Most Dating Books/Teachers Aren't Exceptional

[Jirh]

14 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

I have trained my brain to view them as children.

Maybe you should undo that training.

[Miguel1]

@Jirh I don’t see a reason for us to continue our conversation. There are much higher things to life than just following your taste buds unconsciously.

[Jirh]

20 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

There are much higher things to life than just following your taste buds unconsciously.

I agree. Never implied otherwise.

I'm just saying maybe you should examine that "holier than thou" attitude of yours, and in effect withdraw the judgement about younger people.

You don't hate your childhood to become an adult. You integrate it. It becomes part of who you are, not the shadow you're scared of.

[Miguel1]

@Jirh It’s interesting when some of you think that I have a ”holier than thou” attitude. Becareful it is not a defence mechanism from you, a projection perhaps.

I used to have no problems seducing girls in relationships to cheat on their partners with me, and even got excited from it. I had many rationalizations for it,

Nowadays, if I find out that a girl is even willing to entertain such an idea, I get turned off.

Just because I have genuinely matured, does not mean that I have a bigger ego. It is ridiculous that this is even such a big problem with some of you guys.