Rape Academy Case

[Natasha Tori Maru]

3 minutes ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

But character judgements and attacks are woven into these types of topics. At this point it should be obvious that it's impossible to go without them, maybe you can limit their severity but that's about it

If you cannot argue a case without resorting to a statement about that person's character - you will struggle to convincingly argue a case. You are simply going to lose the person. It ends up being about assuaging some feeling. There are a few exceptions, I will grant that - when credibility is relevant. In leadership and ethics someone's integrity can be assessed etc

But the type of character judgements I am seeing here are not it. If you make a character judgement and it is indeed relevant, it cannot be done in the disappointing manner it is here. People on both sides are expressing disgust. No need.

[Rafael Thundercat]

1 hour ago, Optimized Life said:

You are exactly the type of woman that any man of any self respect avoids and runs away from like the plague. 

Its clear to me from several of your posts that you are mentally deranged, not in an sympathetic way either. 

You obviously have a lot of grudges against men and society and your energy sucks, the way you talk its so over

Imagine dating a woman like you with that vibe, pure fucking hell on earth. 

"Women need to have very high standards" blahblah, because in your narcissistic ego-maniacal brain, women are the only perspective that matters, women are the choosers, women have the "high standards" ect.. but the irony is that actually MEN need to increase their standards, and stop dating ugly parasitic misandrist freaks like you.  Theres nothing normal about the way you talk about men and society, its fucking weird, go get a fucking therapist you freak. 

You see @Leo Gura, this is what I was talking about. Men jumping from nowhere already with knife and Teeth sharped, in attacks on comments. And yoi come to calling me a White- Knigth? Give me a Break, you forum is a mess.

 

 

[Leo Gura]

1 hour ago, Optimized Life said:

go get a fucking therapist you freak. 

Do not speak to her that way. She has a different perspective than you but she is quite reasonable and openminded.

Don't make women feel unwelcome here.

Edited 21 hours ago by Leo Gura

[Alexop]

Again and again Leo has to tell you guys how stuff really are about men and women and so many people don't understand.

Dudes. Check some history, and stop watching leftist bullshit pseudo science and pseudo philosophy. There is NO good evidence men and women are somewhat the same, it is just a wish. Even after 40 years of brainwashing, Sweden still did not manage to make them behave the same, it fact I would say they are even more different here.

99% of human history is war and violence, and mens roles was to protect women and children from other violent men. Of course our biology split apart In this kind of brutal survival environment.

Edited 21 hours ago by Alexop

[Breakingthewall]

11 hours ago, Lila9 said:

But we have a frontal cortex, remember? We can use it. The more we use it for reasoning and critical thinking, introspection, self management and self awareness the more developed it becomes.

And we also have the capacity to imagine a better world and actualize it.

11 hours ago, Lila9 said:

 

Sure, but to do that correctly we have to understand the human nature on real . If we assume that everything is a matter of education or socialization we are confusing the symptom with the sickness.

If the humans would be integral, without feeling of lack, without the need of sustaining a self image to be accepted by others and by themselves, then most of the human social problems would be solved, but this is not the way than humans are right now. There is an evolutionary process that has its own rithm. It's good to push in the right direction, but for that we must understand what we are, not being idealistic. 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

My personal wish? Snap my fingers for a day. Both sexes get the opposite version body for a day.

Women would realise just how irrationally overriding mens carnal desires can be.

Men would understand how much fear, concern for safety, and vulnerability women experience.

None of these basic instincts justify any sort of poor behaviour. But it might be eye opening !

[Alexop]

16 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

My personal wish? Snap my fingers for a day. Both sexes get the opposite version body for a day.

Women would realise just how irrationally overriding mens carnal desires can be.

Men would understand how much fear, concern for safety, and vulnerability women experience.

None of these basic instincts justify any sort of poor behaviour. But it might be eye opening !

Yes. And that is what I was working on for the last 10 years. Understanding how much fear and helplessness women experience and taking care that does not happen when I am around.

Edited 21 hours ago by Alexop

[Alexop]

Leftists just want peace and understanding among people but the results cand be the opposite. This sameness ideology creates even more hate and misogyny in society. Men come up and say they see a 9, women come up and say it is a 6, then it degenerates into: "go and see a therapist you freak!"; "go back and live under the rock you came from you neanderthal!".

Edited 20 hours ago by Alexop

[Hayato]

3 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

My personal wish? Snap my fingers for a day. Both sexes get the opposite version body for a day.

How about the opposite version body for a lifetime, in other words - reincarnation.

[Opulence]

4 hours ago, Alexop said:

Yes. And that is what I was working on for the last 10 years. Understanding how much fear and helplessness women experience and taking care that does not happen when I am around.

That's a lot of work. 

[Basman]

8 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

My personal wish? Snap my fingers for a day. Both sexes get the opposite version body for a day.

Suddenly half of humanity are pregnant. 

[Rafael Thundercat]

Unrelated on content by related on on point. Why exposure and still no convicted, no prision, nothing?

 

[Willy Phallicus]

1 hour ago, Rafael Thundercat said:

Why exposure and still no convicted, no prision, nothing?

Bread and circuses.

[enchanted]

On 19/04/2026 at 10:28 PM, Natasha Tori Maru said:

I have read that book - really good. Highly recommended! You have a really good balanced view on this topic, and I always appreciate the content you share regarding it. I see tons of men shamed for being low sex drive or asexual. I see women shamed for expressing open sexuality or high sex drive.

This topic is a difficult one because the domains of power do not pivot around a single axis - quite the contrary.

It is not as simple as physical strength vs weakness. Childbirth vs not. Logic vs feeling. Most of the troubles isolating the problems are domain and category issues. You can see it in this thread - it is getting messy and all over the place because of the multi-axis reality of the problem which is where analysis breaks.

 

Thanks for saying that. Im interested in understanding all perspectives regarding any topic. You are a great moderator and you bring a lot of value to the forum. 

[lostingenosmaze]

@Basman

 

Edited 1 hour ago by lostingenosmaze

[Raze]

15 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

My personal wish? Snap my fingers for a day. Both sexes get the opposite version body for a day.

Women would realise just how irrationally overriding mens carnal desires can be.

Men would understand how much fear, concern for safety, and vulnerability women experience.

None of these basic instincts justify any sort of poor behaviour. But it might be eye opening !

A woman once did an experiment where she lived as a man 

 

 

[Uddi]

On 4/20/2026 at 8:28 PM, Leo Gura said:

Guys, argue your points without personal attacks or insults.

Just because someone has a different view on an issue doesn't make them sick or evil. We need to get beyond such kinds of dialogue.

I have a better idea. Treat everyone like how you wanted to be treated because EVERYONE is YOU! So therefore the way you treat others, you are literally treating yourself automatically! Oh btw I am not getting any notifications despite enabling them on several posts. Can you fix that soon @Leo Gura ?

[Nivsch]

The thing is that even when people heavily objectify the other side it also comes from vulnerability, the need to not stay 'behind', to accumulate experience and yes, to feel loved, seen and valued.

It takes time until a person can relax enough to start seeing the other person as a whole and balance those two poles. Sometimes people even alternate between those poles in different stages of their lives.

Seeing the other person from the physical filter is healthy and natural, when the question is about degree and not the trait itself.

Edited 1 hour ago by Nivsch