The dumbest collective shit test

[BlessedLion]

I think it can be a useful metric early on because to get laid you have be doing something right, unless you're just banging ugly girls (even then), you have to be charsimatic, centered, masculine, able to lead, fun, have courage, and be good with people to get someone in bed. Not saying it is the ultimate truth but there is a correlation between body count and social skills and probably success in general i would guess. Again, not a fact, but correlation.

Also, you can learn a lot about different styles, energies, and vibes in sex. If you've only had say 6 sexual partners, your view of what's possible and what you might resonate with is quite limited. And i don't mean in just a way of trying new things out with the same person, women have quite a range of sexual expression and energies which you only discover through sex.

 

Overall i think it teaches you a lot, but wearing it like some badge for your ego is pretty cringe. I also think it does something to you, as a man it changes you in a fundamental way. You sleep with 100+ women that's going to change you in potent ways that otherwise couldn't happen.

[Schizophonia]

It doesn't matter at all as long as a girl is lovely and normal.

Edited 18 hours ago by Schizophonia

[Jirh]

3 hours ago, Sugarcoat said:

That’s cool a guy like you have capacity to appreciate a hamburger more than some of those guys can appreciate a woman 

Thanks!

I mean you'd expect that to be the standard on a forum that talks about God.

Some people appreciate the breath. I'm generally careless with and unmindful of mine. But it's on my goal list.

Edited yesterday at 07:48 AM by Jirh

[Spiral]

This stuff is easy. Don’t ask, don’t tell.

[LordFall]

9 hours ago, Jirh said:

Have you, really? I'm having a hard time digesting this thought.

You say "incredible women" and then move on to the next dozen, as if nothing happened. That doesn't add up.

Incredible people are rare, and you're claiming to have met like half a dozen already. And you're still looking for more. What are you looking for exactly? If you don't mind me asking.

I think you're exaggerating about the quality of the women you've met, or maybe they were truly incredible and way out of your league that you couldn't keep them around, so you accepted the numbers game as a consolation prize.

For me it felt like I had incredible times with these women and we weren't compatible enough aspects to decide to stay together long term. Doesn't mean that they weren't incredible women and I'm glad I met them and through that temporary love that we shared it fuelled me to want to explore sexuality and dating even more. 

I think that a lot of people that date just one or a few people never really experience the opposite sex, just a little slice of it through that person or not even that person since unless you really introspect and master your psychology you're just mostly operating on your shadow and subconscious. Not to say that some low partner count monogamous couple aren't fulfilled but one I haven't met many if any and two a lot of the relationships I see and hear about clearly show just pathology and scarcity played out in real time. 

To pedestalize that as the epitome of human romantic fulfillment is silly to me. 

9 hours ago, Hojo said:

@LordFall Because you have no idea what is going to happen. The plan isnt a plan it assumes that someone is a resource to farm.

Its like making a plan that you are going to find 100 pumpkins and stick your dick in them.

Making a plan to be in an open relationship is fine, if things happen and you see people and are interested go for it. But to plan to sleep with a specific number of people different.

 

I plan to sleep with 100 woman.

With who? You are planning on sleeping with 100 human woman fuck machine. With no one in it. Its deranged.

You cant have a plan to gather experiences or go places but those are static. The ghost in the machine matters.

I know myself quite well at this point in life. I've been dating and learning about human relationships for 12 years now. My life journey has barely started since my business is starting to take off and I plan on being a digital nomad and travelling the world for the next few years and having incredible experiences with women from countries all over the world. I could for sure meet the most amazing woman I've ever met next week in a festival in Montreal before I ever embark on this journey but I will just ask her to join me and if she's the love of my life she'll be bisexual and we can meet even more incredible women together. 

It seems that you've put yourself in a box my friend and trying to apply this box to myself and dating as a whole. The world is literally infinite and so are the romantic and sexual experiences that you can have. I'd encourage you to go on Reddit and read through the polyamory subreddits and read people's journey in that world and you'll hopefully see that your current perspective is limited and not backed up by any data or research. 

[Hojo]

@LordFall Making a plan to have sex with 100 woman is putting yourself in a box.

'

 if she's the love of my life she'll be bisexual and we can meet even more incredible women together. 

It seems that you've put yourself in a box my friend '

Thats projection.

Me being in a box because I didnt make a plan to sleep with 100 woman is a very strange thought process my friend.

 

Edited 15 hours ago by Hojo

[Sugarcoat]

12 hours ago, Jirh said:

Thanks!

I mean you'd expect that to be the standard on a forum that talks about God.

Some people appreciate the breath. I'm generally careless with and unmindful of mine. But it's on my goal list.

Yea

Lately I’ve been feeling need for deeper breaths, so I can relate to you noticing the breath . It’s interesting  finding these similarities 

[Sugarcoat]

16 hours ago, LordFall said:

@Sugarcoat What exactly do you resonate with? 

Well I thought there was something about that goal of sleeping with certain large number of women that seems disconnected from the present, as if you’re living in some mental timeline more so than the present. Also about the FOMO thing, those two connect. Also about knowing, how you really know you want that many women? Why would a new woman give you a richer experience than deepening what you have with this one woman you are seeing now already? Those are the thoughts I kinda had but he also seemed to point out some of them somehow . 
 

But then maybe there is small minority of people that are genuinely super social and outwardly sexual , it’s genuinely enriching for their mind to be sleeping with more and more people for a while. So maybe what I said doesn’t really apply to them 

Edited 12 hours ago by Sugarcoat

[LordFall]

12 hours ago, Hojo said:

@LordFall Making a plan to have sex with 100 woman is putting yourself in a box.

