The dumbest collective shit test

[BlessedLion]

I think it can be a useful metric early on because to get laid you have be doing something right, unless you're just banging ugly girls (even then), you have to be charsimatic, centered, masculine, able to lead, fun, have courage, and be good with people to get someone in bed. Not saying it is the ultimate truth but there is a correlation between body count and social skills and probably success in general i would guess. Again, not a fact, but correlation.

Also, you can learn a lot about different styles, energies, and vibes in sex. If you've only had say 6 sexual partners, your view of what's possible and what you might resonate with is quite limited. And i don't mean in just a way of trying new things out with the same person, women have quite a range of sexual expression and energies which you only discover through sex.

 

Overall i think it teaches you a lot, but wearing it like some badge for your ego is pretty cringe. I also think it does something to you, as a man it changes you in a fundamental way. You sleep with 100+ women that's going to change you in potent ways that otherwise couldn't happen.

[Schizophonia]

It doesn't matter at all as long as a girl is lovely and normal.

Edited 57 minutes ago by Schizophonia

[Jirh]

3 hours ago, Sugarcoat said:

That’s cool a guy like you have capacity to appreciate a hamburger more than some of those guys can appreciate a woman 

Thanks!

I mean you'd expect that to be the standard on a forum that talks about God.

Some people appreciate the breath. I'm generally careless with and unmindful of mine. But it's on my goal list.

Edited 8 hours ago by Jirh

[Spiral]

This stuff is easy. Don’t ask, don’t tell.

[LordFall]

9 hours ago, Jirh said:

Have you, really? I'm having a hard time digesting this thought.

You say "incredible women" and then move on to the next dozen, as if nothing happened. That doesn't add up.

Incredible people are rare, and you're claiming to have met like half a dozen already. And you're still looking for more. What are you looking for exactly? If you don't mind me asking.

I think you're exaggerating about the quality of the women you've met, or maybe they were truly incredible and way out of your league that you couldn't keep them around, so you accepted the numbers game as a consolation prize.

For me it felt like I had incredible times with these women and we weren't compatible enough aspects to decide to stay together long term. Doesn't mean that they weren't incredible women and I'm glad I met them and through that temporary love that we shared it fuelled me to want to explore sexuality and dating even more. 

I think that a lot of people that date just one or a few people never really experience the opposite sex, just a little slice of it through that person or not even that person since unless you really introspect and master your psychology you're just mostly operating on your shadow and subconscious. Not to say that some low partner count monogamous couple aren't fulfilled but one I haven't met many if any and two a lot of the relationships I see and hear about clearly show just pathology and scarcity played out in real time. 

To pedestalize that as the epitome of human romantic fulfillment is silly to me. 

9 hours ago, Hojo said:

@LordFall Because you have no idea what is going to happen. The plan isnt a plan it assumes that someone is a resource to farm.

Its like making a plan that you are going to find 100 pumpkins and stick your dick in them.

Making a plan to be in an open relationship is fine, if things happen and you see people and are interested go for it. But to plan to sleep with a specific number of people different.

 

I plan to sleep with 100 woman.

With who? You are planning on sleeping with 100 human woman fuck machine. With no one in it. Its deranged.

You cant have a plan to gather experiences or go places but those are static. The ghost in the machine matters.

I know myself quite well at this point in life. I've been dating and learning about human relationships for 12 years now. My life journey has barely started since my business is starting to take off and I plan on being a digital nomad and travelling the world for the next few years and having incredible experiences with women from countries all over the world. I could for sure meet the most amazing woman I've ever met next week in a festival in Montreal before I ever embark on this journey but I will just ask her to join me and if she's the love of my life she'll be bisexual and we can meet even more incredible women together. 

It seems that you've put yourself in a box my friend and trying to apply this box to myself and dating as a whole. The world is literally infinite and so are the romantic and sexual experiences that you can have. I'd encourage you to go on Reddit and read through the polyamory subreddits and read people's journey in that world and you'll hopefully see that your current perspective is limited and not backed up by any data or research.