The dumbest collective shit test

[Sugarcoat]

2 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

She's probably an uninteresting sociopath

Healthier than entire porn industry at least 🤷🏻‍♀️

Edited 1 hour ago by Sugarcoat

[Jirh]

@LordFall No, I genuinely just don't feel the romantic spark until I'm close and intimate with the girl (requires knowing her on a soul level), and by necessity that doesn't happen instantly. It happens with time and proximity. Deep feelings develop over time. That's just how it worked for me. I'm attracted to authenticity and vulnerability. Pickup, small talk, and one night stand offer neither.

I tired pickup but didn't have much success with it. It doesn't feel compatible with my biology. Like I'm forcing something to happen that shouldn't. Even if a girl approached me (and it happened before I even tried pickup), I couldn't operate under that paradigm.

[Sugarcoat]

3 hours ago, something_else said:

It's how I got to over 100 partners, lol

Never had an STD, unwanted pregnancy, and I've also had two healthy long term (3+ year) relationships as well.

Its  mysterious to me how the mind of someone who would wanna do that with so many people works...

[integral]

4 minutes ago, LordFall said:

People's personalities are very weak and malleable. If you were truly a solid in yours(not saying that I'm fully there yet) then their nonsense would roll off of you and you would be able to put clear boundaries where the problematic behaviours lie and inspire towards elevating themselves if you could successfully demonstrate that your perspective is truly higher consciousness. 

Yes it's possible some of the time. Most people do not change in relationships and they will always default back to their unhealthy state weekly.

So it always ends up being a game of repeating the same boundaries over and over again. It never sticks.

This is why you have to find mature people to date and be highly selective.

It's not good enough to be mature yourself.