Ryan M

Just Went Through A Breakup, Need Some Certainty

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I just broke up with my girlfriend that i've been with for 5 years and honestly one of the hardest part about it is not knowing when I'll find a new girlfriend. It's not something I'm trying to rush into as fast as possible, I realize I need some time, but I feel like as a guy it's easy to think that the rest of my life will be nothing but struggle and rejections when it comes to dating lol. I have a lot going for me -- I live in Las Vegas, 33 years old, good looking, make multiple 6 figures online and can basically do anything at anytime, but I'm wondering how I'm even supposed to meet a bunch of attractive girls that I could go on some dates with.. Am I supposed to supposed to find wingmen and talk to 100s or 1000s of girls on Fremont and on the strip just to have a dating life? The only way I could see a guy getting girls is to life a pickup-artist lifestyle where you go out of your way to talk to an insane amount of girls, or have some big advantage like working in nightlife basically. Anything online isn't very useful because it's not like you can match with attractive girls on dating apps or DM girls on Instagram and expect them to respond really lol. Being a single guy is so weird, even when I have a lot going for myself, I feel like the only path is to start doing pickup which feels kind of low value in a way. Other than that I can try to make a bunch of friends and meet girls through a social circle but that seems like a low probability way to meet a girl that's just your type. What should I do and what should be my mindset throughout all of this to have any sort of confidence that it will all work out?

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@Ryan M If you make that much money, you should be able to set up a social circle situation.

Network in Vegas and use your money to attend events where you can meet women. You could also host events.

Get creative.

 


"Finding your reason can be so deceiving, a subliminal place. 

I will not break, 'cause I've been riding the curves of these infinity words and so I'll be on my way. I will not stay.

 And it goes On and On, On and On"

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Making 6 figures online and living in the US? Think about moving out or travelling a bit.

Colombia, Brazil, Eastern Europe, Indonesia, Taiwan.

You will have a lot of fun on this places.

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@Ryan M figure out which groups have the most women in them and join them and act interested.

Smile the whole time and say im so excited to be here. This is so interesting.

Then trip over your own shoe lace make a big scene and say darn it.

Edited by Hojo

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10 hours ago, Ryan M said:

I just broke up with my girlfriend that i've been with for 5 years and honestly one of the hardest part about it is not knowing when I'll find a new girlfriend.

My 50 cents:

Your problem and your solution lies in this first sentence. 

Forget about else you wrote, that's just stories you adapted to distract yourself. 

Edited by theleelajoker

Here are smart words that present my apparent identity but don't mean anything. At all. 

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