Is reincarnation real?

[Never_give_up]

I don't like my life anymore. I have very low IQ, I don't want to live like that anymore. My life is a series of failures. I want to go to the next life. Does such thing exist?

Are we eternal beings with eternal reincarnations?

Shouldn't people like me try to go to the next life?

 

This is all hypothetical, so please don't delete this question, I really NEED information. 

[Monster Energy]

Your name doesn’t suit you.

And yes, rebirth does exist.

But you shouldn’t live your life focused on some future reality that isn’t here yet.

You should live in the present instead of getting lost in thoughts about a better life after death.

 

[Carl-Richard]

You'll become a mosquito or earthworm in the next life if you try to cheat.

[Never_give_up]

@Monster EnergyCan I confirm this about reincarnation in any way?

@Carl-Richardis this a joke or it's real situation? sorry for not understanding if this is humour, I am autistic, I have trouble understanding this stuff. 

[YIDIRYIDIR]

Hey man, I’m gonna answer you honestly, what you wrote doesn’t sound like a curiosity about reincarnation, it sounds like you’re exhausted and feel stuck in a life where you think you’re ‘less than’ others and hate your life, I get it.

Those are just beliefs and interpretations, and they're doing way more damage than any actual limitation you might have. There are people with average or even below-average intelligence who build solid, meaningful lives because they focus on what they can control instead of labeling themselves and giving up. I get it, it can feel hopeless sometimes and your feelings are valid, but what's not valid is your interpretation of it and having that attitude/mindset.

About ‘going to the next life’, nobody actually knows what happens after death. At least I don't know myself, and I don't think that's the right thing to think about right now.

What’s real is this life, right now. And the fact that you’re here asking this means some part of you still wants things to be different, not just over.
And that part matters.

With enough understanding, better perspective, and time, people can completely change the way they see themselves and their life. This is not just lame motivational talk; it’s something you can actually observe. Your current story about yourself isn’t fixed. It’s something your mind built from past experiences, and it can be updated and changed. you can interpret things differently, see what lessons you learned, see what opportunities you have.

But for that to happen, you need at least a bit of openness to the idea that things can improve. Not blind positivity, just enough optimism to stop reinforcing the idea that you’re stuck forever.

Also, your self-worth being tied to past failures is a trap. Past outcomes don’t define what you’re capable of becoming and who you are. you can train yourself to not believe that.

Here’s what’s not real:

• “My IQ completely determines whether my life is worth living.”
• “Because I’ve failed before, I’ll always fail.”
• “My current situation is permanent.”
• “There’s no way for me to feel better or build something meaningful.”
• “The only way out of this feeling is to leave this life.”
• "I suck and I'm not worthy"

Here’s what is real:

• You don’t fully know what you’re capable of yet.
• yourself worth and self-esteem are flexible things and are not tied to past or present situations.
• Your mind is interpreting your life in a very harsh, fixed way. and that can change.
• People in similar or worse situations have found ways to build lives they don’t hate. (speaking from experience)
• You have some level of agency, even if it’s not absolute.
• Change is possible, but it starts with small shifts in perspective and action.

You’re not the only one who has felt like this, even if it feels like it right now. If things feel this heavy, talking to someone in real life, even just one person, can help more than trying to solve everything alone in your head.

[Mellowmarsh]

8 hours ago, Never_give_up said:

I don't like my life anymore. I have very low IQ, I don't want to live like that anymore. My life is a series of failures. I want to go to the next life. Does such thing exist?

Are we eternal beings with eternal reincarnations?

Shouldn't people like me try to go to the next life?

 

This is all hypothetical, so please don't delete this question, I really NEED information. 

Most people don’t like their life, you’re not alone.

To assuage their existential dreads people dream about Gods and spiritual refuges where they can feel their lives have been blessed with special purpose and meaning.

If we can’t accept the life we’ve already got, what makes us believe another life would be any different?

Also, if reincarnation was actually knowable to anyone, then you’re sure to find out when reincarnation happens to you. Until it actually happens, what’s the point in talking about it? It’ll surely become real to you only when it is meant to happen and not one second before. 

[caspex]

The world is an excellent accountant. The same problems will repeat until you solve them. Escape is not an option. 

This fact should make you feel relieved instead of trapped. Because this implies a 100% success rate given enough time. 

Life can fucking suck but it's always temporary. Once a pattern repeats enough times you figure out how to solve it.

[Wilhelm44]

1 hour ago, caspex said:

The world is an excellent accountant. The same problems will repeat until you solve them. Escape is not an option. 

This fact should make you feel relieved instead of trapped. Because this implies a 100% success rate given enough time. 

Life can fucking suck but it's always temporary. Once a pattern repeats enough times you figure out how to solve it.

Brilliant.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

There's a lot of cases that have been investigated. 

