Going out tonight

[Majed]

Will keep you updated on what happens tonight as in i will be doing pick up at a high volume club tonight.

[LordFall]

Remember don't be silly, wrap your willy.

[Inliytened1]

18 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Remember don't be silly, wrap your willy.

Ya for realz  Don't play with fire.

 

[integration journey]

What happened bro 

[Yimpa]

Have fun! I’ll be going out tonight and loving myself  

[Olaf]

@integration journey I think he died

[Majed]

1 hour ago, integration journey said:

What happened bro 

I did like 13 approaches most of them had boyfriends and weren't single. But like i enjoyed the night, i asked a girl i was really attracted to, to make out instantly, she said no, but i still like the fact that i was bold and owned my attraction towards her. Overall i think pick up is difficult, and should be done consistently, i am planning to get a job to then be able to go out more consistently until i start getting laid. 

[LordFall]

Good stuff bro. I would advise you to try online dating on top of cold approach. Cold approaching is extremely inefficient and to get to the point where you go on dates and get laid consistently from it will either take months/years or for most guys it'll never happen. Whereas 30% of new marriages now come from dating apps.

I would make a profile on all major ones Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, Facebook dating, Feeld and Badoo and you should be able to get to the point where you're having 1 new date a week from it pretty reliably.

You don't need to be a male model to make it work, you just need to hit the right archetypes for your pictures to pique female interest. This guy covers the main ones pretty well. Basically pictures of you dressed nicely at a nice restaurant or rooftop bar in your city, one of you in a social setting, one of you doing something badass like smoking a cigar/riding a motorcycle/with BDSM handcuffs, one of you in a cool location, etc. 

Edited Sunday at 01:15 AM by LordFall

[Majed]

16 hours ago, Majed said:

I did like 13 approaches most of them had boyfriends and weren't single. But like i enjoyed the night, i asked a girl i was really attracted to, to make out instantly, she said no, but i still like the fact that i was bold and owned my attraction towards her. Overall i think pick up is difficult, and should be done consistently, i am planning to get a job to then be able to go out more consistently until i start getting laid. 

@Leo Gura What do you think ?

[Olaf]

@Majed nice keep going, you got this!

[integration journey]

On 9/6/2026 at 10:22 AM, Majed said:

@Leo Gura What do you think ?

Bro just a piece of advice stop asking Leo what he thinks on every thing you do. He is not your daddy. Be your own Guru or listen to multiple people’s perspectives 

[Emotionalmosquito]

On 9/5/2026 at 8:09 PM, Majed said:

i am planning to get a job to then be able to go out more consistently until i start getting laid. 

This is pretty much where I’m at at the moment. I’ll need to drive at least an hour or so out at least 2-3 times a week to get any real results since my city is quite bad for game, so job will be required. @Majed How far do you plan on venturing out each time and how often? Or did you mean you need a job more for buying drinks, paying for dates, that stuff? 

[Majed]

@Emotionalmosquito

1 hour ago, Emotionalmosquito said:

This is pretty much where I’m at at the moment. I’ll need to drive at least an hour or so out at least 2-3 times a week to get any real results since my city is quite bad for game, so job will be required. @Majed How far do you plan on venturing out each time and how often? Or did you mean you need a job more for buying drinks, paying for dates, that stuff? 

I meant that i needed a job to pay for club entrances, taxis, hotel rooms, dates as well, etc... All the stuff related to dating basically. 

[Majed]

@integration journey

3 hours ago, integration journey said:

Bro just a piece of advice stop asking Leo what he thinks on every thing you do. He is not your daddy. Be your own Guru or listen to multiple people’s perspectives 

Yall underappreciate Leo's wisdom and guidance. 

[Zenterus]

42 minutes ago, Majed said:

@integration journey

Yall underappreciate Leo's wisdom and guidance. 

We don't. @integration journey is right with his advice. Part of being an attractive man is being self trusting and not idolizing other people. You need to start trusting your own gut and not putting other individuals on a pedestal. Take advice, yes. Consider multiple perspectives, yes. But valuing one man's opinion as if they're omnipotent is only dimming your own light. No woman finds that attractive.

She needs you to be the leader, she needs you to be the one she looks up to and admires. How can she do that, when you're clearly not viewing yourself in that light and are passing on that authority to someone else. Be your own man, stop sucking up to daddy Leo.

[Emotionalmosquito]

On 9/8/2026 at 1:17 PM, Zenterus said:

she needs you to be the one she looks up to

That’s why I wear my trusty shoe boosters. Sad thing is many chicks are still just as or even taller, must be something in the water. (Joke) They’re still helpful though. 
 

I still just can’t get over the fact that it’s come to having to approach hundreds upon hundreds of women just to barely start getting the hang of it when other people just end up with someone (often going through a few or several different girls before they get there) just by the natural flow of life. Wtf is wrong with us? Or what’s wrong with modern women, maybe a mix of both? 
 

Idgaf anymore about my puny town of 50k not being good enough. I’ll venture out when feasible but otherwise I’m grinding it out right here until everyone starts noticing me as the town freak just for daring to attempt to have the most natural thing in the human experience. I’ll continue increasing my state, learning all the right methods and utilizing them to exhaustion. If nothing else it’ll be just to spite the overly optimistic normies who think “oh you’ll find a girl someday” “She’s out there for you!” ☺️ when they see I’m doing literally everything right without shit to show for it. 
 

 

@Majed tbf I think they’re right about the importance of not being overly reliant on a guru. Even Leo himself says to not take his word for things because finding the truth for ourselves is what matters. All he can do is nudge us in the right direction. 

[Breakingthewall]

@Majed if I where you I would listen @LordFall . The night club gives the feeling of a kind of freedom, like you can pretend be another person more self confident in the middle of the noise and the vapors of alcohol, but a sober date face to face is where you can polish your game, and apps for dating are very useful.

 Just don't mention sex, say that your purpose is clean, meeting and see where it leads because for you only real deep connection is valuable (and if it's true, better), and start dating with the sole idea of having a good date.

Imagine that you want to be a boxer and you are starting boxing, your purpose is not winning, is learning of the adversary and polish your technical squills because you are not a boxer, you are a wannabe. Same with dates, know your position, then you will improve.