want to have sex with a girl this week

[Olaf]

@Ulax yes yes I am the man I am the man hhhhhhhhhhheeeeeehehe

[integration journey]

For a high consciousness forum, this comes off a little creepy and desperate. Just saying what I feel.. 

maybe just unhinged 

Edited 12 hours ago by integration journey

[Ulax]

1 minute ago, integration journey said:

For a high consciousness forum, this comes off a little creepy and desperate. Just saying what I feel.. 

Glad you see him as so determined  

[Yimpa]

29 minutes ago, integration journey said:

For a high consciousness forum, this comes off a little creepy and desperate. Just saying what I feel.. 

maybe just unhinged 

Part of this work (at least from what I’ve gathered) is to integrate all perspectives as yourself. Not to agree with it, but to realize that that is also you. 

I use this forum as a way to see how all the vastly different perspectives interconnect into the same whole. It’s tricky. See my signature for more context. And this and this 

Edited 11 hours ago by Yimpa

[Olaf]

@integration journey I am definitely unhinged, thats my secret power

[CARDOZZO]

You are honest about it. Do not shy away from your desires. Nothing better than to fuck like an animal to aliviate stress.

[Olaf]

@CARDOZZO they actually say honesty/authenticity is the highest vibration, shame and fear is what is holding most people back anyways

[Miguel1]

9 hours ago, Zenterus said:

@Olaf you gotta hit the clubs dude. Find a club or a bar nearby your house (or as close as possible), get a nice fuckboy-looking outfit together (including a nice chain or necklace, no glasses, fake earrings if you dont have your holes pierced, etc), a nice perfume and fucking approach during the day, eat, shit, nap and then hit the bars and clubs at night, every day.

I gotta warn you though.. I been in this game for over 10 years and I've reliably seen that whenever youre in this mindset of needing to get laid, that is precisely when it won't happen. So do it for the love of the game.

Also, as @Miguel1 said: Quality over quantity. Dont just spam approach. Actually try to move things forward productively. Be physical, be polarizing, be engaging and lead as close to sex as you can.

Look up my post history for in depth pickup tips. Good luck to you.

Nice one.

To add: find girls who have good potential to be pulled and are down to fuck:

Is she hosting anyone at her place? Or is she staying at her family's place etc?

Is she comfortable with sexual topics?

Is she dressing more slutty?

Is she physical with you?

Is she compliant?

Does she follow your lead?

Edited 6 hours ago by Miguel1

[PsychedelicEagle]

17 hours ago, CARDOZZO said:

Mode One - Alan Roger Currie 

+1000 ✅

[Inliytened1]

11 hours ago, Zenterus said:

 

@Olaf

I gotta warn you though.. I been in this game for over 10 years and I've reliably seen that whenever youre in this mindset of needing to get laid, that is precisely when it won't happen. So do it for the love of the game.

 

This is so fucking true. Almost EVERY time I went out or go out NOT looking for it or thinking about it..that's fucking when it falls on my lap. One time literally.  I'm telling you I don't know what that's all about. It is some kind of black magic.

[Joshe]

55 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

I'm telling you I don't know what that's all about. It is some kind of black magic.

It's actually not a mystery at all. Women are very sensitive to coercion. 

[Inliytened1]

19 minutes ago, Joshe said:

It's actually not a mystery at all. Women are very sensitive to coercion. 

I think they like it better wnen you aren't trying. Then if they find you attractive they might make the first move.  I mean at bars when there is that social lubricant called alcohol.  So there's truth to that.   They don't like desperate guys.   However if they don't make a move but slipping the eye..then work your way over.

Outside of bars it's rare for women to just come to you.

Edited 3 hours ago by Inliytened1

[Joshe]

21 hours ago, LordFall said:

You don't need to be friends with chicks to get laid though. Completely possible to creampie someone within 3 hours of meeting them.

Yeah man. I'm not the square you're picturing. I was the bad boy. I was the one orchestrating gangbangs and threesomes. I had more insane sexual experiences from 15-20 than most dudes will in their lives. Yet I still say the things I do. Wonder why?