I've shared this before, but it is quite a compelling listen! Enjoy 😃

https://youtu.be/4RGizqsLumo?si=qgfH1G2JQeAJjFaP

[Ziran]

14 hours ago, Never_give_up said:

Are we eternal beings with eternal reincarnations?

yes

14 hours ago, Never_give_up said:

Shouldn't people like me try to go to the next life?

no

14 hours ago, Never_give_up said:

I don't like my life anymore. I have very low IQ, I don't want to live like that anymore. My life is a series of failures. I want to go to the next life. Does such thing exist?

It doesn't work that way.

The "you" which is described above is a confluence of affinities, aversions, talents, and flaws.  Where ever "you" find yourself, here or there, before or after, you will always possess these attributes.  Lacking any of these, it wouldn't be "you".  It would be another individual.  If it's true that you are lacking intellectually, then avoid intellectual pursuits.  Instead turn towards art, poetry, music, athletics, comedy, construction, care-giving, ... etc.  

[Breakingthewall]

@Never_give_up

I don't know if reincarnation is real or not, and I guess nobody knows. The point is, you have this one life, so you can try to live it as best you can. What's important isn't IQ, but authenticity, courage, and perseverance. These qualities can be acquired if you're truly committed to yourself. Just don't give up never. That's what life means

[gettoefl]

For me there are two attitudes to life - gratitude and entitlement. I deserve all this and please feed me more despite hardly having lifted a finger vs. I have been afforded an incredible opportunity at the best time ever and I am in awe and humbled that I get to reside in this astonishing body. Entitled people blame their providers and want to quit when the chips are down while grateful people are standing on the shoulders of giants and marvel at the sweat blood and tears that brought them to this moment in time.

And which you are is a choice.

Edited Monday at 01:18 PM by gettoefl

[Hasson_Miah]

On 04/05/2026 at 6:55 AM, caspex said:

The world is an excellent accountant. The same problems will repeat until you solve them. Escape is not an option. 

This fact should make you feel relieved instead of trapped. Because this implies a 100% success rate given enough time. 

Life can fucking suck but it's always temporary. Once a pattern repeats enough times you figure out how to solve it.

love this.

[Inliytened1]

On 5/3/2026 at 3:51 PM, Never_give_up said:

I don't like my life anymore. I have very low IQ, I don't want to live like that anymore. My life is a series of failures. I want to go to the next life. Does such thing exist?

Are we eternal beings with eternal reincarnations?

Shouldn't people like me try to go to the next life?

 

This is all hypothetical, so please don't delete this question, I really NEED information. 

Now is all that exists.  Past, future, even time, are imaginary. 

Edited yesterday at 04:18 AM by Inliytened1

[Someone here]

The way I understand reincarnation is through the cycle of nature itself. Water evaporates upward..forms clouds..and then returns to the earth as rain. The rain seeps into the soil..and with nutrients from the earth and energy from sunlight..plants begin to grow  .for example a corn. A chicken raised on a farm eats the corn. Then your father eats the chicken..and over time that energy and matter become part of his body then contributing to the creation of a drop of semen. He mates with your mother..the sperm meets the egg and you begin to form as a fetus. you are born as a baby and the process continues again in one form or another.

In this sense reincarnation is simply the transformation of matter and life from one state to another. You are not separate from the universe  ..you are part of it and in a way you are made from everything that came before you. So to me reincarnation is not necessarily something mystical or woo woo . It isthe natural process of existence continuously changing form.

 

Edited 2 hours ago by Someone here

[Carl-Richard]

On 3.5.2026 at 11:11 PM, Never_give_up said:

@Carl-Richardis this a joke or it's real situation? sorry for not understanding if this is humour, I am autistic, I have trouble understanding this stuff. 

What does taking your life to try to advance in a next life signify? It's an earthworm digging itself into the ground, or a mosquito trying to suck the blood of reality.

It's probably not meant to be taken literally, but the trend is that stuck patterns perpetuate themselves, and the way out is "through". If you decide your life is not worth living, that's a pattern you probably will have to work through in your next life, unless you work it out in this life.

[Carl-Richard]

@Never_give_up

Also, beware that it's not "you" that reincarnates (you as the ego-mind-body complex, what you think you are). "You" will die, "you" will disintegrate, "you" will become nothing. That is ultimately what you are. And then what reincarnates is a seeming husk of whatever carries the life-force that births the ego-mind-body complex. And then this husk is what connects you to prior ego-body-mind complexes associated with it (but as far as you are concerned, basically only retroactively were you to recall a past-life memory). If you are heavily identified with your current mind and body, physical death will feel like true death to you. You will feel like you're disappearing forever. The experience of death can be quite real for definitely most people.

So using reincarnation as some insurance against whatever fears and desires you have, that's ultimately futile, because you will have to face all of it, and the nature of the thing you think you are right now will vanish, relinquished to the memory of nature.

Edited 1 hour ago by Carl-Richard