This 600 pound guy has a Girlfriend

[Natasha Tori Maru]

16 minutes ago, LordFall said:

I don’t mean it’s necessary unstable just that it’s not for everyone and I recommend people experiment with alternative relationship types if they feel drawn towards it. 

Okay. That's a different claim to the original one - but thanks for clarifying!

[PenguinPablo]

4 hours ago, integral said:

I don't see why my life needs to be lived as some indirect Pursuit to just get more sex.

Make more money to get more sex.

Learn to socialize better to get more sex.

Increase inteligence to get more sex.

Take psychedelics to awaken to get more sex.

I will not spend my life this way.

Having that type of integrity is integral.

At the end of the day you’ll never be authentically yourself if you live that way, trying to morph yourself into something in order to get love from the world.

Like Oliver Tree said “Ugly is Beautiful”

It’s about accepting who and what you are. 
 

Do I look down on the geeky autistic guy that cannot socialize on a level playing field just because he can’t get laid like a frat dude?

Of course not… that’s preposterous and I would argue a futile pursuit for many guys like that.

Do I look down on them?

Or do I respect there individuality? Which looks different for every person, of course 

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

Seems like piggie managed to escape the farm, this isn't his natural habitat

[Jirh]

[integral]

11 hours ago, PenguinPablo said:

Having that type of integrity is integral.

At the end of the day you’ll never be authentically yourself if you live that way, trying to morph yourself into something in order to get love from the world.

Like Oliver Tree said “Ugly is Beautiful”

It’s about accepting who and what you are. 
 

Do I look down on the geeky autistic guy that cannot socialize on a level playing field just because he can’t get laid like a frat dude?

Of course not… that’s preposterous and I would argue a futile pursuit for many guys like that.

Do I look down on them?

Or do I respect there individuality? Which looks different for every person, of course 

I think there was a bit of a misunderstanding, I'm all for self development, and if you've never had a girlfriend and these things really bother you you have to go and do the work to try to resolve this.

I meant it like people who do it in excess and their whole life is just to get more sex, These pickup guys that are in the club every week and they just want to sleep with as many women as possible, the only reason they want a successful business is to get more status to get more sex.

Like your whole life purpose is just relationships and sex and everything else is a indirect way to get it

[Carl-Richard]

19 hours ago, Yimpa said:

Is he still alive?

And how does he shower or take a bath? 

Edit: Found out he died back in 2020

Just a little too late for Ozempic, or just fast a little.

Imagine choosing death over fasting a little or eating some veggies.

Edited 3 hours ago by Carl-Richard

[Carl-Richard]

17 hours ago, aurum said:

The Coolidge effect only matters when you introduce a new partner.

Your harem partners are not new or novel. You will have had sex with them tons of times and will have normalized to it all, in the same way that you normalize to one partner in monogamy.

Adding a new partner in a harem is rare.

Additionally, if you are relying on the Coolidge effect for your sex drive, what about the rest of the women in your harem? They will be unsatisfied. You'd mostly only be interested in hooking up with the new girl.

The initial question was about having sex more often, not specifically "sex drive". More women = higher seduction rates, plus you can simply build up a habit of having more sex even if you're not feeling it very much, like some people have a habit of jerking it every night even when they're soft.

Edited 3 hours ago by Carl-Richard