'

 if she's the love of my life she'll be bisexual and we can meet even more incredible women together. 

It seems that you've put yourself in a box my friend '

Thats projection.

Me being in a box because I didnt make a plan to sleep with 100 woman is a very strange thought process my friend.

 

I said the box point because you seem to have these ideas and apply them universally. I've simply shared what makes sense to me and what makes me happy. Self-awareness is all I'm preaching, if you know yourself and what works for you as well then more power to you. 

 

9 hours ago, Sugarcoat said:

Well I thought there was something about that goal of sleeping with certain large number of women that seems disconnected from the present, as if you’re living in some mental timeline more so than the present. Also about the FOMO thing, those two connect. Also about knowing, how you really know you want that many women? Why would a new woman give you a richer experience than deepening what you have with this one woman you are seeing now already? Those are the thoughts I kinda had but he also seemed to point out some of them somehow . 
 

But then maybe there is small minority of people that are genuinely super social and outwardly sexual , it’s genuinely enriching for their mind to be sleeping with more and more people for a while. So maybe what I said doesn’t really apply to them 

Well it's the path I've put myself on and it's worked out well so far so I'll keep on it was my only point. It could end up being 200 women or a bit less than 100, it's not a hard goal number. More a path towards more sensuality and adventure. 

[Hojo]

@LordFall Im just saying making a plan to sleep with 100 woman dosent make sense. Im not saying its bad. Im saying the thoughts leading up to even think about that are strange, cause it dosent make any sense.

[LordFall]

There are millions of beautiful women in this world. I can't experience them all but a hundred should be a good start into really diving into the feminine. Most men experience not even 5% of what women have to offer. I thank God I learned seduction and social skills to the point where I can mingle with women in a way that my teenage self would only have dreamed of. 

[Hojo]

@LordFall You are missing the most feminine. Letting one woman dominate your being. Surrendering to the woman.

God make woman a thing for a man to fall in love with and give himself to.

There is nothing else man will give himself too. And when he does something in reality, its for a woman.

When man give himself to woman he will realize that it cannot fill his void. Only God can do that.

The most desirable thing beyond food and water is woman. You find the 3rd most desirable thing cannot fill you.

When man see woman will not fill him he will see food and water wont either and then he will give up and see God.

The woman give colour to mans life when he gets full colour and it leaves his life is barren and black and white.

 

You make plan to sleep with 100 woman because you are scared of that.

 

If you make a plan to sleep with 100 woman you can always just go get another one. There is never the one. You wont have to fully give yourself to someone. Which is a spiritual treat that you dont want to miss. Its literally the reason you were born as a man.

Edited 2 hours ago by Hojo

[Sugarcoat]

1 hour ago, LordFall said:

 

Well it's the path I've put myself on and it's worked out well so far so I'll keep on it was my only point. It could end up being 200 women or a bit less than 100, it's not a hard goal number. More a path towards more sensuality and adventure. 

Yea I took a look at your insta and it seems you all are genuinely having fun, it’s not giving those super shallow Dan bilzerian kind of vibes (just my spontaneous thought). So yea there’s natural variation in humans, so there will be some people like you describe, that feel it’s the life path for them right now. It doesn’t sound super rigid for you, so that also suggests it’s more of a natural inclination. So that’s good

You seem you respect those women, so that’s completely different than those guys that get with lots of women but they resent them deep down and are sexist

Edited 2 hours ago by Sugarcoat

[LordFall]

59 minutes ago, Hojo said:

@LordFall You are missing the most feminine. Letting one woman dominate your being. Surrendering to the woman.

God make woman a thing for a man to fall in love with and give himself to.

There is nothing else man will give himself too. And when he does something in reality, its for a woman.

When man give himself to woman he will realize that it cannot fill his void. Only God can do that.

The most desirable thing beyond food and water is woman. You find the 3rd most desirable thing cannot fill you.

When man see woman will not fill him he will see food and water wont either and then he will give up and see God.

The woman give colour to mans life when he gets full colour and it leaves his life is barren and black and white.

 

You make plan to sleep with 100 woman because you are scared of that.

 

If you make a plan to sleep with 100 woman you can always just go get another one. There is never the one. You wont have to fully give yourself to someone. Which is a spiritual treat that you dont want to miss. Its literally the reason you were born as a man.

I disagree I think you're generalizing and projecting but if it works for you then more power to you. 

 

26 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Yea I took a look at your insta and it seems you all are genuinely having fun, it’s not giving those super shallow Dan bilzerian kind of vibes (just my spontaneous thought). So yea there’s natural variation in humans, so there will be some people like you describe, that feel it’s the life path for them right now. It doesn’t sound super rigid for you, so that also suggests it’s more of a natural inclination. So that’s good

You seem you respect those women, so that’s completely different than those guys that get with lots of women but they resent them deep down and are sexist

Thanks you yeah the last few years I have been going hard on social circle events and it's starting to scale and go the way I want it; it's been a good time. No need to resent women, I love them. The more of them you have in your life the happier you'll be. 

Edited 1 hour ago by LordFall

[Natasha Tori Maru]

If body count is your main metric, one consequence could be trading variety for depth and resilience. 

Obviously not always - but there are tradeoffs to everything in life.

I personally think it is a stupid materialist and egoic attachment.

[Valach]

Personally I have never met a person whom I would consider mature and conscious who prioritized sex and slept around a lot. Simply does not happen too much in my experience. 

Edited 9 minutes ago by Valach