It's because I matured and realized how pathetic it was. I was exploiting the shit out of women's psychology and eventually saw it for what it was and became ashamed of it. At that point, I started treating women with respect, trying to make up for all of my devilry. That's when I learned you don't have to trick them. 😂

Edited 3 hours ago by Joshe

[Inliytened1]

9 minutes ago, Joshe said:

Yeah man. I'm not the square you're picturing. I was the bad boy. I was the one orchestrating gangbangs and threesomes. I had more insane sexual experiences from 15-20 than most dudes will in their lives. Yet I still say the things I do. Wonder why? It's because I matured and realized how pathetic it was. I was exploiting the shit out of women's psychology and eventually saw it for what it was and became ashamed of it. At that point, I started treating women with respect, trying to make up for all of my devilry. That's when I learned you don't have to trick them. 😂

I agree I think you have to establish that friendship even if it's a few hours old.  They have to feel comfortable and have a degree of trust in you.  But if the two of you make friends and feel comfortable with each other..and decide to get a room..how is that disrespect? Is she a slut for that? I don't necessarily think so.  I think each woman is different.  But I do agree that a certain connection has to be made first whether it's two hours or two weeks.  But it can be two hours.   Women need love too. I know some have higher standards but maybe she's tired of that one night and decides to say fuck it 😀

Edited 2 hours ago by Inliytened1

[Joshe]

8 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

But if the two of you make friends and feel comfortable with each other..and decide to get a room..how is that disrespect?

Nothing wrong with that at all. It's the overall predatory view that is a problem. It's a natural stage for guys to go through. Like I said, I went through it. But at some point, if you're developing, you'll snap out of it. It's understandable that if you're in your 20s, you will put your own needs above everyone else's. I can forgive someone 20-30 for not forgoing his own sexual interests, but 30+, I think you're lagging behind in development, and most likely because you've got something to prove regarding pussy. 

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, Joshe said:

Nothing wrong with that at all. It's the overall predatory view that is a problem. It's a natural stage for guys to go through. Like I said, I went through it. But at some point, if you're developing, you'll snap out of it. It's understandable that if you're in your 20s, you will put your own needs above everyone else's. I can forgive someone 20-30 for not forgoing his own sexual interests, but 30+, I think you're lagging behind in development, and most likely because you've got something to prove regarding pussy. 

Yeah I would concur.  But with that attitude they ain't gonna do that good with the women unless they are Casinova.  Even then, they will quickly discover what an asshole you are, and you'll be lucky if you close the deal. 

Arranging gang bangs? You devil you 😀

[Ulax]

26 minutes ago, Joshe said:

Yeah man. I'm not the square you're picturing. I was the bad boy. I was the one orchestrating gangbangs and threesomes. I had more insane sexual experiences from 15-20 than most dudes will in their lives. Yet I still say the things I do. Wonder why?

It's because I matured and realized how pathetic it was. I was exploiting the shit out of women's psychology and eventually saw it for what it was and became ashamed of it. At that point, I started treating women with respect, trying to make up for all of my devilry. That's when I learned you don't have to trick them. 😂

Your issue was lying to women rather than the casual sex itself

[Inliytened1]

29 minutes ago, Ulax said:

Your issue was lying to women rather than the casual sex itself

You can't keep the lies up. That's the problem with that. You might get laid that night but it won't be sustainable.  And not to mention the moral aspect.  (Elephant in the room) But yet here we are focusing on getting something.  Yet apparently he has now matured past that and wants something sustainable.  And that's good.  We all should be going in that direction.  He came a long way.

Edited 2 hours ago by Inliytened1

[Inliytened1]

39 minutes ago, Ulax said:

Your issue was lying to women rather than the casual sex itself

Its probably both. Casual sex and throwing them away after is a form of disrespect.  That's the whole issue here.  We should be aiming for a relationship not just running up the numbers.  If it's mutual casual sex that's fine.  

Edited 1 hour ago by Inliytened1

[Joshe]

You can do your devilry without lies. I never promised a woman anything. Not once. And that was part of my devilry.