Texting a girl fast back

[felixk_priv]

Tbh I am insecure about texting a girl fast back I have been texting back faster but I think I might come across as well more invested I suppose . It's early on , I don't know if it's a turn off for most girls .. or if it varies or if it comes across as needy or soemting 

[felixk_priv]

Lol , maybe it would have been good to feel my emotions instead of posting this out of insecurity bahahh

[Olaf]

@felixk_priv Honestly I just don't give a shit anymore, I just hate the waiting the same amount as she texts. I just never double text thats my only rule, but many times when I see she responded I just directly text, because I don't want to put her so much on a pedestal that I will consciously spend 2 hours waiting before sending a message. Many times when you respond directly they also start to text more quickly so that is what I do, I used to wait hours, but I feel there is no point to it. 

Edited September 3 by Olaf

[Jirh]

I suggest organizing your time into blocks. When it's socialization time, you can reply and engage. Otherwise, you're busy and focused on whatever you're doing. You disappear without explanation. And you do not negotiate your time with anyone.

[Hasson_Miah]

search coach orey Wayne how to be a 3% man and watch your life change dude. 

[PsychedelicEagle]

It's a scientific fact that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear.  ~ Corey Wayne.

[Olaf]

@PsychedelicEagle yes, if you wait 2 hours everytime she waits 2 hours it is kinda try hard, I think best is to text when you have time and when your busy just don´t text, but you got to be busy with other things or just not care or have so many people your texting that you don´t feel like replying. I genuinely don´t feel like replying many times.

[PsychedelicEagle]

Yes, ideally you should be busy with your life purpose.

And anyway the phone is for setting dates. On the phone, you just to the minimally-necessary texting for her to see you're not a crazy person, and then you book the date ASAP and get off the phone.

It's all laid out on Corey Wayne's book.

Edited 6 hours ago by PsychedelicEagle

[Breakingthewall]

On 3/9/2026 at 9:18 PM, felixk_priv said:

Tbh I am insecure about texting a girl fast back I have been texting back faster but I think I might come across as well more invested I suppose . It's early on , I don't know if it's a turn off for most girls .. or if it varies or if it comes across as needy or soemting 

No no, your concern is not a stupidity, it's smart. Don't imagine what the girl is thinking, imagine what she's feeling.

She doesn't know why she suddenly sees you as an idiot or a Viking god; it just happens. So, if you respond immediately, the feeling you create is like a dog jumping around with its tongue hanging out, very happy because it's about to get a stick. That creates a feeling like: ohh he's so cute, but so unsexy..... But on the other hand, if you wait too long, then it seems like you're intentionally trying to appear like a Viking god, which automatically makes you an idiot.

The balance is delicate; it's a precise dance where each tempo builds the necessary framework so that the girl feels she wants you to be the man. You are not conquering her, you are creating the appropriate tempo and energy to make her enjoy the fact of being a woman, and for that you have to be a man, and that means respect for yourself, you first, above. Not above like a human, just in the plane man/ woman, that doesn't mean unrespect, just play the game that's needed 

Edited 5 hours ago by Breakingthewall