Doing Day Game in Small City is Demoralizing

[Rigel]

On 2026-07-07 at 8:02 AM, Leo Gura said:

Yes, of course. Move to a big city with more girls.

Also, try night game first. Day game only works in very specific cities and locations. Most American cities do not have worthwhile day game. It is rare to have beautiful women walking around during the day. That only happens in specific places. You could stand for 3 hours at a grocery store and not find one woman worth approaching.

Rule #0 of pickup: Go where the hot women go.

But you have to sift through way more woman at night as the pourcentage of drunk idiots increase dramatically.

Hot is not enough. Having interesting hobbies and existing in the communities associated is how you find compatible people for relationship. I guess you will indeed fuck more at night but at what cost.

Night clubs never worked for me. Day was better.

[Valach]

4 minutes ago, Rigel said:

But you have to sift through way more woman at night as the pourcentage of drunk idiots increase dramatically.

Hot is not enough. Having interesting hobbies and existing in the communities associated is how you find compatible people for relationship. I guess you will indeed fuck more at night but at what cost.

Night clubs never worked for me. Day was better.

Yeah, well night clubs are not really spot to look for partner. It's more about getting the experience with woman in general.

[Valach]

14 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

In Europe I don't know. Probably any huge city like Paris, London, Madrid, Berlin, Rome, ect.

You want to move to the biggest city in the nation.

Just search for which cities have the best nightlife.

I would say for daygame way more european cities are available due to them being way more pedastrian oriented. Any city above 1 million of people should satisfy that. Which Tbilisi is as well to be honest.

[Leo Gura]

8 hours ago, Rigel said:

But you have to sift through way more woman at night

That is good for building skill and practice, which is more important than finding one girl.

You don't need every girl you approach to be your soulmate.

Edited Wednesday at 09:01 PM by Leo Gura

[Rasheed]

Thanks guys for help and thoughtful comments. I really appreciate it.
 

Because of my life purpose work and commitments connected with the latter I don’t do night game, only day game.

 

Is there any point in me doing day game in Tbilisi? 
 

Walking 2 hours and not finding anyone worth approaching is demoralizing. 
 

Should I continue or is this just pointless (as long as I am in Tbilisi of course)

 

Edited Wednesday at 09:08 PM by Rasheed

[Valach]

44 minutes ago, Rasheed said:

Thanks guys for help and thoughtful comments. I really appreciate it.
 

Because of my life purpose work and commitments connected with the latter I don’t do night game, only day game.

 

Is there any point in me doing day game in Tbilisi? 
 

Walking 2 hours and not finding anyone worth approaching is demoralizing. 
 

Should I continue or is this just pointless (as long as I am in Tbilisi of course)

 

If you truly feel like you can't find woman you like, then I suppose you could look into other alternatives to meeting people. Joining social circles, even dating apps etc.

[gengar]

Tibilisi is a city of one million people, how is that small

[bazera]

@Rasheed We should go from Tbilisi to Bali sometime in the future 

Also, maybe try Batumi as I suggested, on season there are many Slavic girls there, you might find many of them attractive.

[Leo Gura]

1 hour ago, gengar said:

Tibilisi is a city of one million people, how is that small

I lived in Dallas and it was too small for good game.

[Butters]

I think attractive women can flip some switch, like they can hide their attractiveness and turn it on in certain moments which is why sometimes you see almost none and other times many.

And also they usually don't behave sexually close to the house because of stalkers.

Edited Thursday at 06:01 PM by Butters

[Ulax]

On 09/07/2026 at 6:26 AM, Leo Gura said:

I lived in Dallas and it was too small for good game.

Damn. I would have expected Dallas to be perfect for game.

[Ulax]

On 04/07/2026 at 4:18 PM, Rasheed said:

I am doing day game in Tbilisi. It’s quite demoralizing. 
 

i have game of an intermediate. Approach anxiety is not a problem (I have it of course to a certain degree but not to a point of being overtly debilitating since I’v done few hundred approaches at this point). When I see an attractive lady, I approach. 
 

But the problem is Tbilisi is a skmewhat small city. You can literally walk three hours and not see any attractive woman all the while if you see one, she is likely, to put it mildly, to not know English quite well.
 

It’s very demoralizing when you got game but there are simply not any women to approach (P. S. I only do day game, no night game owing to my schedule and goals.)

 

The question I wanna ask: is Tbilisi just bad city for game or am I just badly coping? 
 

I would be grateful for any advice.

 

I hear coaches say, approach 20 girls a week ,8 if you go out two-three days a week. In Tbilisi, that’s somewhat close impossible. You simply won’t see that many attractive woman to approach. And of course, I don’t approach women I am not into just to do an approach, that’s just ridiculous. 
 

 

 

Yes, I watched a video by Todd V talking about this and he's an absolute expert. So, the guys implying its just cope aren't correct and being black-or-white in their thinking. Todd said similar things to you about not finding women regularly that he liked and not recommending to approach girls not attracted to.

That said, he did caveat that by the fact that he has very high standards because of the calibre of girls his skills has allowed him consistent relationships with.

But maybe you just have high standards too. The sneaky alternative is its your brain rationalising that so you don't approach. But sometimes high standards is just the case. Don't be gaslit into thinking you have a problem you don't have.

[Ulax]

On 05/07/2026 at 0:22 PM, PsychedelicEagle said:

Yesterday I approach a hot chick and she was like "you have already approached me in the station" 😆

Who cares!

LMAO that is hilarious

[Leo Gura]

1 hour ago, Ulax said:

Yesterday I approach a hot chick and she was like "you have already approached me in the station" 😆

Tell her: "Third times the charm."

[Ulax]

29 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Tell her: "Third times the charm."

Hahahaha.

Third times the charm, and I'm flattered that you remember our last encounter so well.

[Rasheed]

4 hours ago, Ulax said:

Yes, I watched a video by Todd V talking about this and he's an absolute expert. So, the guys implying its just cope aren't correct and being black-or-white in their thinking. Todd said similar things to you about not finding women regularly that he liked and not recommending to approach girls not attracted to.

That said, he did caveat that by the fact that he has very high standards because of the calibre of girls his skills has allowed him consistent relationships with.

But maybe you just have high standards too. The sneaky alternative is its your brain rationalising that so you don't approach. But sometimes high standards is just the case. Don't be gaslit into thinking you have a problem you don't have.

I really appreciate Todd’s expertise and his System, can you please post a link to the video you mentioned.